My name is Drake S. and im 15( almost 16 yrs old) I got into some bad stuff at school and my parents had to pick me up, I beat up a kid and got caught smoking. When I got out of the car my mom toled me I was grounded. I got realllllllllllyyyyyyyyy mad and pushed her down. My dad freaked out and helped her up. He looked realy angry and toled me to go to my room and that he would deal with me later. I said no im gonna go play ball with the guys. I start to walk away and he grabbed my arm and pinned me down on the front of the car. I noticed he was taking of his belt and I toled him to let him up. He folded his belt and whipped my butt adleast 20 somethin times. I was cussin him out at first and then it really started to sting and I accusually cried. I haven't go spanked since I was 12 and it was from my mom. When my dad stopped hitting me he pulled me up and looked me in the eye and said You see what u made me do. He looked like he had tears in his eyes. i SHOULDN'T OF GOT SPANKED!!!!
2007-02-22 15:03:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOU BLOODY DESERVED IT U SPOILT BRAT,HOW DARE U PUSH UR MOTHER OVER.
P'HAPS IF UR FATHER HAD DONE THAT MORE OFTEN U WOULD RESPECT UR PARENTS AND WOULD NT DARE TREAT THEM LIKE THAT!
2007-02-23 13:12:26 · answer #1 · answered by SILVER-STAR 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I do not personally believe in spanking but as for you, I cannot believe you think your spanking was too much punishment for PUSHING YOUR OWN MOTHER DOWN. You are almost 16 years old and you should be ashamed of your behavior. Apologize to your mother right now. If I were your mother, I would personally call law enforcement and charge you with assault and battery. Then, I'd let you really enjoy your smokes and fighting...in juvie jail.
In two more years, you'll be an adult under the law. What you did today could get you several years in state prison. Get to a professional counselor immediately. Once you get your anger and conflict issues resolved, then you can ask your father to join you.
2007-02-22 15:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lois M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your almost 16 years old then you should know better how to act. Your not 12 years old anymore you know. Your mother is not the kid who you beat up. Every time you need something your mother is the one who is there. Everytime you need a certain clothes cleaned and washed your mother is there to wash them. Everytime you have a problem your mother is there for you. Everytime your father does anything he shouldn't have done, your mother is the one who is defending you. If you pushed your mother then I'm sorry to say, but you deserved it. Once my cousin pushed my grandmother just because she didn't do nothing for him. She has been more than a mother for him and the cops told her that they give her permission to spank him. When she passed away, he didn't know what to do or how to act because the only person who was ever there for him, the only person who punished him when he needed it wasn't there anymore. Now I don't think you need to wait till something terrible happens so you will understand things better and know how to respect the most valuable people in your lives.My mother has treated me pretty bad, but I never or thought about disrespecting her or my father any time. I suggest you start changing your attitude or your parent should think about sending you to boot camp. If tears were coming out of your fathers eyes after he spanked you well That is what you caused. It hurt him so much that he couldn't think of anything else at that time that you made him do the worst. That was the worst for him. If you don't know how to value your mother and appreciate her than I am not sure what you deserve. If your treating her like this imagine when your in serious relationship or when you have kids. I will feel sorry for them. Please get help for yourself. There is no reason at all for what you did. Just reading this made me angry.
2007-02-22 15:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa....so many things wrong here.....1st let me say i'm a mom of a 17 year old and have to daughters age 19 and 21...so i do know a lil bout what i'm talking about here....most of you won't like what i have to say i'm sure..
get your butt in there and tell you mom your sorry right now!
You should NEVER lay a hand on your mom!
I don't however agree that turning around and beating you was the answer either....i think you must have some real issues that need to be dealt with....why did you beat up the kid? while i HATE smoking i don't find that to be such a big deal. i do think 16 is way to old to be doing any spanking! other methods need to be used....if your parents think your out of control then they need to find you some help......it sounds like your dad 'spanked' you out of frustration. as far as him saying that you made him do it, it wasn't only you but it was also him losing control of himself....see when he told you he would deal with you later that was his way of trying to keep himself in check...you just helped push him over the edge by not going to your room.
if you where my child you would NOT be on a computer right now...you would be so grounded from all that kinda stuff....
please tell your parents that you realize you have some anger mangement problems that you need help with...mean it and get that help!
2007-02-22 15:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by mrs_b40 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the people already written to you is quit understandable. Most of what had happen seem like the typical teenager stuff, but pushing your mother was really uncalled for. The your statement in many ways frighten me because I've plan to have kids one day (If God permitted) and I know my child(ren) will grow to be a teenager knowing how much I will carefully guild them, I fear of the innocent that happen with your family.
When you're 18, you can get into fights all you want, you will just jail for it, where men enjoy having intercourse with you whether you like or not!.You can also smoke all you wish and get the disease that will evade your body. It's the law of discipline; police, judge, district attorney and jail. All of this is worst of getting spanked.
If you feel it's ok to push your mother down? If you feel its ok to challenge you dad to the point where his eyes nearly in tears, and then do your parent favorite, behave until your 18 and you can move out. Let me warn you, when you move on your own, whatever happens to you it will still break their hearts.
Draks S.
Go to your mother now and wrap your arms around her and give
her most loving apology ever, and express the same to your dad.
"You see what u made me do? Your dad said. Go answer his question.
Make a promise to your parents it will not happen again! You
must understand now, when you are 18, the law of life, the law of
physical, the law of emotions, and the law discipline takes over. If you change your ways, the law of God will lead you!
Think about it...
God Bless.
Contact me if you wish!
2007-02-22 15:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You had not been spanked ever since you were 12. This means your parents are not spank freaks, therefore if they did it this time is because you deserved it. You are getting out of control. Parents are in this world to correct their children and teach them what is right and wrong. It is sad to say that the best you try to correct your children , the worst your children think you are as a parent. Right now you think your parents are abusive monsters trying to control your life, but as you grow older you will eventually realize that what your parents are actually doing is forming a decent man that in the future will be able to start him own family, teaching them the same good values that your parents are trying to teach you right now. Reflect in what happened, admit that your behavior was not the best and try to understand that your parents are just trying to do their job. Also understand that with your behavior you have probably broke your parent's heart. It might be time for you to apologize. At last remember that your privileges end where the rights of the other person begins.
2007-02-22 15:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by doris_basanta 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I bet your a white kid... and your upper middle class... Listen... DONT EVER TOUCH YOUR MOTHER... YOur Lucky your dad spanked you... Because If I went to your school and heard you did that me and the football team would do worse then that!!!! BE a MAN and Grow up... What do you expect your dad to do... tell you no and kiss you on the forehead... Thats probably why your like that now, because your a spoiled brat... and a crybaby... How dare you put your Parents through this... and i'm 25... So U better grow up fast
2007-02-22 15:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by Coach White 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
IMO, you shouldn't be complaining even if you had gotten 40 licks of the belt on your bare backside with the neighbors watching.
However, maybe you have problems worse than deserving a spanking.
You seem to be a spoiled brat and one that has limited scholastic abilities ... (just look at your spelling!!!).
Maybe you need to be pitied rather than thrashed.
And maybe you need some good Judeo-Christian teaching!!
2007-02-24 15:28:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's all? You got spanked? Your lucky your not my kid cause if my kid pushed me down I would have beat his *** dragged him to hia room by his hair and leave him there till he turns 18 and old enough to move out. I mean fine there might have been a reason for fighting and fine you were smoking big deal but you do not treat your parents that way I don't even care who you are and what your reasonings are.
2007-02-22 15:27:23 · answer #9 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a spoiled little brat to me. I'm glad you got spanked. How can you push your mom for just grounding you even though you beat someone up and was caught smoking?!
2007-02-22 15:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥♥♥♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME?! you seriously expect to get pitty from any of us? You think ur too old to get spanked well then act your age! instead of a 3yr old. NO ONE should ever touch their mom! I woulda got my teeth knocked out if I were you.(and very well deserved it!) You probably broke your dads heart that he had to do that. But you don't put ur hands on mom! Your frinds and girlfriends will come and go but one thing you can count on is that ur mom will always be there for you. They only want to teach you some respect and to grow up as a decent person! So maybe you should appolize and grow up! I have a 13 yr old son and if he did that to me- Wow! my husband woulda beat his A** too.
2007-02-22 15:29:18 · answer #11 · answered by same girl/new name :) 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋