well ever since my dad met his gf he has turned abit ferral,
smokes yea that, doesnt have time for me when i go to his house and never calls me anymore.
well just rang him to confirm to him that i wasnt going to go and se him at all this r and he started crying on the phone to me so i just said i gtg bye and hung up. then i started bursting into tears im really hurt by this but im sure hs hurting to.
i will always love him deep down but its just hard for me to talk to him anymore. What should i do im worried.??
2007-02-01 21:44:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Girl, Call your daddy and tell him you love him...
Tell him. "You never have time for me, you never call me.. what's up with that? I wanna know what's goin on in your life."
EASY.. NUFF SAID..
2007-02-01 21:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mature individual does no longer act like this. it really is emotional abuse, so some distance as i'm worried. now and again human beings have undesirable days and do the incorrect element. come to a call no matter in case your dad treats you want this for all time, or no matter if this modification into only a mean second that doesn't take position very typically. Apologizing is sturdy, yet abusers say sorry for all time, then basically keep abusing. If it really is your father's trend, commence planning to get an training or a commerce, then flow out and protect your self. If he does no longer act this lots of the time, then basically forgive him and flow on.
2016-10-17 04:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider all of the above and also he might be under pressure from the new gf (self imposed even) eg" you care more about your daughter than me" she may not be doing that but he may feel he has to make her feel ok and at the same time loves you dearly .between a rock and a hard place.the crying is saying something.
2007-02-01 22:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Goanna Dundee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go have coffee with him
sit down and talk about it
do not throw him away
i have not seen my dad since i was 13 and i lost my mom a few yrs back now i have no one
make sure you work this out because you never know when when he will be gone for good
2007-02-01 21:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your dad is having a midlife crisis. He needs to grow up as much as you do. Take him to dinner without the his new gf and just tell him your sorry.
2007-02-01 23:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by Big Bertha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just tell him that ur sorry and try gettin in to his good books again liike askin him does he want you to go the shop or somthing; or mabe a cup of tea. or evn helpin him out with the famly and the cleaning up. he would apprciate the things you do. hope this helps.
2007-02-01 21:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by teri c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o.k. first you write down on paper just what you are feeling, left out,confused,hurt,rejected,scared of him being out of your life,maybe even jealousy over girlfriend,tell him you would like to get to know her better with him, and be a part of his lfe and that you miss him and love him very much.
then you sit down, breathe in and out, dial the number, and calmly tell him you have some things to tell him, and you want him to sit down, and slowly read the paper.
good luck you don't want to loose your dad in your life and it probably does hurt him that you feel hurt, and he is trying to pay attention to new gf like (new toy?)
2007-02-01 21:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and make him reflect on old times when the going was very good between the two of u, maybe that will do the magic.
2007-02-01 21:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by joddie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ring him back right now and tell him how your feel with out shouting or anything and get it sorted i had same sort of thing happen to me and my dad years ago and it dragged on and on we are OK now now but we wasted a lot of years good luck x x
2007-02-01 21:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. But I have this feeling he's playing you. Take caution.
2007-02-01 21:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by lordiz95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋