2007-02-02 01:24:43 · 12 answers · asked by pasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think many here who answered misunderstood the q. it isn't pms that you are concerned about its the symptoms of pre-menopause also called peri-menopause, correct? thick skin, like another already said, is a must. don't take alot of the mood swings personal. if she is getting hot flashes and such, there is nothing you can do for that. they will pass and then re-occur. her dr. can give her meds to help combat many of the symptoms if she is willing and they are bad. be patient,as hard as that may be at times. don't argue about her irritability. she hates it too. more than you actually. this will take time. it can come in waves before its finally over. remember that this is something women have to go through,its part of life. good luck to you and her.
2007-02-02 04:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have lots of Ice. We go through so many emotions that it is scarry. Some women feel that they are no longer a woman just because. Buy scented candles {Lavender} relaxes you. Get a radio that has ocean sounds etc. Do the extra things. in time it will pass but for now leave little notes that just say I Love You. Little things like that will go along way. You'll be fine
2007-02-02 09:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lorraine S 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
With love, patience and a lot of understanding. As men, we can't really understand what our girls have to go through as women. It is a part of life and the symptoms can be severe and overwhelming to them so we need to have a lot of compassion during this time. Read up on what she is going through and try to be informed so you can better understand what she's dealing with. Good Luck.
2007-02-02 10:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a general rule, I don't make excuses for women or ask for special treatment for them (I am a woman). But in this case, I would suggest that you grow a little thicker skin, and learn to be a little patient. Count to ten before you blow up at her seemingly crazy emotions.
Her body and her emotions are betraying her...and she is trying to understand all the new emotions that she's experiencing. For me, it was anger and impatience. But everyone is different.
Good luck to you...and know that you are already a 'good one' for asking for input.
2007-02-02 09:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Super Ruper 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You just do i have the same problem but i am not bitc*y i try not to be moody in which i guess if i am pushed the wrong way i will tell you about it, but i am calm i have a good head on my shoulders, take her to the Dr and see if they will give her something..
2007-02-02 09:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be understanding; for me I get really emotional - things that normally wouldn't bother do when I have PMS. Just be nice to her & if she snaps on you don't take it to seriously it's the hormones talking.
2007-02-02 11:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by bunni96 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that PMS is horrible for every woman but there are things she can do also to make it easier for you. Relaxation techniques, that maybe you could do together, hot baths anything that keeps her calm and de-stressed. It's great that you come on here to fnd out more, it shows you care.
On your part, all you have to do is be understanding and for god's sake don't piss her off otherwise watch out!!! lol
2007-02-02 09:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good question
Maybe your wife should go to the doctor
I am sure she could get medication to help
2007-02-02 09:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beer
2007-02-02 09:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just deal with it. understand that her hormones are gonig crazy. Just be supportive and nod, Yes dear! :)
2007-02-02 09:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋