Family - February 2007

How many times must I ask 2 do somethin with u but only b denyed 4 other thing r more important. How much do I need 2 tell u 2 give u understanding on the person i am. How many times & yrs did it take 2 realize & believe me in when I told u I was alone. How many bruises does it take till u stop the beatings & uncalled violence from my brother. How much more happiness brought apon me must u take away, how many more tears must i cry at night till u stop tellin me 2 stop & go back 2 sleep & realize somthins wrong, how much should i share w/ u when drunk & yell the hatred i feel 4 u until u realize i want nothin from u, how many times must u slap me 4 being honest 2 only get a bloody & bruised lip in return, how many times must I say I hate being home & coming home full of anger till u realize my fight for escape?

2007-02-22 17:17:45 · 6 answers · asked by Ellen B 1

If custody of a child is shared and the child is in each home 1/2 of each week Do you feel anyone should have to pay child support and why?

2007-02-22 17:04:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a P.V.A. (product of violent assault) child who's mother got raped and had him to give him up for adoption.
Under Ca. Law adopting parents must be informed of is P.V.A. status under the full disclosure laws at the time, that said he did not get adopted and was a ward of state growing up until he join Navy!

His mother ask by third party if he would donate bone marrow 8 yrs. ago , so he did , then again through 3rd party ask if he would again give bone marrow, and once again he did, and we paid our end of procedure 6yrs ago. 5 years ago he was ask to donate skin by his mother through 3rd party and he did took it around the waist he joked instead tummy tuck. Now once again through 3rd party he's been asked to give part of his liver for a sibling and he has agreed but my husband has problems eating animal protein so he eats very little meat and has to take these horrible protein horse pills twice a day that make him sick , and has many side effect as well. --- part 2.

2007-02-22 17:03:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

for those of you who seen Drake's I got spanked!!!!! Listen people parents need/HAVE to be in control at all times!!!! the fact that this boy has such an anger problems indicates to me that someone else in his family also does...most the time kids learn that somewhere...if he didn't learn it from his parents then maybe something more is going on at school....telling him he was what he deserved and such is NOT gonna help him to calm down at this point! this family needs help ALL of them...it shows me that at least the day has a probelm keeping control of his anger to.....

when you 'displine' a child cuz it makes you feel better...well that's when it becomes ABUSE!!!!!!!

2007-02-22 16:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by mrs_b40 3

how do i say no to family that cant help themselves. i feel like a doormat for my husbands family and i dont know how to say no when these people are very pesitant.

2007-02-22 16:30:05 · 9 answers · asked by fazugosgirl 2

My older brother has been a known drug addict for as long as I can remember. He was the problem child. My Middle brother is a doctor. I'm well off myself making good money and taking care of my father. We've done everything we could for him. Given him money...housing. Helped as much as we could. He was never there for our mother who had cancer before she died. I think my father has disowned him. He hardly talks to him. Recently while I was at his house staying there with his g/f staying a couple of days before heading to Florida. He beat up my friend (Who is the sister I never had). Smashed her hand in the door...and choked her. I seen the scares on her hands and the red finger marks on her neck before the cops got there. I wanted to KICK HIS A$$ so bad after finding out about it. But Didn't. I got her out of there and put her in a motel room till we could leave for Florida where her husband is at. What would you have done? Should I disown him or not? I'm confused!!

2007-02-22 16:27:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get some and fear my disclosure will ruin my chances. Plus I don't want to ruin the romantic mood by talking about outbreaks and things like that. Please advise.

2007-02-22 16:23:42 · 37 answers · asked by Mark S 1

my mom went to India today because of her sister's death she's going to be gone for 20 days it's only began about 5 hours since she left. I started missing her a half hour after she left. I just really want her to come home, what can I do to not miss her so much? Oh yeah I'm 12 years old.

2007-02-22 16:14:12 · 26 answers · asked by Blarhbhb 2

it's a very complicated situation but basically, my 20 yr old daughter prefers her grandmother (father's side) to me. she is having minor dental surgery soon and has asked her grandma to take her instead of me. I asked why? and she said she wanted her to take her. should I tell her I feel hurt that she has shun me? this is not the first time that she has done this.
she only comes to me when she wants money, otherwise it's grandma this and that all the time
I feel jealous and betrayed as well. I am her mother. why can't the grandma turn her down. doesn't she realize that this is MY daughter not hers?
i am divorced from her father and she shuns him too.
why grandma? i have wondered if she feels more comfortable on a neutral side perhaps? i have tried to talk to her about it but she won't talk about it.
as well, I don't really like this family- i left the ex and family cuz they are alcoholics and tried to ruin my life and now are doing the same with my kids

2007-02-22 16:04:38 · 21 answers · asked by Wild Honey 4

...like just running?

I'm adopted and my real parents don't want anything to do with me, and neither does my adoptive mother. Long story...

I wish I had a family, and while I'm getting married in four weeks, I feel that I should be a better person and not have all this trouble for my fiance to deal with.

I wish I had a parent who wants to give me away, but I don't and I feel childish for wanting more people on the "brides side of the church".

Am I being selfish for feeling sorry for myself?

2007-02-22 16:04:32 · 6 answers · asked by toe_jam_on_toast 3

Okay if u didn't read my story then u need to go back and read it first other wise, this won't make since. I followed ur advice and apologized to my mom and dad for pushing my mom and that my dad had to spank me. Well, they FORGAVE me apparently and then informed me that im going to spend the rest of my high school years at Hardgrave Military Academy, I was so mad that Started yelling. My mom tried to hug me but I pushed her away and spit in her face. My dad got really angry and grabbed me I was telling him to go away and pushing him. He really just lost it, he immediantly took my to my room and slammed the door. He pulled down my bball shorts and boxers pinned me down on the side of my bed and started whipping my butt really hard with it. I have no idea how many spanks that was but it hurt like hell and he wouldn't let me and kept going. When he stopped he threw his belt at my wall and slammed my door behind him. All I did was lay on my stomach, crying, and rub my butt.

2007-02-22 15:58:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

We (Boyfriend and our son and me) decided to get a house with my mom we are not living @ her house it is rented by all of us...anyway the lady who rents us the house is kind of friends with my mom.The lady said no pets when we moved in. I have been really wanting to get a dog. I am a stay @ home mom so it would not be home alone ever. Lalala So I decided to ask my mom if she would ask the lady since we (BF baby and me) are moving out in a few months if it would be a problem if we got one...a few hours before she called the lady my Brother was over and happened to ask why we didn't have a dog (he didn't know we couldn't) and my mom tell him I wanted her to ask if we could have one. But THEN She says this "if it were a dog I was getting then Iwould really fight to get it" She knows how important a dog is to me and my BF! then when she talked to the lady she didnt metion anything I asked her too! xtra $ we are willing to pay me @ home all the time the dog is house trained and spayed!!!!

2007-02-22 15:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by punkmommy-2-1 2

i neeeed help my mom havent come yet and she went to work at 2:30 am but sh has 2 jobs and it is late and she havent come back and from one job she got out at 10:00 am and the other one at 5:30pm and it is almost 12:00 and she havent come what do i do?

2007-02-22 15:48:57 · 4 answers · asked by ((¯`•¸·´¯)Canovanas(¯`·¸•´¯)) 1

2007-02-22 15:47:34 · 5 answers · asked by Stressing Susan 1

I am 25 and recently had surgery and moved back home with my mom and dad temporarily so they could help me while I recover. My 33 year old brother still lives at home with them permanently. He is a recovering alcoholic and drug addict, who suffers from depression. Classic case I suppose. When I was younger and had surgery he stole my pain medication, but only came clean years later that he was the one who took it. (We didn't know he had a drug problem at that time.) Well, he did it again this time. I thought I hid my medication well enough, but apparently I didn't. I was writing how many pills were in each bottle on the actual bottle, but he still stole them. I refuse to ever speak to him again. I am having another surgery in a few weeks and I need my parent's help, but they have refused to kick him out, even temporarily while I recover. If I go back to my apt I don't have anyone to help me and I am going to need help. Can anyone out there give me some advice on what to do?

2007-02-22 15:44:16 · 18 answers · asked by pobrecita 5

okay. hi, my name is matt. i am 12 year old seventh grader but everybody and i mean everybody thinks i am 14 or older. i am very into nike skateboard shoes because i skateboard way more than a lot. there are these really cool black and little blue checkered nike skate shoes on pickyourshoes.com. i really want to buy these shoes but i know when i ask my mom, my mom will be saying that she does not trust the internet. it is my money that i want to use. how can i convince her. this is an limited edition nike legends that are not sold in stores and they are only 73 dollars on this website plus tax and shipping and handling. how can i convince my mom to allow me to order off the internet. everytime that i am going to buy a shoe, my mom makes me try it out and i don't got the chance to do that. how can i prove to my mom that it is safe to buy off the internet. my mom doesn't and never will trust the internet. and same with my dad.

2007-02-22 15:33:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our laundry room is in our bathroom,
so my underwear's there alot...
I time i walked in and my brother was rubbing his _____
with my panties, i always find *** stains
on my clothes what should i do?

2007-02-22 15:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by Marcy C 1

2007-02-22 15:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by MOM 1

My name is Drake S. and im 15( almost 16 yrs old) I got into some bad stuff at school and my parents had to pick me up, I beat up a kid and got caught smoking. When I got out of the car my mom toled me I was grounded. I got realllllllllllyyyyyyyyy mad and pushed her down. My dad freaked out and helped her up. He looked realy angry and toled me to go to my room and that he would deal with me later. I said no im gonna go play ball with the guys. I start to walk away and he grabbed my arm and pinned me down on the front of the car. I noticed he was taking of his belt and I toled him to let him up. He folded his belt and whipped my butt adleast 20 somethin times. I was cussin him out at first and then it really started to sting and I accusually cried. I haven't go spanked since I was 12 and it was from my mom. When my dad stopped hitting me he pulled me up and looked me in the eye and said You see what u made me do. He looked like he had tears in his eyes. i SHOULDN'T OF GOT SPANKED!!!!

2007-02-22 15:03:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My name is Drake S. and im 15( almost 16 yrs old) I got into some bad stuff at school and my parents had to pick me up, I beat up a kid and got caught smoking. When I got out of the car my mom toled me I was grounded. I got realllllllllllyyyyyyyyy mad and pushed her down. My dad freaked out and helped her up. He looked realy angry and toled me to go to my room and that he would deal with me later. I said no im gonna go play ball with the guys. I start to walk away and he grabbed my arm and pinned me down on the front of the car. I noticed he was taking of his belt and I toled him to let him up. He folded his belt and whipped my butt adleast 20 somethin times. I was cussin him out at first and then it really started to sting and I accusually cried. I haven't go spanked since I was 12 and it was from my mom. When my dad stopped hitting me he pulled me up and looked me in the eye and said You see what u made me do. He looked like he had tears in his eyes. i SHOULDN'T OF BEEN SPANKED!!!!

2007-02-22 14:59:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 21 year old sister is living with her boyfriend, something my parents know nothing about. We traveled down 4 hours to see another sister whose son is having emergency surgery and her boyfriend came down with her. We are really uncomfortable with this situation. She's never been so obvious before. They're staying in a hotel together. She expects us to be happy for her, b ut we're a pretty conservative family and not going to be happy for anyone living with their boyfriends. How should we react to this? When I didn't seem really happy with her, she asked what was wrong and I can't be happy about the situation. Isn't this disrespectful towards my parents?

We don't want to come down hard because that could create a risk, and it is her life. Why does she want us to be happy about it?

No one has said anything to her about this because we are worried about my nephew's surgery, but what about in the future?

2007-02-22 14:42:50 · 10 answers · asked by svs_g 4

I am putting together a book for my dads 70th birthday with letters from friends and family that they have written about my father. I have also obtained pictures of my father from when he was young to present day. Does anyone have any ideas how to make it into a real book? Kinkos maybe...I really have no clue. Help! I only have a few weeks left!

2007-02-22 14:39:08 · 3 answers · asked by michelle a 1

anyone had same experience? any advice?

2007-02-22 14:24:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really dont want to live with my dad anymore I hate him hes mean and calls me swear words and I really want to leave but my mom woulnt come and pick me up.

2007-02-22 14:17:12 · 9 answers · asked by Becca 2

A young woman of only 21 newly married was born to a family that didn't accept her and abused her... she lets them all go , leaving her with no family, but they never treated her right anyway, so it's for the better... she is now married, unhappily surprised that the marriage fizzled so quickly, and still not over her first love, in fact she still dreams of him... her 1/2 sister she barely knows is having trouble with her life, just a girl of 15... her father wants to send her to a juvenile hall or their shared deadbeat mother... instead she is to live with you... it doesn't happen, but now she wants to kill herself and your the only one that can help but you just found out your pregnant and terribly ill and meanwhile your stuck left fulfilling an obligatory length of time in a job that treats you like **** and just last week you find out they're trying to fire you... You have no friends- no time, no family and a husband you can't connect with... what do you do?

Serious answers onl

2007-02-22 14:14:46 · 1 answers · asked by Alexia S 1

I couldnt find a Cd of mines for two days and my fiancee kept saying Im crazy to look for it , then when I came home he told me that his daughter confessed she had my tape. He said I am stupid and crazy for calling it stealing he considers it borrowing it.

2007-02-22 14:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by kikilee 2

I'm helping my friend find his Dad. I want to know how i can do this for free or at a low cost. i know his 1st and last name, is that enough?

2007-02-22 13:59:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents wont let me go out on single dates
it hast 2 B a group date
how can i talk them out of it???
PS im 14

2007-02-22 13:54:03 · 4 answers · asked by *~Filthy Gorgeous~* 3

here we go...I am 23 i own my own online business its just starting i am doing well in my life...i have 2 kids one whom is 6yrs old and lives w/ grandmother...my 3yr old lives with me...right i was clearly 16 when i had my first son...My mother i regret to say is a drunk & takes drugs. I was rapped n my life threatened at around 17 I took my son to my mothers to ask her to have him as i didnt wan him seeing me in that state plus i couldnt emotional manage n going threw breakup with his dad.my mother called social services told them i had left him outside her door.u could imagine their involvement after that. she told them i wason drugs n i neglected him..please keep reading i do really need some help n i have no family to ask! my son other grandmother came to take my son and i signed a bit of paper to say it was ok as i was going threw so much..i didnt tell social services what as i was stubborn hurt n confused..a couple months later when my head was more around the situation i went to

2007-02-22 13:33:35 · 22 answers · asked by MissTee 2

... but you wouldn't part with them for personal reasons? when did you receive them? what replaced them?

i have an old turntable, still works! but of course it doesn't sound so good as a cd player... still i've had it forever. and some old falling-apart sandals (the wife hates 'em!) that have been all across this country. i'd love to toss them, but they'd probably beat a path right back to our front door. scary.

2007-02-22 13:28:00 · 3 answers · asked by patzky99 6