our divorce papers state AS MUTUALLY AGREED for everything. I have kept our two boys in their school, transporting them back and forth, as I feel this has been for the best.
The oldest goes into 6th grade next year and will go to a different school, anyway, and I decided it would be a good time to move him to a school closer to my home.
I have the boys Sun afternoon--Thur mornings, so I'm taking them to school 4days a week.
I want to transfer both boys to a school (a good school) that's on my way to work (K-6) and enroll them into the Boys & Girls Club for afterschool. I will gladly pay for this, of course.
Their father is completely against this. he feels that they should be home with ME, that I should cut my hours in half, and they don't need to be in after school activities like the Club. Tho this doesn't affect him AT ALL and he certainly isn't cutting HIS hours!
I am tired of him trying to dictate this stuff! What should I do?
2007-01-30 16:11:51 · 2 answers · asked by moniquebell 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
by transferring them into this other school, it will eliminate over 80miles of driving a week for me.
They wouldn't be in the Club every day, but 2-3days a week.
2007-01-30 16:13:40 · update #1
Sounds like you need to go back to court and get the custody agreement changed.
2007-01-30 16:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want and need to do. Let him take you back to court if "he" doesn't like it! Like you said it isn't "his hours" !
He just wants to control everything. Kids need after school activities. Period.
2007-02-03 17:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋