They have been going out for the last two months and i get mad everyday because i told him how i felt the first day they went out and now he keeps blaming me because i didn't tell him right away. What am i supposed to do cause ha keeps saying that my opinion matters but when i do tell him it seems like it doesn't matter to him all i wanted to do was to have him happy with a woman he can relate to but he chose the wrong person i really think that she is not ready foe a relationship with him and i know that she might cheat on him but he still won't listen to me WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?
2007-01-30 16:15:43 · 27 answers · asked by pumas2324 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
okay i am now 17 my best friend is 22
2007-01-30 16:26:19 · update #1
alright another thing i talked to both of them and they say that they love me so much but it's really hard to look at them and know that they are together it hurts alot eachday
2007-01-30 16:29:12 · update #2
you cant do anything, they are both adults and make thier own descisions. i know you dont want to see him get hurt, but if you've already voiced your opinion, thats all you can do. who knows, it might turn out well for both of them.
2007-01-30 16:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not take this wrongly, but you are suppose to do nothing. Quite honestly this is as much of your business as it is mine. Your father is a grown man, and I am guessing that your friend is a grown women. If she cheats on him than that is his problem. Do not concern yourself. If your father is happy at the moment than let it be.
R U only 16 like the other chick said? Edit your message so we will know...
2007-01-30 16:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father has crossed the decency line but there's really nothing you can do.
I think if it were me I would stay away from both of them as much as possible and I wouldn't let my friend talk to me about this.
Hopefully the novelty will wear off soon and this is just be a bad memory.
2007-01-30 16:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 16 and your dad is dating your best friend????? Just how old is your best friend and what sort of mental issues does your dad suffer from that he has to seek out children instead of women?!
*Edit* Okay she's 22 and dating your best friend. I dont know what your supposed to do my father would have never done something like that and if he did date a woman and we didnt care for her he wouldnt bring her around us or continue to date her. He's told us that, but he doesnt date still getting over my moms death. But I do know best friends arent supposed to hurt you and if she's hurting you by dating your old man maybe shes not the friend you thought she was
2007-01-30 16:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, but there is really nothing you can do. If you love your dad and you love your friend, then wish them the best and let the cards fall where they may. Life has a funny way of working out.
2007-01-30 16:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by I_am_pure_energy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depend on how old everyone is. if she is over 21, then there is nothing you can do but let him know how you feel about
this. but since it only been 2 months. then just stay out of it
it may not work out any way, just give it time one way or another
dont make this a issues, he your dad and he wil all be that, she
may not be there when the dust settles.
2007-01-30 16:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AAHHH!! Not ok!! Yes I know, legal... BUT very inconsiderate of both of them! Um... hide in your closet? Very hard question! My best bet would be sit down with both of them STAY CALM (as hard as that is!) and tell them it makes you very uncomfortable and they do not have your support. Then, find a new best friend, because this girl doesn't seem to care too much about your feelings.
Um... hide in your closet! YIKES! GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-30 16:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was going to say that u should just be happy for him, & accpet the fact that he has fallen inlove with ur bff....but i cant lie my dad used to like this person that i know & is actually closed to..btw my dad was 39 at that time & she was 21...i was 15...anyway im really close to my father & when i found out that he was checkin her out i was mortified..i talked to my dad about it & he said they have nothing to do with each other.....but i knew he was lying.....dey did date each other for couple of weeks i was pissed that i dont talk to her & i even embaress her in front of people....dey did broke up partially bcuz of me.....but i den realized that my dad is a grown & mature man..& plus i wudnt want him to do the same if ever i fallen inlove with a guy....
i think i was just jealous, becuz i was used to having his attention all the time.....im a daddys girl......anyway now he's married....yahhh shes only 24 years old but as long as he's happy den i guess i am too....:)
2007-01-30 18:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by GerMel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't see where you are going to be able to do anything about it. As hard as it is, you will have to accept that he's seeing her and hope for the best for him. He'll find out in his own way if she's right for him or not. IF not then you can say...I TOLD YOU SO!
2007-01-30 16:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have made your point to your dad, and does not accept it. It was never too late, you have to be on him, he is father and he should listen to you and take to heart what you say. You need to keep getting on him. Keep telling him. You will get through to him. Also talk to your best friend about the situation, she is your best friend and should take what you have to heart.
2007-01-30 16:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do now. They are both adults, he made that choice to date her. He shouldn't blame you either, because he made that choice.
He will know about her when she decides to cheat on him. Remember, the words you say to him, do not matter. Otherwise, he would have listened to you.
2007-01-30 16:20:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋