my husbands mother is extremelly abusive..(emotionally, physically and mentally). no one provokes this either. ...
when i first started to date my hubby she pulled him aside and asked if my breasts were fake. i was offended because my breasts are real and the Lord blessed me w/them is all. and why would she be so tacky to ask stuff like that. oh and when my daughter died last yr of cancer she saw me crying and said oh get over it!! that stung really bad too. oh and when i was over her home cooking for her/actually helping her cook....i bought a bell pepper from another visit and she confronted me and said "go look in my fridge"!! and i said why? she said "u do not leave old food in my fridge u got it!" and slapped me in my face and then she saw some hot dogs and accused me of leaving them in there too and i said that was not me maybe it was you that bought em and forgot about it...well she walked up to me and said ..."dont back talk me missy" & hit me in my face n threw the hot dogs
2007-02-22 07:24:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
oh she threw the hot dogs at me and they landed on my shoulder. i was mortified
2007-02-22 07:25:14 · update #1
i do want to have her arrested for hitting me. when she did hit me it was off gaurd too which was scary~ i am a meek person too~ maybe that is why she thinks she can be a bully to me. i think she sees me as scared of her...and i am
2007-02-22 07:41:09 · update #2
If it was me I would stay away from her. Not to mention if children were involved there is no way I'd let any child of mine near a person like her. I'm surprised your spouse would even expose you to her. There is something wrong with a man who would subject his own wife to someone like that, mother or not.
2007-02-22 08:11:35 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would stop going over her house. Secondly, if she continues to be physcially abusive, then I would have to have her arrested. Where is your husband when all this takes place? Both of you need to get a backbone and say or do something..
2007-02-22 07:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would immediately let your husband know about all of this - then tell him you refuse to be around her until she calms down and apologizes for all she has done. After the apology, if she still continues her behavior - then stay away from her.
It looks like she has issues; she just doesn't like you and she's jealous.
2007-02-22 07:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need to stand ur ground with her and let her know u arent takin the abuse from her anymore talk to ur husband about it and let him know how u are feeling about this no woman should be treated like crap period what happened if ur husband died and u told her to get over it how would she feel then
2007-02-22 07:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by plainsprowlers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that his mothers behaviour is not acceptable and that you no longer wish to ever be in her company unless she gets professional help for her abuse problems.
2007-02-22 07:31:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that sounds A bit strange...
2007-02-22 07:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋