Family - February 2007

Ok..so my STEP mum is 30 and shes always buying this kinky underwear like see through corsets and stuff u would with ur husband wen ur havin bedroom fun!! thing is my dad and her wud neva have time to have 'bedroom fun' cus they were there theres a 4 of us and i dow sleep easy ne way and i rele dow know wah it means plz help im a confused teenager

2007-02-02 04:20:26 · 19 answers · asked by lil_pwrincesss_kim 1

fiance's children have accepted me from the beginning, as has his childrens mothers (two different). I have 4kids and my two older ones have accepted my fiance fine--but they have different fathers than my two youngest. My two youngest father remains very bitter and angry, telling our two boys that they never have to accept or even respect my fiance and even when we marry, he will never be their stepfather nor will his children ever be their stepsiblings even tho they will be.
my ex is in his late 40's and still says he's going to kick my fiance's butt if he ever meets him.
how do I deal with this?

2007-02-02 04:18:44 · 2 answers · asked by moniquebell 3

My sister always swaers at me and calls me names and she is younger then me. If I call her dumb, she tells on me and starts crying and I get in trouble. IF my parents are not home, and I call her dumb she does nothing. I fi tell on her my parents don't belive me!!! Help!!!!

2007-02-02 04:06:55 · 11 answers · asked by meh 4

I'm currently living with my mom, step dad, grandmother, and son. I was forced into moving due to a serious medical problem. I can no longer work, and daily tasks seem overwhelming. For the past 2 years I've completely disconnected myself for the entire world and all of my friends. I never could have imagined I would be in this position 5 years ago. I was a successful college student; I had a great job, an incredible son. I felt as if I could do anything, and the world was at my fingertips. I often wonder how I became this anti social, depressed and hopeless woman with no future. The truth is I don't know. I still hold tight to dreams, as they might be the last things I have. Deep down in my soul lives another person fighting to be set free, but my earthly body has it locked up tight with unbreakable chains. I am thankful for a family that provides a roof over my head, and puts food on the table. However, my selfishness desires demand more than the bare essentials for survival.

2007-02-02 03:28:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 03:14:56 · 15 answers · asked by gerryhead 3

i have 3 children, one 18 , and two smaller daughters 10 and 8. the ten year old is very emotional and suffers from anxiety. the 8 year old is easy and fun to be around, my mother very very openly favors the 8 yr old and almost rubs it in the 10 yr olds face, she ridicules the 10 yr old , snaps at her and i feel is turning her off to ever wanting to be around her grandparents.she will take the younger shopping and overnights weekends and buy her tons of things and not even buy something small for the 10 yr old . last christmas she bought the 10 yr old junk and the 8 yr old fun things. when the 8 yr old goes there and comes home with so many nice things i feel bad and i know she does too , should i extremly limit the 8 yr olds time there?

2007-02-02 02:59:55 · 14 answers · asked by vinnieangel 2

i am a mother of 4 boys ages now are 18 he has graduated and moved out on his own...then i have a 16 yr old son soon to be 17 then i have a 14 yr old son soon to be 15 then a 13 yr old son soon to be 14. my ex left us back in nov 1996 i had the children in my custody ever since....when he left i told him i was keeping custody of the boys so he told me fine and then i said about going for child support he told me if i did that then he would give up all his rights to the boys i didnt know the law so i thought he could then so i said fine cause i didnt want to be the blame for him not being in his kids life so i asked him what he could afford he said 50 aweek so he paid that when he did for 10 1/2 yrs till may 2006 i sued him for child support then he turned around and sued me for full custody ....none of our sons wants to live with him . he left his 2nd wife back in 2004 she was 5 months pregnant and they also have a 2 yr old son at that time .he went to a bar and never went home ...he left her for his new gf. well they live in a 3 bedroom well the gf has a son and a daughter the son is 10 the little girl is 6 they sleep in the same room the other women is a stranger she is handicapped living in the 3rd bedroom he has no rooms for my sons they sleep on the floor and couches . i have to go by the custody agreement made from 1997 when he left ,the kids were toddlers they do not want this set up no more . i have legal services tellin me i can not change this arrangement cause he is sueing me for full custody. well we went to a modified hearing we were both ordered to pay 1050 i paid he didnt he asked the judge to give him 6 months to come up with it which will take us to april 2007 ..since then he had moved from his 2 bedroom in new phila .to a three bedroom four blocks from where we live the boys asked me to do something about the visitation they only want to see him now on a saturday from like 9 to 6pm . i am being told by alot of ppl the kids will get to talk to the judge for my ex is telling the boys he has already won and they will be living with him and they have no choice? what do you think ? is it true?

2007-02-02 02:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by tinalee1972 1

2007-02-02 02:50:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got into a serious car accident a few years ago, and at the time my life sucked and I was really in debt, so I pretended to have brain damage. My parents hired a nurse to take care of me and when she left to get married they got another one who is really ugly and mean. How can I let my parents know I want a new nurse. I haven't spoken a word in 3 years so I cant tell them that way. They don't think I have control of my hands so I can't write. Help me come up with a good idea please. I can't stand this gorilla of a woman wiping me anymore!

2007-02-02 02:50:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 02:43:15 · 22 answers · asked by me1972 1

Where do i start this process? if i contact the real father what do i have to ask him for is the like a form that he has to fill out or can i just make up a paper and have him sign it? im sure he wouldnt contest this he is always dealing drugs and in and out of prison. i got pregnant at 17 he was 32.

my son is now almost 4 and he has never tried to see or help or contact me to see my son.

ill be getting married soon and the guy that im with want to adopt my son.
can we do this before or after we are married?

if you know of any good low cost attorneys in the los angeles area or so cal area that can help me i would appriciate the feed back

thanks
-Stephanie

2007-02-02 02:41:26 · 6 answers · asked by jdmprincess07 1

We are both nearly 30 and have always had a really good relationship but recently there it has dwindled to nothing apart from a 'hello' and a 'goodbye' if we just happen to see each other. Iv e-mailed her and she has replied but never e-mails me first to see how we are or any thing.
Iv got 18 month old twins and she has never made any effort to come and see them, i dont think she can even tell the difference between them! I honestly dont know why its like this, iv thought about speaking to her but i dont want it to blow up in a big row and on the other hand i think well if she is going to be like that then **** her!!! There are also lots of other things that go on e.g she takes her child to same school as mine and even though i have 2 small babies and she passes my house to go to the school, she has never offered to pick up my elder ones and take them to school with her!??

2007-02-02 02:28:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 02:12:00 · 24 answers · asked by Steff 1

I hate my family and I never want to see them again. I just want to be alone. Everyday I come home and wish why couldn't I be able to afford my own place. I dont know how this hate grew but it did. I hated my brother because he always picked on me, whenever he saw me he would hit me. I hated my mother because she never did anything about it, she always talk about my weight and when i tell her how I feel she still did it. She is driving me crazy. She talked bad about my father so now I hate seeing him. I just want to go far from my family.My neighborhood. i would change my last name. I want to move out desperately but dont have enought to pay for rent and when I stay at my bf house thye get upset. She says how every one is looking at me, and im causing shame, and how little girls saying something about a prostitute so she figure they were talking about me.
Now tell me how many mothers you know call their daughters prostitutes?? I really want to move out seriously, but by myself.

2007-02-02 01:44:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

radar detector in my car if i get pulle over by a cop ???????? just wondering

2007-02-02 01:40:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a really disgusting brother and he never leaves me alone. He says I am stupid and retarted. How can I make him stop...?

2007-02-02 01:34:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 01:24:43 · 12 answers · asked by pasha 1

I miss my dad so much! It's been like 2 years! He now resides in another country & my mom woudn't even let me go on a vacation to visit my father. She assumes that I may never return or I might change. My father has a family of his own and it feels like he has forgotten about us. He hardly call me & my brother...I am just hoping he has a good reason! I mean am I just overacting about this? My life is totally incomplete right now! I feel alone! Like I love my mom & all but she is always preoccupied with something else....she doesnt have enough time for us at all & when she does she tries to stay away from us(my siblings).....:(

2007-02-02 01:08:05 · 5 answers · asked by GerMel 6

2007-02-02 00:49:52 · 5 answers · asked by Curious 1

i live with my financee in his parents house, we have a two year old son, my fiancee's brother and his gf also live in the same house with their 2 year old and 5month baby. The problem is his parents are not coping but they have to support my fiancee's brother, gf, and two brats becasue he refuses to work. Not to mention pay his car, insurance and partying money every weekend. when they go out they take the 5month old and leave the 2yr old at home and granny tells me to watch her. the thing is the brothers are fighting coz the their parents support him and when we ask for help the get rejected. i just want to move out. i cant even discipline my son and i get reprimanded. my fiancee earns R20 000pm and i R3000 i tell him all the time there are ppl out there earning less and they can afford it. i think he has got it too easy he doesnt see what i go thru. i raise our son and he plays ps2/fishes.and he's not here mon - wed. and all he pays his parents is R500pm!!!! and by the way he's 30

2007-02-02 00:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by Shannon 1982 2

2007-02-02 00:32:39 · 5 answers · asked by martinez_beloved 1

They look like a freak show now but they think they are cool.
I ask them what they want me to buy them for Birthdays and Christmas and its always some of the above mentioned items.
I and my wife do not subscribe to this but we usually give them a blank check as they are pretty honest about not over charging our bank account.
I can't complain in their behavior as they are not in trouble with the police and both have good jobs that pay a living wage.
I just wonder if they are going to get their children the same treatment? well, whats a parent going to do?

2007-02-02 00:13:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi. I'm 35, divorced and adore children although I have none of my own. I've been contemplating adopting and wondered what the process is like and/or what are my chances? Anyone been there/done that? What are the pros & cons?

2007-02-02 00:08:56 · 13 answers · asked by Fragile Rock 5

What should i do now that my parents porsecutes me after I changed my religion to what I believed is more fit to my needs.

I am studying as of now but my financial needs is blocked by my parents upon knowing that I changed my religion.

What should I do now, living in a city is so hard without my parents supports.

Please give me some advice about my problem...

No insulting please...thank you very much...

2007-02-02 00:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-02 00:03:33 · 18 answers · asked by Dreamer 4

Priyanka_manh@yahoo.co.in

2007-02-01 23:55:59 · 3 answers · asked by Priyanka M 3

My late father was totally loser in life. Despite he was blessed with good family, i.e. his beautiful wife and 8 children. He did not look after his family. He was a spoilt son of his wealthy father. He had been trouble maker to his wife for his 50 year marriage life.

2007-02-01 23:54:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's going to be tweleve so she is a preteen into make up and so on. I was wondering if anyone had any good suggestions. However she is pretty young to have makeup so maybe something useful, before she goes through hell they call puberty.
Maybe a puberty kit, but what would it consit of.

2007-02-01 23:50:48 · 11 answers · asked by Dreamer 4

I'm looking for anyone who has lost an adult child and interested in knowing how they got through it all. My daughters were 21 and 18. The 21 year old left behind a small daughter. I need help in getting through this, making sense of it all.

2007-02-01 23:41:30 · 14 answers · asked by grannyhuh 3

My dad told me that I have to help him with the rent by me giving at least 50% of my paycheck. I'm only 16 years old! This is no fair because I have to put $100 in my savings acount and I only get paid $230 every other week. It's not fair becasue I need that money to by my own food and my personal needs like eye contacts, menstral pads, and clothes and I'm trying to save money to get my hair done and that's like $200 to get mircos.. I thin kit's patheic when a parent is asking their child for money and to help them pay the rent. He has changed so much since I started working and I thin khe's trying to take my money.

2007-02-01 23:13:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous