Family - January 2007

My sister told me she's pregnant today and I am happy for her. How can I support her all throughout the pregnancy? Even before she got pregnant, she was very emotional. She's happy also, but what are some things I could do for her just to be nice for her and her unborn baby?

2007-01-31 09:03:32 · 4 answers · asked by Sayla 1

Note I am asking what YOU would do i already know what i want to do thankyou x

2007-01-31 08:59:18 · 6 answers · asked by gracie92 2

My brother is always mean to me. We always fight and argue non stop. Today, he actually was being nice and that never happened before. Gave me money, I was like WOW, what did he heard? What made him nice today?

2007-01-31 08:56:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is twelve and I AM TEN AND MY BROTHER is acting like a jerk cause one day he came home and was so mean like I accidently bumped in to him and he said you could say excuse me and I said I am sorry and he said you better be sorry cause if you touch me again I'm going to steal you in your face

2007-01-31 08:52:47 · 20 answers · asked by Zoey P 1

I am married for almost 3 years now. Eversince I have been married to her the house is always a mess and the more I tell her the more she thinks that I am not being fair with her. She tells me that the chores do not get done because she is not the only one that makes the mess in the house. I told her that if that is the case then why doesn't she get a job and pay me half of the rent since i am not the only one living here in the house. If that is how is going to be then we need to go half and half on everything in our marriage..Am I being too unfair with her or after working 12 hours daily I am to come home and cook and do chores myself?

2007-01-31 08:51:26 · 19 answers · asked by el chido 1

after what i know he did after he recorded himself commiting crimes?

sho should be the fiorst to know what i found?

how can i face him and should i still call him family?

shouild i worry about my sister? she's 13.

how long has this thing been going on, i am so confused?

he was al;ways nice and sweet with ladies that is why they all swooned over him and his charming ways, now what?

2007-01-31 08:47:27 · 9 answers · asked by jake l 1

i found a dvd that my older brother had in his computer while he was out at college and opened it and it had 15 scenes of him with girls!

some of them had passed out and he did these things i couldn't believe!!!!!

he had them alone and unconscience and had his way with themn for hours.
some of them it was jsut in a room that he pushed themn in and hit them til they quit fighting and hurt them in ways that shocked me!

then he cleaned them up and smiled at the camera i guess and if they were not knocked out then they were when he left after he shot them up and moved them somewhere out side the room.

i seen some of the girls and never saw them again but i know one has a 2 month old daughter now, what does that mean if he never bothered with a condom?

are they okay now?

what should i do and do they rememeber?

if that was me i would be happier to never know i went throught that kind of pain.

can you help me?

2007-01-31 08:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by jake l 1

I have been with my bf for almost 2 yrs and we can't seem to find the love we once had for one another, I'm pregnant and I have 3 other kids, he works 3rd shift and sleeps at his moms during the day ...I feel fustrated, it's begining to be very hard for me @ home with my other kids... with no one around to help, he's always angry with me what can I do?

2007-01-31 08:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by babegyrl202002 1

My older brother is very academically smart. He is only 19 and he graduates this June with a major in bio-chemistry with a premed. My mother home-schooled us both, and is still teaching me. I am taking 3 classes at a local junior college and I'm 16. She's compared me [academically] with my brother for years. I try my best but I still feel like I'm coming up short. I don't know how to solve this. I've told my mom that it hurts when she compares me to my brother, and she's stopped, but she's still dissapointed in me somewhat. Come on! I'm 16 and taking college classes, what more?!

2007-01-31 08:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Rokito 1

im very smart, a good wife and a great mother. she yells and swears, and scares my son. she acts like im stupid. if i call up the cable company or something, she says ''let me talk to them i know how to talk''. Well so do i. I can speak for myself. But I cant stick up for myself to her, thats the problem. she gets offended and very defensive. i cant get a word in. Oh ya by the way, my husband does not help me out b/c hes also afraid of her. HELP i need advice. Thanks

2007-01-31 08:30:11 · 8 answers · asked by Jilly 1

My dad just asked me do you know how to french kiss. Do you know how freaky that sounds, and coming from your dad. Wat the Hell!!!

2007-01-31 08:28:16 · 20 answers · asked by mandy iz a cutie 2

i'm so tired of hearing about dead beat father, what is done about the dead beat mother that use and abuse the system to get a free ride. from welfare to sec 8 . child support is important but if the father has to pay when do the mothers pay? where is the 50/50 when no all but alot sit back and use the system and cry dead beat dads.

2007-01-31 08:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by that guy 2

is there a way to just say ok I done hating you lets be friends and act like family.

2007-01-31 08:19:35 · 1 answers · asked by underworld2289 2

2007-01-31 08:12:03 · 14 answers · asked by norma n 1

My ex husband got custody of my children because I missed a mediation hearing. I have supervised visitation! I only have seen them 6 times in 8 months. My daughter is 12 My son is 10, They both want to live with me. I was their main parent for the past 5 years . Right now I am a stay at home mom with my Disabled son (5) from my second marrige we just make enough to get by, a lawyer wants $ 3000.00 minimum for a retainer I don't have that kind of money. I tried going to legal aid but, all they will do is help me fill out paperwork. I am really in a bind! I love my kids and have always been an excellent mother I have never used drugs, been arrested or anything like that I have always been a stay at home mother and Thet truly want to live with me, What do I do Please real answers only. Mother with a broken heart.....

2007-01-31 08:09:59 · 3 answers · asked by Flagstaff mama 2

2007-01-31 08:09:58 · 3 answers · asked by norma n 1

My family does not talk to one another, its like they are divided in Groups. Its all over money issues. I get really really depressed to see that nobody talkd to one another, its almost like hatred. I fear the day that my Grandma passes becuase I feel like there is a whole bunch of people just waiting to attack and blame her death on us. Because thats what they always do. Everytime she gets sick or something, they blame it on us. Yet, they never ask for her or even come pick her up, once in a blue moon. I am depressed.

2007-01-31 07:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1

I live about 200 miles from my family, and I dont drive so I have to travel by train when I go and visit.
The problem I have is that my Sister is expecting her second baby at the end of August and my Brother`s first is due 3 weeks later.
I cannot afford to get the train there for both births, and I missed my sisters first and felt guilty about that, so I`d love to be there for the second, but as it is my Brothers first, I feel like I should be there too.
As much as I have begged them to try and meet in the middle and give birth together, I doubt its likely!

What would you do, and would you terribly miffed if you were either my Brother or sister and I was not there?

2007-01-31 07:48:38 · 20 answers · asked by mrssandii1982 4

has any 1 on here ever lived with an alcholic my husband is 1 and he is driving me round the bend at the moment he is on a bender and causing alsorts of problems in our family sometimes i wish he would go out and not come back i know that sounds horrible but hes getting me so down. My 14 years son told him today i wish you was dead and he doesnt care 1 bit that hes said it can some 1 please help me i dont know what to do if i leave i really think he will drink himself to death if i dont leave my kids are gonna be damaged when hes really drunk he says really hurtfull things has any 1 else had to deal with this and what did you do thankyou x x

2007-01-31 07:38:25 · 31 answers · asked by andrea.barrett36 4

2007-01-31 07:24:01 · 8 answers · asked by lil bit 1

2007-01-31 07:09:44 · 20 answers · asked by ~$ ana_luvz_jordanz$~ 2

My son is 8 and he believe that he talks to his great-grandfather in his dreams which he been gone for three years. Its been going on for awhile now and i starting to freak out about it. I think it pretty special, but his grandpa is supposedly asking him questions about the business that he use to run and now that my husband
father and uncle is running it. My husband works there too and whatever goes on there we don't talk about at home in front of the kids but my sons says that great grandpa is asking curtain questions that about the business and our son is asking so he can answer grandpa but we don't want to discuss it to him. My question it how to handle it in away that if he is talking to grandpa in his dreams that he wont lose his connection with him and not
answer the question that he comes and ask us. I really confused please help me. And real advise not be rude about it. I do believe my son its just its hard to handle

2007-01-31 07:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by crazyhagan 2

I am planning a family reunion(about 30 people) for this summer.
There will only be two children there.
What activities should I plan, food, etc...???
It will be over a weekend.
Our family has never had a reunion before so I kept it small.
I've never done this before so any suggestions at all would be helpful.
thanks

oh yeah what about comming up with prizes, t-shirts etc....

2007-01-31 07:02:59 · 20 answers · asked by Greeneyed 7

My mom and I got into a fight once when I was 17 and didn't speak for one year ( I lived with my dad and my parents were divorced since I was 9).
My mom and my 1/2 brother ( which is her son) got into an argument and didn't speak for 3 months.
My father passed 4 years ago, but has a sister and she is married to a bit of a perved guy. I invited my aunt to my son's 1st birthday party , my uncle came too. He took pictures of my neice fully clothed and now my mother thinks that he is going to take these pictures and use them to make kiddie porn. She called the FBI and reported him.I think she may be a little far fetched with her beliefs.My aunt is trustee of a trust my dad left for me out of which I pay property taxes which I may not otherwise afford.
My mom has made wild accussations before.
My mom likes to pit my family members against each other and drive wedges between people. So that now most of the members of our family don't speak to each other and the family is VERY severed.

2007-01-31 07:02:57 · 3 answers · asked by primamaria04 5

2007-01-31 06:53:04 · 5 answers · asked by Robert B 1

Okay, well, I am getting constant complaints from my parents, & I'd like to know what all of you think. =] My dad has been friends with a man named Greg for a while now. Recently, Greg got a divorce from his wife, and had no place to go. My dad, being a nice guy, offered to let Greg stay at their place. Now they find that he has been stealing alcohol, food, and gasoline. [The gasoline thing really put my dad over the edge, with the prices it is these days.] Now, Greg is acting like their is nothing wrong since my parents have yet to confront him. My mom is scared to talk to him herself, though, since she thinks he will " seek revenge. " He always *jokingly* talked about throwing my small dog over the garage... which upset me. Now my mom thinks that he will possibly kill their dog if they yell at him & tell him to leave. He can be a violent man, and with his past comments about hurting my dog really made my parents concerned. What do you think they should do ?

2007-01-31 06:49:09 · 4 answers · asked by Baby Doll. 4

my mother needs money to pay her property taxes but can't afford them so she expects me, my sister and brother to pay . . my brother is the only one who can afford to pay and he's mad . .me and my husband are barely making it and when I told him I didn't have the money he freaked and grabbed me. The receptionist told him she was calling the police so he stopped but he's still outside and keeps calling my desk telling me he's waiting outside bring him a check. He's my brother and 59 years old I don't want to have him arrested but I'm hurt both arms are bruised where he grabbed me and my b*ttbone hurts where I hit the ground. My coworkers say have him arrested. I called my sister and she is scared too cause she doesn't have any money either. We're both in our 40's and he's bigger and meaner than both of us.

2007-01-31 06:47:44 · 19 answers · asked by Rainy 5

2007-01-31 06:45:02 · 17 answers · asked by karenpoller 1

2007-01-31 06:42:34 · 19 answers · asked by firas z 1

She lives with her mother and her mother does not reinforce any work ethics. She graduated over a year ago and I thought maybe she wanted a break from high school, but it seems she simply does not want to work or go to school.

2007-01-31 06:37:37 · 11 answers · asked by Joe 1