Family - January 2007

No one heard about the 2 teenagers who disappeared in that jungle. They were walking, then they couldn't find their way back …They couldn't
See any animals. After little time they found a house
It wasn’t old and a Very beautiful woman opened the door .his friend couldn’t move his Eyes from her .

Days after days moved on. He saw the woman and his friend in the room. They were too close, and his friend closed his eyes. suddenly She stitched up her fingers in his face and pluck it out .and began 2 eat it
He screamed very loud and ran very quickly he ran and ran and ran
When he looked behind him he knew that she would catch him. He saw a black cat which was transformed into that woman .he screamed

"Thank god it was only a nightmare but why he can't feel his body ?", so he thought. little did he know he was in a in her stomach

2007-01-30 22:00:46 · 5 answers · asked by lola 1

My father moved away, and only visited so often, my mother blamed me for everything gone wrong, watched me get beaten by my brother and friends, and also hit me herself, was left stranded in foreign areas in the states for my fathers job was more important, was never listened to, or payed attention to, for when having my feeling pulled out after years of being ignored, they said nothing and left to talk to others and exagerate the story to make it sound worse, then have numerous ppl come to me telling me to give my mother a brake for she would only tell them about me and what i do and how i react but never told her actions and why they were started. I am now an embarressment, problem, and burden on my family, and not wanted in my home. Bringing drugs and alcohol into my life has only caused more problems into my life, for im looked apon as a failure and a nobody. I wish that some day soon ill die and leave this world to prove to my father how much time he lost of my childhood, how he never took the chances to come see us, and prove to my mother that all i could bring to her is confustion in why her daughter came to be the way i did, and show her that because of her mistakes that i pushed and told to her face she never resolved and only continued to get worse. There is nothing in my life that could mess up my moms life, but every word, and action done she does in mine, takes effect on who i am to be come.

Congratulations mom and dad, u have created nothing but a dying person, that has already slipped from ur fingers, and to late to save.

2007-01-30 21:34:07 · 12 answers · asked by Ellen B 1

I've heard such bad things about me behind my back by my mother in law. so bad as i don't even care anymore,& have handled it well by avoiding to see her.

But my father in law is very bossy and after all that 4 months not talking and seing them, I respected2 say happy new year just wanted to keep a peace in between all of us.

Now he has started again being nosy, controlling our new house as we are doing and he thinks he's the main man.

My husbabnd is very peace maker, but doesn't see the picture that his dad is not my dad, & as a woman i do not want him2 tell me how2 make my own house or how to live my life. He has always been dominant, but I thought he got the picture after an argument last year.

is he that stupid to have forgotten it all & back to welcome himself? I was just to go and see our house the new lights we were putting. As i entered & was talking to electrition, here he was entered & started bossing. I tried to avoid him not to be rude but is he that blind?

2007-01-30 21:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by Spark S 5

They use something like the vacuum cleaner, or start a project and then just walk away from it and leave it where they were working on it. In my mother's house we had a rule, and i'm sure it still stands, that if you get something out, bring it from your bedroom or start a project, then when you're finished playing with it, you put it away. I thought i taught this to my son when he was younger, but i guess it either didn't stick or because my husband doesn't do it, then it's not been reinforced enough. Or he just thinks that if my husband doesn't do it, why should he? It makes me a bad guy.

I've tried the "evil box" where i collect their stuff at the end of the day and they have to either pay a very small fee to get it back, or negotiate a chore. But then i'm still the one picking it up. Tried leaving it and trying (hard) not to let it get to me, but i just can't stand clutter and having to live with it all the time, stresses me out. Any suggestions would be great. Thanx

2007-01-30 20:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by jama_bc 2

I married a woman who was 5 yrs older than me and she was divorced. She was married in the age of 14. Due to no support she began to walk on the wrong way of life. I met her and had affair for 4 years and my parents came to know about her they tried to break up, for that they have also beaten many times. At last I married her, but after one year also my parents found us and began to harsh. I leaved her on her way and came away because my sister's engagement was broken and for my sister's marriage I have to leave her. My wife don;t know where I am? I remember her and want to live with her because she is really a innocent woman who have loved me a lot. She don't want anything from our parents except me, I also don't want anything from my parents.
I am just confused and don't understand what to do? Please Help me.... This is my personal appeal to you all please suggest me what to do?
I really loved her and I will love her forever.

2007-01-30 20:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by Jaadugar 1

shes been living with this fella whos 20 years older,they drink all day long and fight wen they got no booze,he wont let her put the heating on wen its cold and he wont let her out of his sight.ive tried to get her to leave even to come and stay with me,but she always got an exuse not to leave him.she 37 wat can i do ?

2007-01-30 19:54:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father died in 1996. My mother moved 150 miles away and I lived alone as a 16 yr old senior in high school so I could graduate with the friends I'd gone to school with all of my life. My mother drowned in her own sorrows, drinking at bars and coming home with different men all the time. I fell into a downward spiral over the years - drinking, drug use, etc. After graduation, I ended up under her roof, but was eventually kicked out because I couldn't support her. I've since joined the Air Force (been in for 7 years) and have a beautiful family of my own. My mother has never been to any of my daughter's birthday parties. I'm stationed in Germany, and she claims her fear of flying keeps her from coming to visit. There is much much more to the story, but I don't have the room to write about every little thing she's done to disappoint me over the years. I can honestly say that I don't like her, but is it wrong to hate her? Am I allowed to never speak to her again? Please help...

2007-01-30 19:41:34 · 18 answers · asked by Jennifer D 2

I don't mean to offend anyone here. But my and my Mother don't really get along. I am 23/m and she is so overprotective and she smothers me to death. How am I supposed to tell her that I don't love her? I mean I do "like" my Mom but I don't love her. I appreciate some of the stuff that she does though. I am not happy with her ill conceived right wing ultra conservative politics. How am I supposed to get along with her? I'm thinking about moving accross the country in order to limit contact with her.

2007-01-30 19:34:12 · 8 answers · asked by AviTech 3

My father was never around for my childhood, times spent with him consisted of us being alone for his job was more important, my mother yelling and blaming me for things I hadnt done, abusing me, watching my brother and his friend kick and punch me on the ground and only walking away, saying I dressed like a bum, & when worked at her work thought she would get a raise for them thinking she was poor in the way i was dressed. always being an embarressment to her, and a burden to the family. Being neglected when young for wanting to talk about my problems, then later bugged until i talked only to be ignored & left alone for sharing my feelings. I have always been like a toy in the family that was only played with when wanted, other than that, I was only a shadow, & tooken care of cause they had to, but didnt want to. I am now blamed & am a problem for being depressed & not wanting anything from my family, for they dont understand why I have low self esteem & think & act the way I do

2007-01-30 19:27:52 · 8 answers · asked by Ellen B 1

2007-01-30 18:53:12 · 17 answers · asked by lizashibuya 1

my husband and i met in college. before we graduated we had a daughter. because my mother lived 3,000 miles from the university we attended, we agreed to allow our newborn baby to live with his mother (because she volunteered) and she lived only about 3.5 hours away. gosh, i missed my baby so much and because i could only afford to come and be with my baby every other weekend it was very stressful for me. my mother-in-law would never call me to let me know how my baby was doing neither would she call to discuss anything about my baby's doctor visits or to simply hear her voice. she never wanted me to give my opinion on anything that i thought would be best for my child. whenever i was at her house for the weekend, i would want to hold my baby and bond with her, and my mother-in-law would shout in a very nasty tone put her down! whenever we would try and talk to her about how she was treating me she would get very angry. am i wrong for not wanting my children around her?

2007-01-30 18:16:41 · 25 answers · asked by shun t 5

why does my mother inlaw hate my guts, when we first got married she tried to tell me how to talk what to wear at first i said ok let her then she did it way too much so i was like changing and doing things more my way slow by slow.. then she would always be in my face commenting on everything. she talks so much i cant get her to shut up, after a year she changed and acted too evil like she would frame me and get me caught red handed when i didnt even do anything it would always look as if im quilty cuz of her fake proofs, shes a professional when it comes to stuff like this,she clearly told me im gona have my son leave u cuz ihate u so shes on her mission but he says i wont leave u just try to get along with her how can i get along with someone whos straight out harassing me and getting lies on me.. back to the question why does she hate me

2007-01-30 18:16:03 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't understand how our country can look at this siyuation and say... Literally say, "Oh it's ok for you to kill you 5week old baby But not a 5yr old. I'm not saying either that it should be ok to kill 5yr old's. It's just that it doesn't make sense how one thing is ok but not the other.... When it's the exact same thing!!!!!! Why can't they see this. Why can't we all???? IT's not right, We have no right!

2007-01-30 18:00:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLEASE CAN SOME ONE HELP US!!!

I just don't know what to do...my husband and I are now separated...My daughter and I spent 5 weeks last summer living in a Betty Griffith Shelter due to a threat against her by her Father. I am awaiting decision on Disability for myself and my daughter...I am recently returned part-time to work after a 3 month hospitalization...I have a major $500.00 repair necessary due YESTERDAY on the car that gets me to work and my 12 year old to school...I had a minor accident with the car and did severe damage to the undercarriage...so NOW it is an emergency repair!!! I get 150.00 weekly from my husband and $200.00 more bi-weekly as child support...and once I get my 1st paycheck in over 10 weeks it will be only about $420.00 for this one...after that I expect to get about $500.00 bi-weekly as MY pay plus the hopefully informal continued additional spousal and child support...I have exhausted the help available to me from Catholic Charities, The Welfare Federation, United Way, The Salvation Army, local Food Banks, and Social Services...I have major medical bills which I am now informed that DCF MAY help with using the SHARE OF COST Programs...and we ARE now going to be entitled to $255.00 monthly in Food Stamps once our new card comes...in the meanwhile I have $500.00 in major emergent car repairs and our regular living expenses ALL due with very little hope in the way of paying them...PLEASE HELP US!!!

I am so afraid that now we will lose everything if SOMEthing doesn't happen soon...like in the next week...and yet...it seems as if we are just SO CLOSE to having things FINALLY begin to come together if only we can just hold it together for a bit longer!!! PLEASE PLEASE HELP US!!!

I can be reached at cancio.angie@yahoo.com

2007-01-30 17:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

yeah i wanted to know..what are some of the things that adoptive parent(s) gain from adopting a child. i understand that the child benefits in the way that he/she now can call a place "home" and he/she now will have a family who cares and loves them, and will provide them food and clothing. but for the parent(s)....how do they benefit from adopting child?..or teenager?...or infant?...i guess how in general?
thank you.

2007-01-30 17:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to move back to where I'm from but my sister is bi-polar and I am scared that if I moved back to that area she is going to use anything she can do including manipulate my friends, co-workers and roommates, like she has a in the past, to control my life. Should I not move because of her or should I move and just give the people I work with a disclaimer?

2007-01-30 17:34:50 · 3 answers · asked by hollydolly1083 1

No sad story here but I feel like I have lost sense of myself, married, 2 kids, hubby in Iraq...And all I want is to go away, escape, tired of the same routine. Should I pack and leave until my hubby come back? I have no family here...No friends...Just tired living in a small town...
Not asking for an answer because it is up to me, but I feel my hands are tied, I told him I could handle it, but it is really taking a toll on me ( 4 y.o and 7m.o)
Anyone been there and done that?

2007-01-30 17:34:16 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1

My ten year old son asked me this .

2007-01-30 17:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is only 49 but he started to have some prostate problems last month. He has an infection and he has to take antibiotics. My 13 year old brother thinks it will be funny to put some sudafed into my dad's coffee to see what happened. Because on the bottle it says you are not supposed to take sudafed if you have prostate problems.
Why would someone try to poison their dad?
My dad is the sweetest, brightest, most darling father in the world. But sometimes my brother acts so retarded and has no common sense. So really, I don't trust him!
How can I keep him from doing stupid things like this without telling my parents?

2007-01-30 17:21:31 · 20 answers · asked by jennifer f 1

I am a male married with a 3 year old daughter. I am looking for ideas for fun things to do as a family. Please submit your top 10 list of fun things to do together. Thanks in advance for helping bring a bit of fun into our lives!

2007-01-30 17:14:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy im dating(lond distance relationship) says he likes/loves me and he wants to be with me and all that other sweet talk and from the first time 2 gether of my expierience with him he showed me he really cares4me, but yet he has so many strippers and hoes that expose their self a lil 2 much on his myspace as friends. he doesnt have one male friend at all. im getting pissed off and depressed. And again we live long distance apart and i feel like its my fault hes doing this.because we cant really talk and see each other alot. the only way we can connect is telling my cuzin things and sending the messages over the fone. I cant stop thinking about him and it kills me to find him looking at other half way dressed girls 2x's his age.How can i tell him that im the only gurl who truley cares 4 him and how he's drifting away from me, making me feel hurt & sad???the good news is, my family lives where he lives and im going up their soon 4 a funeral.how could i make this relationship better

2007-01-30 17:12:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

and I'm not quite sure what to say or how to say it.I'm obviously against it but I don't want to lose the last close family that I have. He never just comes out and says anything, it's always a hint or a little comment. I usually act like I didn't hear or understand what he said but this needs to be taken care of. I don't want to make too much of this if it isn't necessary, I just want it to stop. I'm old enough to know what he means and he knows that. I can't keep pretending he isn't saying things. God this is weird as an adult-I can't believe I'm even asking this but who better to ask than the world? I'll have to deal with the knowledge that my(family member)is a freak and a pervert for the rest of my life. Like I needed more issues.......but first please tell me how I can approach this.
Thanx-i know this is weird

2007-01-30 16:53:16 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3

Last year I had to go and live with my grandma for 3 monthes.. In that time she blamed me for everything and told our whole family that I stole her wedding ring ( which I did not) and then I had to go stay with her last summer and she od on her pain pills and was put away in a hospital for a few days when she came home her meds disaperaed and she blamed it on me... Most of my aunts belive her and I even think my mom does... It makes me cry at night and I am afraid I may need counseling over all of her abuse towards me.. Do u think I should find it somewhere in my heart to forgive her... I told her to f'uck off and I have not talked to her since August 3rd of 2005... It seems like my whole family is against me...

2007-01-30 16:40:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-30 16:29:18 · 12 answers · asked by Leo Juv 2

My mother in Law is a C**T. She only calls my husband for $ or to be nosey. Never Just calling to say Hi, It is always to say how she wants to kill herself (never made a suicide attempt in the 8 years Ive been around) or to say she needs 200 or 300 dollars. She is 48 and hasnt had a job in 10 years her sons support her. I have put up with this crazy woman for 8 long years, she talks down about me in front of my child and says awful things to my 13 year old step son about me. Like how its my fault his parents split. ( even though I met him 5 years later) I have just had it with her. However he is very protective of his mother. I told him she was a Bit** once and he didnt talk to me for 2 days. Can I cuss her out and tell her to stay away? Is that fair to him? Every time she calls he gets a look on his face like he is instantly irritated. I had to teach him how to live right to have a good life it took me almost 5 years to show him you can be happy she was that bad of a mother. Seriously

2007-01-30 16:18:05 · 10 answers · asked by megs 2

obviously i need to send my father something for his birthday by probably tomorrow! other than a gift card please :)

2007-01-30 16:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anna 4

My father's brother divorced his wife.They have a daughter .She was with me up to 6 years.Now as her parents are seperated ,she is now with her mother.For years ,we people don't know where they are .We didn't try to find them as father's brother didn't allow us to do so.I feel that we did the wrong thing.All I know is that she is now in MUMBAI and earlier she was in ULLANAGAR,She may have completed her 12 std now . HELP...

2007-01-30 16:16:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

They have been going out for the last two months and i get mad everyday because i told him how i felt the first day they went out and now he keeps blaming me because i didn't tell him right away. What am i supposed to do cause ha keeps saying that my opinion matters but when i do tell him it seems like it doesn't matter to him all i wanted to do was to have him happy with a woman he can relate to but he chose the wrong person i really think that she is not ready foe a relationship with him and i know that she might cheat on him but he still won't listen to me WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?

2007-01-30 16:15:43 · 27 answers · asked by pumas2324 1

our divorce papers state AS MUTUALLY AGREED for everything. I have kept our two boys in their school, transporting them back and forth, as I feel this has been for the best.
The oldest goes into 6th grade next year and will go to a different school, anyway, and I decided it would be a good time to move him to a school closer to my home.
I have the boys Sun afternoon--Thur mornings, so I'm taking them to school 4days a week.
I want to transfer both boys to a school (a good school) that's on my way to work (K-6) and enroll them into the Boys & Girls Club for afterschool. I will gladly pay for this, of course.
Their father is completely against this. he feels that they should be home with ME, that I should cut my hours in half, and they don't need to be in after school activities like the Club. Tho this doesn't affect him AT ALL and he certainly isn't cutting HIS hours!
I am tired of him trying to dictate this stuff! What should I do?

2007-01-30 16:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by moniquebell 3

2007-01-30 16:11:25 · 3 answers · asked by blair143denise 1