What should i do now that my parents porsecutes me after I changed my religion to what I believed is more fit to my needs.
I am studying as of now but my financial needs is blocked by my parents upon knowing that I changed my religion.
What should I do now, living in a city is so hard without my parents supports.
Please give me some advice about my problem...
No insulting please...thank you very much...
2007-02-02 00:06:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It takes a lot of courage to make such decision for yourself that you believe somehow affect your relationship to your parents. however, theres a lot of reason why you did that, but I believe that what you done is the right choice you made, just prove to them thatw hat you are before is better now..yeah they are right, dont talk what you new religion is all about but rather give them the sense of love what you have learn to your new religion...nevertheless, make them feel that they are still so special to you now that need them most...try talking to them one at a time and show how much they mean to you...dont loose hope, if you chnage your religion for good sake, then accompany it with your prayer that the lord will help you in your trials...rest assures that the Lord loves you for making such decision and he will not test you with more than what you can, be uplifted for the Lord promised that are sufferings and troubles but shall be of short time...rejoice my friend, theres a lot of people who can help you, trust in The Lord with all your heart and he will guide you for the rest of your trials...
2007-02-02 12:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by spyrockz . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religion is a very sticky subject....especially if it's been an important part of a family, traditions, etc. So by chosing another religion, your parents interpretation of it is that you are turning your back on them, the values and traditions you were raised with. You have hurt their feelings, and in turn they are doing whatever they can to try to change your mind. So now you have to decide how important the religion decision is, and if it's that important, then live with the consequences. You can try talking with your parents, but they probably won't be swayed, and then it's up to you. If I were you, I would not cut off all ties with your parents, they are only trying their best, and a little understanding on your part might just keep the relationship open, but then go about your business the best that you can. A decision about religion isn't that meaningful, if you take it back so that your parents will pay for school, now is it? You have to decide what is most important to you, the religion, your relationship with your family, their help and support during school? They have made their stance pretty clear.
2007-02-02 00:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the Cord. What I mean by this is if you believe with all your heart that your new connection to your choice of religion is truly deep in your heart, then get a job, take only as many classes as you can and support yourself. It's hard to do but it can be done. If they love you and see that you are still maintaining your grades, and you are commited to this new religion they will come around. I would talk to them and let them know that controlling you is not the answer and if they don't want to help you to get a good education then so be it. You'll be fine..best of luck.
2007-02-02 01:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do and the most effective is sitting down and talkin 2 ur parents...let them know that u are old enough to be and believe on wat u think is best....they might not understand ur feelings since they want u 2 be wat they feel is right(in other words they dont respect ur decision)...if thats the case then go and find a job...it will obviously take alot of time to adjust but thats the only thing u can do.....if u can and want to change back to the religion that your parents believe is right then do dat...i would advice to listen to ur own heart;) good luck
2007-02-02 01:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you decide on a super family individuals? I in no way needed a extensive family individuals, I definitely have 4 infants and that i'm getting reactions from some human beings like i had 14! lol it is stunning what some human beings evaluate "extensive". How enormous is 'adequate'? for me...3 grew to become into adequate, yet one snuck in there...LOL he's gorgeous nevertheless so i think of we are going to save 'em. What could i call them? nicely..they *are* named Kyle David, Brandon JonGuard, Delaney Josephine and Hayden Ronald. they're named for family individuals. only theory i could upload...i swore i could under no circumstancescontinual a mini van too, yet there is not any way that 4 childrens will slot in an SUV very somewhat esp once you're handling booster chairs. and to boot, mini trucks are a helluva lot safer than SUVs...my childrens risk-free practices is extra significant than my arrogance. and that i in my opinion dislike the coverage expenditures on SUVs to boot. I rock my minivan LOL (it is not undesirable looking the two a 2004 Nissan Quest V6), sick be upgrading in 2010 nevertheless :) the two oldest are teenager and tween so momma gets her relaxing wheels in a 365 days.
2016-09-28 07:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your decision was a personal one and part of growing up and getting out on your own is making life decisions for yourself. Try to talk to your parents about why you made the decision and what it means to you and your life. Maybe it is time for you to do whatever it takes to provide a life for yourself. Tell your parents that you didn't make this decision to hurt them but you felt it was right for you and you hope that they can accept you for who you are. I wish you the best.
2007-02-02 02:15:55 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frankly tell your parents that you might change your religion but your still the same you that they know and trust,just dont start talking to them about your new found religion because it might add more problems than solution,be humble tell them that you need them more now than before
2007-02-02 00:12:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them this is your life you want to change your religion,for your needs
2007-02-02 00:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them that you have made a concious decision to change religion, and that you have looked into the religion you chose, and found that it better fit your life.
2007-02-02 00:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by lilmthead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to get a job and support yourself. While at the same time continuing your education. My daughter works a full time job and is going to college full time i don't see any reason why you can't do the same.
2007-02-02 00:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋