My 14 yr old sister wore a skirt to get a good grade from a male teacher...?

Question

She said everyone knew he was a pervert, but it's not like the other teachers or councils believe that... I'm very suprised that the teacher would give her a good grade for wearing a short skirt, I don't even know what I'm asking here... *sighs* By the way, I'm the older sister... *stressed...

I'm suprised when my little sister told me this... I don't even know what to tell her...

She's going to be 15 this year, and I'm 20 by the way.

I mean she'll be 15 in a week. I feel like I can't do anything no matter what I tell my parents, I tell them everything she does when she tells me. Let's say she makes out with 3 guys during her party in her own room. I was suprised when my parents just slept in their room thinking they are just watching a movie. Yet my mom said she asked her and my sis denies it... My sister became like this because my stepfather wants her to talk to so many guys at age 12. It's how my parents raise her, unlike me, I wasn't guy crazy. I was shy yknow? I chose not to be someone I just didn't want to.. but doing what she does, makes her happy I guess... *sighs

I did say something to my sister when she told me this.. I told her it was wrong of her to do that, it's like if some guy ask her to show her butt for like $20, that's almost the same thing... My sister thinks I'm a loser because I didn't date much guys at all in my life, she finds my other sister interesting (she's 19) lets just say my other sis is very opposite of me... but I feel like it's beyond my reach what I can do... my little sister loves me though... she hugged me saying I work too much and she never sees me *tears alittle* I know my sister knows I'd hate for her to be the person I didn't want her too...

Nah don't worry about the stepdad, he has previous daughters before, very beautiful. But yeah he can be a pervert (my bf caught him staring at my behind) But yeah I will always check on my sister, I've lived here by myself sometimes too, and I was afraid, but he never did anything ever since I was 16. So no need to worry = )

I would have to say that she does have low self-esteem, only at school, her friends and boys around her makes her feel proud. at home at 4, she only spends 1 hr time at home then works 5-9pm, 9-10pm she does her homework and goes to sleep. when she's off at the weekends, all my mom and stepdad did was yell at her, stepdad really hates her, period. Everytime my sister was called a hoe or a slut by my stepdad, she tells my mom, but my mom says she agrees with him. I know of this 'cuz I here my parents talk to her like this. When I was called a bitc* from my stepdad, my mom doesn't do anything about it. So I would have to say, my lil sister only counts me and my other sister, as family (I didn't say this, my lil sis did) She looks up to me, alittle bit, but I'm always busy working...

There's never a time where we can talk to our mom, because she tells everything to her husband... Whenever my lil sister needed to talk to my mom one on one, she always tells her husband, and her husband talks to my lil sister, when my lil sister needed her mother the most. But nowadays, my lil sister only talks to her friends for help which she's cries on the phone... It makes me sad to see her like this, I have talked to my mom, but she didn't care less. She just says "oh she cries to much, she put this on herself" me or my sis can never say anything to our mother, basically because her husband is always by her side taking charge of everything...

Answer 1

If your mom won't take charge then maybe you could take her spot I know it's not the same but instead of her telling her friends she could tell you. You could talk to her and tell her that she can rely on you and that you will always be there for her. It's nice that you are looking out for your little sis.

Answer 2

Go to that school with her & check out the teacher to see if he is that perverted type,make a complaint or once you see him a woman should get a sixth sense & with the relationships held in schools between teachers& students its practically normal in the students eyes & the teacher, i could tell a story bout 2 ppl who had a very long relationship in school going back 25 yrs ago & the teacher was married the student her pupil, the women are just as worse DO NOT TRUST HER WITH THIS TEACHER IF YOU KNOW THIS !!! & dont let her wear demeaning outfits she only 14, i have younger sister & would never allow her to dress in such a way, especially for marks, what else is she dressing for???

Answer 3

Well i don't know how old you are, but I'm 21/f in the military.And woman do it all the time, but by these woman doing this their setting woman back years, in woman rights.I personal think any thing a woman gets from manipulation of sex, is not worth getting at all.I'm in the military and it makes it hard for a man to take me serious when other females, use there sexuality to get certain things.As an older sister you should explain to her that, man will never take you serious if all you have to offer is your sexuality.Help to nip this in the bud now before she gets older and this becomes worse, good luck.

Answer 4

When I was 16 I took my 14 year old neighbor Bianca to my cousins college party. She dressed in mini skirt and acted as if she belonged. Two of my cousins friends were all chatting away with her acting cool until the conversation got to their majors. They wouldn't believe she's a high school freshman.

I'm sorry I lost my point. Something like your sister leading him on and is not just an innocent bystander.

Answer 5

This is what you do..before anyone accuses anyone and ruins anyones life...yuo investigate slowly..like ask a few questions but make sure your sister doesn't know what your doing like (Giggle when asking) like your with the flow of her talk and say things like "Your just saying that sis" and things like "Your so full of it" if you play reverse with her she will come clean and then slowly you'll find the truth do this before someone gets hurt..I know your stressed but think of this Your sister wore a short skirt at age 14 to get a good grade what does that make your sister? find the truth and if she lies and says it is not true then tell your parents before she does ruin someones life

Answer 6

I think you should sit her down and have a talk with her. First of all, you can't get by life just by being pretty or showing some skin. It will severely affect her when she's older. Furthermore, her actions could result in something really severe! She ought to be more careful than to just put her self out there to some pervert!

Answer 7

Sorry but it seems your sister has extremly low levels of self esteem that she actually thinks short skirts to school to get good grades. Is this teacher some kinda wacko.

She thinks extremly low of herself so i would tell her to pick her attitude off the floor & maybe try to see if she has maybe low self esteem problems & why.

Good Luck

Answer 8

get ur sister to stop this, she is 14 and at an age of impression, if she succeds this time she would use it agian and then again. wearing short skirts can take u distances but nor for too long. as her older sister i think u really need to talk it out with her and if it doesnt work u need to get ur parents involved.

Answer 9

in the beginning, it grew to become into completely incorrect of you to establish a hidden digital camera and decide your son in this way, yet that's a distinctive tale. Assuming you're actually not a troll, your son is at an exceedingly mushy element in his existence the place he's probable very scared approximately urges he's having. an outstanding sort of folk answering this question look under the impact that it is "incorrect" to gown up in the different gender's outfits. it is only your son experimenting with who he feels he's. And he exchanged oral intercourse with yet another infant simply by fact he's a 14-365 days-previous, who's modern-day technique an outstanding sort of sexual ameliorations and is probable crammed to the brim with hormones. lower back, only experimenting. go away him be to determine himself out.

Answer 10

Your sister is acting like this becuase she is trying to get attention in all the wrong ways. I'm sorry to say this,but she is doing this because she isn't getting the attention she needs at home.