Family - February 2007

Well im 15+...So i'll be having my sweet 16th birthday bash.
I want to have it really big and happening...How do i convince my parents to agree...First of all my mom wants me to invite all family members which i so totally dont agree with...due to this we argue day and night...Secondly she wants me to wear something traditional...i went to a few outlets where they sell evening gowns....and she soo totally does not agree with that kinda dressing...she is pressuring me alot...
What can i do ?
Please help...
Serious answers only =)
Ty

2007-02-01 23:05:46 · 4 answers · asked by JeZzZ J 2

i have to stay in all the time cos my grandaughter was playing up at school she lives with me, and i cant, go out anywhere much and talk with adults and i am down. i would love a job but can,t leave her. she has started at a special school and ran off from their i am so disappointed and wonder will i ever get a life.

2007-02-01 22:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by denise g 2

How many people out there are the middle child? I am & was treated differently all the time, were you?

2007-02-01 22:42:32 · 11 answers · asked by YAWN 6

and sister do I have

2007-02-01 22:24:04 · 12 answers · asked by adsf a 1

I just turned 18. All my life my parents have been over protective, and now that I'm technically an "adult", they still want to know every move I make.

I don't feel free and it annoys me. A LOT...

Help me out please...what can I do?

2007-02-01 22:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by sam z 1

2007-02-01 22:14:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, : ignoring one child's fault where the other gets in trouble for the similar mistake,
they smile more upon seeing their favourite child,
Shouldnt the love be equal between all the their children?

2007-02-01 22:00:54 · 31 answers · asked by Ascetic 3

isn't mum your best friend she's always there and she'll always care .

2007-02-01 21:56:16 · 43 answers · asked by tomski 3

she has a child and that child is like my uncle it self but she says its mine is it possiable i never was with her with out a condom ,even i used to cleane hers with my tounge pls help me,

2007-02-01 21:50:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

About are career, about financial, n about are married life. n how to understad each other more better.

2007-02-01 21:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by mabel p 1

well ever since my dad met his gf he has turned abit ferral,
smokes yea that, doesnt have time for me when i go to his house and never calls me anymore.

well just rang him to confirm to him that i wasnt going to go and se him at all this r and he started crying on the phone to me so i just said i gtg bye and hung up. then i started bursting into tears im really hurt by this but im sure hs hurting to.
i will always love him deep down but its just hard for me to talk to him anymore. What should i do im worried.??

2007-02-01 21:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-01 21:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by Fred 1

Want to spend a little time with her but i want to focus on MY grandkids and THEIR enjoyment.

How do I handle it so she's not offended that I don't want to spend much time with her and her grandchild?

The question is for a "friend", written from "friends" perspective.

2007-02-01 21:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by vance4rent 1

2007-02-01 21:15:51 · 5 answers · asked by UAE 1

Ok my fiance and I have been together for a while now and I have a step daughter who is a full fledged drama queen. Everything has to be her way or all Heck will break out. If she doesn't get it her way she gets this attitude and then tries to put a guilt trip on her father and I. I don't want to be too strict but I'm too the point of giving up, I don't know what to do anymore. Also is she doesn't have her way, the one thing the bugs me really bad, she calls her grandmother and tells her and then Her father, her grandmother, and I end up in this big fight!! Please help I don't know what to do anymore!! Any suggestions???? THANKS!!

2007-02-01 20:56:13 · 10 answers · asked by themysteriousmami24 2

i told my mum that i'm moving out and want to live with my boyfriend from july this year. now she keeps trying to change my mind and make me feel bad for wanting to move out. i'm still wanting to go to college in the new location to do media studies.but she is turning everyone at home against me. i really love her and i dont want to hurt her but i want to live my own life.what should i do?sensible answers plz

2007-02-01 20:53:39 · 19 answers · asked by Mal S 1

I lost my dad a few years ago and havnt stopped wondering if immediately after he died, he watched me holding on to his lifeless body screaming...or he didnt see it at all. There are times i visit his grave to talk to him and actually feel better but does he really hear me? can anyone give an answer

2007-02-01 19:48:36 · 15 answers · asked by ace2ice 1

ok im in yr 12.. n we hav a senior jersey n i dnt no what to get on the bak of it (like a name or sumthn).. usually ppl will put nicknames n stuff on the bakc.. but my names skye so its short so i dnt hv a nickname.. is there ne funni quirky things i cud put on the back like referring to my name..

2007-02-01 19:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by s_is_for_skye 1

My sis just wrote this letter and she left it on my study table. Read on...^_^

Listen up YO!!
U SUCK!
Ur my bro,so I love you.
But you sometimes are big jerk, so be careful( she has drawn a skeleton skull with it...^_^)
I love you bro.
You're bad to me,
but sometimes good.
Thanks ^_^

From your sis....^_^

Cute huh??

2007-02-01 19:28:25 · 1 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2

Please help me with your advice, my partner and I started having difficulties only a few months into our relationship. During this time, we were both hurting and I naturally went to mum and dad for their support, which they gave willingly. while we have forgiven each other and are getting counselling, my family hasnt. I know they are just worried that I will get hurt again but how do we deal with them thinking he is no good. I cant talk to them about what we do, and feel as tho they thuink im an idiot for tretrying our relationship

2007-02-01 19:08:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 10 & 12 yr old do not feel welcome at their dad's because of his new girlfriend(she has 2 girls-9 & 2) they moved in 2gether, dont have a home phone, dont let the children use theirs to contact me & usually don't answer if I call to check on my children, nor do they let them call back! I got them their own cell phones, I pay for the plan, phones insured. The GF is having a fit & dont want them to bring them! I know the law-the children can take the phones & dad or gf can't take them from them.(TCA Code-Theft if they try) My children are responsible and kno Cell phone rules. Their dad said they could not bring the phones, now the children are refusing to go I am not sure what to do? Dad's in contempt-behind CS court to follow. Can the Judge make the Order that they can take their phones & dad nor gf have the right to take their phones? It makes me feel like dad & gf have something to hide. The children are going to speak with the Judge, about not going. Advice Please...Thanks

2007-02-01 18:52:29 · 6 answers · asked by novemberdarlin06 1

I haven't spoken to my mother in over a year. I miss her terribly because of what happened between us.

I want to contact her, but I am anxious that her response will not be kind. What do I say to her? I rather send her a letter, than talk to her on the phone. She has been meddlesome,she has scolded me over matters,she tells me how to run my life, she holds grudges,she just will not let things drop, and let them be. She just keeps bringing things up that have happened in the past,etc. Mind you, this woman gave me up for adoption.

I want to start from scratch with her, I just want to get along with my mother. I am a mature, responsible adult who just wants to get along with her mother for a change.

2007-02-01 18:51:40 · 7 answers · asked by Pixie 1

i am my mom's slave. I used to do everything she told me to do, but when i stopped, she raised hell and kicked me out. I feel like i have no where to go because her place does not feel like home and I don't want to take advantage of my boyfriend's parents apartment or my friends house. I have no money, I am in debt, I don't have any family to turn to and I don't know the first thing about moving into an apartment of my own. I am extremely sad. What should I do? Im stuck.

2007-02-01 18:40:26 · 23 answers · asked by yodude 1

from the beginning of the marriage itself they started to harass our family,when we gt married she came in to our home and stayed for a month only ,after then she went to her home as she had home sick,thn whn we contacted her family they didnt give us a clear reply, aftr we enquired in various ways i came to know tht she is studying in a college without husbands concent,when we got a talk about this with their relations they agreed to send her with me, after that also she didnt came,then i issued her a legal notice regarding this, they replied harshly also her father demanded amount from me for divorce ,then my wife begged me to return the case, i also get returned the case m she came and lived with me for a year , i got her a job for her at a college, in this mean time her father came n give me many problems like disturbing my life, on one day she went for her home and there is no reply from there side when we enquired, i even went to the death of her grandma death which they didnt

2007-02-01 18:31:35 · 9 answers · asked by srini vellore 3

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years on March. On January 24th her step father passed in a horrible car accident that morning. She texted when she got to the hospital to tell me what happened and I told her that I would be there in 20min. I got there to try to make her feel better and comfort her through her hard time. My mom and I went to the funeral to pay our respects and to help my girlfriend and her family. After the funeral she doesn't want to talk to me and gets mad when I text or call her. Before the accident her and I were doing great, I took her out to dinner and things were good. I asked her cousins if she has been talking to anyone and they said no but I just can't believe that she would want to shut everyone out. Any advice?

2007-02-01 18:15:36 · 24 answers · asked by Adam H 1

I've been in a bad living situation with my mother since she gained custody of me. She gained custody of me when her mom died. my grandma had custody of me since I was 3 because my mom didnt want me and was abusive/druggy and so was my dad and still is. Now in 2004 I had to come live with my mom when my grandma died. It has been hell. I mean people do have it worse than me, but I am not one of those kids who hates her mom for no reason, or just because I dont get my way. My mom has problems. I would like to try to move on my own (and I know how hard it is going to be). I have a small paying job at McDonalds, and I have furniture at someones house that I have been buying and storing there.
So do you know if it is legal, or possible to be emancipated? If so, would you happen to know the legistics of it...legal fees, and info...
I would appreciate it.

2007-02-01 17:29:31 · 3 answers · asked by Kris 1

Whats the best way to forget about everyone who treats you bad in life especially when you have family that never calls and probably dont care if your alive? Its hard for me not to look back and I feel so alone...

2007-02-01 17:21:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said everyone knew he was a pervert, but it's not like the other teachers or councils believe that... I'm very suprised that the teacher would give her a good grade for wearing a short skirt, I don't even know what I'm asking here... *sighs* By the way, I'm the older sister... *stressed...

2007-02-01 17:12:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister in law has a one year old same as me and she wanted us to trade kids on the weekends so we could go out with our hubbys. when she would ask me i would always do it but when i asked her she was always to sleepy or had to go to the store(i was able to take both kids to the places i need to go) now she is pregant with her 2nd and told the family at christmas that since i lived so close that i would help out and there is no way in hell i want to if she is always to lazy to care for my kid what should i do to tell her hell no.

2007-02-01 17:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What to do about the verbal abuse that she is giving to my spouse, I am witness to this; and I do not like it; and I don't put up with it. I have told her numberous times to stop, give your father the respect he deserves.

Suzy, my husband daughter; is almost 21 years, and after all these years, she is still verbally abusing him.
She is always chewing her Dad out about something, she is always negative, and so hateful and mean to her Dad.I am very tired of this!!

2007-02-01 17:00:17 · 10 answers · asked by Pixie 1