I've heard such bad things about me behind my back by my mother in law. so bad as i don't even care anymore,& have handled it well by avoiding to see her.
But my father in law is very bossy and after all that 4 months not talking and seing them, I respected2 say happy new year just wanted to keep a peace in between all of us.
Now he has started again being nosy, controlling our new house as we are doing and he thinks he's the main man.
My husbabnd is very peace maker, but doesn't see the picture that his dad is not my dad, & as a woman i do not want him2 tell me how2 make my own house or how to live my life. He has always been dominant, but I thought he got the picture after an argument last year.
is he that stupid to have forgotten it all & back to welcome himself? I was just to go and see our house the new lights we were putting. As i entered & was talking to electrition, here he was entered & started bossing. I tried to avoid him not to be rude but is he that blind?
2007-01-30 21:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by Spark S 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell him to take a good look, who do you look like, one of his kids? It's your life, your house. Show him who's the boss.
2007-01-31 00:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward, tell him to back off. Tell him he is not your boss, it is not his house. Tell him if he starts his bossy stuff again, he will not be welcome there. As for as the mother in law, let her know what your heard and tell her who told you. Tell her if she wants to get along with you, ok, but to stop the bad mouth, cause you can live without talking to her forever. It is your life , not there life, they need to stay out of it.
2007-01-31 05:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take your husband, kids if any and get out of there RIGHT NOW!!! Peace maker role was played by my father once and this lead to the loss of life of my mother. So just get the hell out of there and far away
2007-01-31 05:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by anecentric 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a very big signage outside your house that says:
OFF LIMITS TO BOSSY PEOPLE
2007-01-31 05:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all mother in laws and father in laws are pigs if u ask me
2007-01-31 05:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by kelly h 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try and take him out for dinner, just the two of you and tell him that in as much as you appreciate his "suggestions",he should please allow you to make decisions corcerning your home. and if that doesn't work, lock him out of your house!.
2007-01-31 05:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by alley G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do the same as you did with you m-in-law
2007-01-31 05:27:04 · answer #7 · answered by ramesh c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋