Family - February 2007

i Am working on searching for a wonderful family but how to choose an agency online is almost impossible. So many I just don't know where to start. I do plan to move if the right family comes along which makes choosing a site right for me even more tricky. any advice!

2007-02-22 09:24:42 · 1 answers · asked by jennybeninni 1

How can I get his family to stop bugging him about how different we are.
He lives and supports his family but all they talk about is how white our kids would turn out to be or how I don't eat the food as him.
It's really starting to get on my nerves and his nerves he tells me just to ignore it but when your under the same roof, that's kinda hard

2007-02-22 09:18:53 · 1 answers · asked by Peacen 3

i Am working on searching for a wonderful family but how to choose an agency online is almost impossible. So many I just don't know where to start. I do plan to move if the right family comes along which makes choosing a site right for me even more tricky. any advice!

2007-02-22 09:18:28 · 1 answers · asked by jennybeninni 1

I found out she always topup for any boys that she likes. She been stealing just to sustified her friends. We (my hubby n me) try to control her by not allowing her to keep hp. Later she started to steal others hp.She said the hp just like her life, she just cant live without one. She started to lie me n her friends, most of her friends hated me. I did scolded her and punished her for all the things that she did. She told her friends that i dont love her thts why im doing that to her. One of the guy that sms her asking for topup scolded me, said im better of dead being a mother to her, im useless mother, thts why my daughter wanna runaway.
IM so frustated after read all those sms. Its really kinda sad, im teaching my daughter am i wrong, by punishing her,
She never clean up her own room, clean her own plate after dinner,never pickup her own clothes, im wrong for pampered her too much, coz we have a maid to do for her everything, she is my only daughter, how can i correct things?

2007-02-22 09:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by ironlady42 4

i started tryin 2 lern more bout my puerto rican culture=speakin spanish, hangin out wit my latino frens, all of wich i luv...but my fam don seem to approve. they almost seem to resent the fact that im latino. even tho we all noe latinos is soo cool n stuff...im jus like y cant my fam accept me for who i am? no im not adopted...my fam is black...im black n puerto rican.

2007-02-22 09:05:03 · 5 answers · asked by xNENA . 1

I am 13 and I am trying to eat healthy,and I am trying to get my mom to do the same thing.We made an agreement on not eating or drinking certain things.She promised me she wouldn't drink Coke,but she keeps buying a 12 pack every week.Today I took some and hid it in my room,so she couldn't find it.I don't know what to do.She isn't that healthy,and I want to fix that.Plus I'm trying to get her to stop chewing ice.Its just causes her more pain.I've tried talking to her,but it doesn't work.What would you do?

2007-02-22 08:49:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your mom is being "mean" for lack of a better word...we had a huge fight, and now I'm just sitting in my room bored...any ideas?

2007-02-22 08:49:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I go to one of the best schools in the US and the only reason being because i want to make my parents happy. i really dont want to go here and i dont know how to tell my parents that because they [along with my family] are proud of me. i also would feel like i didnt accomplish anything...

2007-02-22 08:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by Barbiex3 1

like today he yelled at me for leaving the kereoke remote on the floor and now im not alloweed to sing kereoke for a week! when i dont even use the remotes i just use the buttons on the machine

2007-02-22 08:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by Jesus Freak 2

My wife, daughter, and I live with my mother-in-law and she is insane; my wife constantly tells me to just put up with her "you know how she is thing", but I think that is BS. She swears and name calls in front of daughter no less. After my wife and I got out of the military we planned on staying there until we finished college well I graduated a year ago and my wife graduates in the spring and has no intentions of leaving.

2007-02-22 08:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Phillip P 2

My mom went through my email account without my permission and read an email and got mad at me for it.

2007-02-22 08:25:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anna 3

Okay, I'm 17 now and I have been dating my boyfriend for a while. Anyways he's my first boyfriend and I'm really not allowed to date. Well my mom and dad dont really mind. It's just my grandfather that I'm worried about (I live with my grandparents). My mom got pregnant with me while she was in high school and he thinks that because I do alot of things like my mom, I'm going to go out and do the same thing she did( get pregnant). I'm wondering whether or not I should tell him about my boyfriend. It's not like I dont have any experience with guys, because I've talked to alot of different guys just never thought much of any of them to actually make them my boyfriend. I'm clueless at the moment because I think its time I tell them about him. What do you think I should do?

2007-02-22 08:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by marcy_baby89 1

my sisters children were taken of her about 8 years ago, i dont know reason y, and they were put in to care, uk, my niece now 14, wants contact with me, she has phone contact, her social worker is aware of this, and so is the childrens home and they are happy with this, we are actually considering visiting her, which the social worker has said will be unsupervised, my sister has to have supervised contact at her daughters request. but my sisters not impressed with my contact, only cos she is not in control, can she stop it, whats her parental rights, considering all of her 6 kids r under care order, and 2 little ones possibly being adopted,

2007-02-22 08:18:39 · 6 answers · asked by sue 3

she throws things on the floor and is allways shouting

2007-02-22 08:18:25 · 45 answers · asked by joseph b 1

Ok where to start.....well one of my best friends wants to move out, her father is abusive and she thinks she can make it on her own. Her other best freinds is coming with her. and they want me to come. I have wanted to move out for years, but as i will only be 16, I dont think it is wise for me to move out. i want to go with them, adnd they both know that the only way they can make it is if they have me to run things, becuse they are not very ood at budgeting and running a house and such. I have pretty much been doing that stuff since I was about 12. So I am good at it. I worry they will end up in shelters if I dont go with them, but i worry that if I move out, my marks will suffer, and i will end being poor my whole life. Becuase I will have to work, and balancing work and school is going to be really hard. as wellas running a household.
So really my question is, do I look out for me, and ensure my furutre by putting up with my parenst for 2 mroe years, (see notes ran out of room

2007-02-22 08:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom has always compared me to others since I was a kid, but it never got as bad as when I quit college. At first, both my parents were angry. I was so sure I was wasting my time in college, and I could do better. When I began making as much money as any college graduate, my dad stopped being angry, and when I started making even more than the average graduate, he started bragging about me. However, my dad never compared me to other people. Today, I’m doing well, and I’ll probably do even better as my business grows. However, I have not had a conversation with my mom in years. I can’t even say HI, without her telling me about someone who’s making more than me. She keeps telling me about other people who finished college. I just can’t get two words across without her telling me about someone I’ve never met who’s doing better than me. I can’t even have a simple meal with her without she telling everyone about someone somewhere who’s doing better than me. How can I get her to stop?

2007-02-22 07:40:20 · 15 answers · asked by Document Guy 2

Somebody I know gets abused by her dad and she has bruises everwhere. Could you please help me????

2007-02-22 07:32:53 · 11 answers · asked by Kezia Lovin Ryan 1

I used to live with my first cousin until we found another place. It was nervewrecking live there, things just wasn't going right, basically we was being used while living there, they had gotten to the point that they didn't want to buy food. I was nervewrecking so we moved out because we could no longer take this bullcrap. Anyway she and I aren't really speaking like we was before I moved in with her and her family and I feel that by me moving my family and my boyfriend in until I found a place really took away our closeness. She doesn't call me or come over to my new place. This is my first cousin and I really want us to have that closeness. What should I do?

2007-02-22 07:32:06 · 8 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3

My dad is 50 today and me and my mom were trying to figure out what toys and candy or any kind of facts about 1957. I need a good website or anything anyone can remember.

2007-02-22 07:30:31 · 1 answers · asked by super_freak8813 2

My husband & I have custody of his child that resulted from an on-night-stand that happened just before we met. We didn't know about her until about a year ago. I know she needs me (her biomom is a meth-head) and I will take care of her. The problem is, I'm having problems with treating her totally different than my daughter. My husband tries to understand but ultimately thinks it's not fair. My take on this is...I don't mind to take care of her but I'm going to make 100% sure my daughter does not suffer because of it in any way.

P.S. We also have my step-son every other weekend, holidays & summer. He's awesome and we couldn't have a better relationship.

My daughter is 12, Step-son is 11, new step-daughter is 10.

Looking for comments/advise. Thanks

2007-02-22 07:26:15 · 7 answers · asked by Lakin J 3

my husbands mother is extremelly abusive..(emotionally, physically and mentally). no one provokes this either. ...
when i first started to date my hubby she pulled him aside and asked if my breasts were fake. i was offended because my breasts are real and the Lord blessed me w/them is all. and why would she be so tacky to ask stuff like that. oh and when my daughter died last yr of cancer she saw me crying and said oh get over it!! that stung really bad too. oh and when i was over her home cooking for her/actually helping her cook....i bought a bell pepper from another visit and she confronted me and said "go look in my fridge"!! and i said why? she said "u do not leave old food in my fridge u got it!" and slapped me in my face and then she saw some hot dogs and accused me of leaving them in there too and i said that was not me maybe it was you that bought em and forgot about it...well she walked up to me and said ..."dont back talk me missy" & hit me in my face n threw the hot dogs

2007-02-22 07:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has a fear of flying but i told her she could ride the train or bus but she still said she wouldn't come to visit. Im wondering what will happen when we get to Portland and in various situations i get pregnant, im wondering would she come to see the baby? If something happened to me would she come see about me. This makes me think she doesn't have any interest in my life or if she loves me like she says she does. Am i overreacting about my feelings towards this

2007-02-22 07:17:14 · 8 answers · asked by janetgoins19 1

not just physically but emotionaly n mentaly. n we are the outcast of our families

2007-02-22 06:51:12 · 6 answers · asked by jon s 1

He's so heavy that is now a major health concern. My parents argue about it alot. He's also really concerned about my mom spending money so he took her credit card away. That means that she isn't buying groceries which means he is eating out all the time.

2007-02-22 06:39:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean i have seen many times that people who have been bad or done bad stuff to somebody..have to suffer for teir deeds some or the other day..is it somekind of enrgy equilibrium in this world..i mean if you give out negative enrgy..that energy will come back to destroy you?
My aunt who used be such a foul mouthed person, who used to hate evryone has been diagnosed with some lung diseaese..now she is on oxygen 24*7..she had been bad to evryone..but now after being diagnosed with that disease..she had said sorry to evyrone..and asked evryone to forgive her..What a change!!!

2007-02-22 06:32:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

been tramautised..grow up to be insecure?
Dont you think that each kid in this world deserves enough care and attention?

2007-02-22 06:26:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We(my mom, brother, and me) are throwing a surprise 50th birthday party for my dad on sunday..Now we are expecting around 50 guests..what should we do in that party...i mean just that everybody comes together and talk..what else?? pls help

2007-02-22 06:12:52 · 7 answers · asked by question#123 2

Yesterday, I found 2 greeting cards in my inbox from dad through usagreetings.com. The first (most recent) card was of an obvious romantic nature ( kisses, lips etc) and it was signed with my dad's name. It mentioned time spent in venice and my dad went to italy in june last year. The second card was a loving good luck wish to me from him and my mom. So I replied to the first greeting with a "what the hell?'' and got another 'thank you'card sent from my dad apparently to the sender of the first card i got. It was as if my dad recieved the first card as well and is letting the sender know that they sent it to the wrong person.

Do you think usagreetings accidently sent someone else's greeting to me and my dad when he was sending the good luck card to me?This is his explaination of what happened.

I am very close to my dad and up till now he was a role model of what an ideal husband and father should be. And now my foundations are shaken and my world is falling apart

2007-02-22 05:57:18 · 11 answers · asked by mina 2

Okay,I'm 21 years old.My sister's 30 & my brother's 28.Over the past 10 years my parents have been dealing with every thing you can think of with my brother & sister because they act irresponsibly.My brother's been in prison for about 2 years now.He's set to get out in a year,so my mom's worrying about trying to help him.She's been worrying really bad about my sister because of how she lives & treats her 3 kids.Yesterday my sister tried to overdose on pills & she's now been committed to a mental hospital by a physician.My sister's 3 children (ages 7,3, & 2 months) were just left at the house by themselves through this whole ordeal.A sheriff took my sister to the mental hospital which is about 2 hours away & just neglected to find anywhere for my nieces & nephew to go.Anyway,my mom has 2 of the children for an unknown amount of time.She seems really stressed,like she's about to have a breakdown.I work over 45 hours a week so I can't keep the kids all the time.How else could I help her?

2007-02-22 05:52:36 · 19 answers · asked by Keruma 2

Could the police make me leave if I am old enough to make my own decisions? By the way my dad is a pot head and my mom is a dope head but my dad treats me right and my mom has major mood swings!

2007-02-22 05:43:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tiffany S 2