Ok where to start.....well one of my best friends wants to move out, her father is abusive and she thinks she can make it on her own. Her other best freinds is coming with her. and they want me to come. I have wanted to move out for years, but as i will only be 16, I dont think it is wise for me to move out. i want to go with them, adnd they both know that the only way they can make it is if they have me to run things, becuse they are not very ood at budgeting and running a house and such. I have pretty much been doing that stuff since I was about 12. So I am good at it. I worry they will end up in shelters if I dont go with them, but i worry that if I move out, my marks will suffer, and i will end being poor my whole life. Becuase I will have to work, and balancing work and school is going to be really hard. as wellas running a household.
So really my question is, do I look out for me, and ensure my furutre by putting up with my parenst for 2 mroe years, (see notes ran out of room
2007-02-22 08:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
or, do I look after my best friendz, and help them and move out with them even though it could jepordize my future?
2007-02-22 08:15:05 · update #1
Yeah but if gets emacinoated from her parents, where is she gonna live? She has no where else to go. Her brother cant take her in, he is living pay check to paycheck and has a family to look after.
2007-02-22 08:21:14 · update #2
Do not jeapordize your future. Friends come and go and if you live together there is going to be friction and problems and they will probably end up fighting with you over things. Dont give up your future for people who in the long run probably would not appreciate your sacrifice. Stay home and stay in school.
2007-02-22 08:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a very difficult situation. and I see your point and how it may be difficult. Honestly, this is what I'm going to tell you to do. Before you can help your friends, you need to help yourself. I don't advise you to go and help then just yet, You seem to be very smart, and in the future, you can get a good job budgetting. I don't think you should go with them, yes, they're your friends, but you need to watch out for your life as well. Maybe you could help them learn how to budget. But I think you should lead on your life for now.
2007-02-22 16:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by haleyknutson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't move out at age 16 your just to young to worry about all life has to throw at you !!!!! life is hard !!!!!! stay home as long as you can till your 18 maybe your parents could help out and let you friend that has be abused stay with y'all for a while
2007-03-02 09:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by just wandering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um I tried to move out when I was 16, you cant do it unless you are eighteen, your friend should become emancipated from her father.
2007-02-22 16:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Dwight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋