2007-01-31 06:42:34 · 19 answers · asked by firas z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your wife (me), your kids (Bassile and Olivia), and your mom, (Ragda) Lol
2007-02-03 14:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people would say your mom, because she is your mom. She had you. But when you became a man in got married in made your own family. You broke away from your moms belly-code. In became a men. Your life now is with the wife. You live with the wife, you sleep with the wife, you have sex with the wife, you share a home with the wife, in all the responsibility of home with the wife, in most of all you have your kids from the wife. So want do you think comes first? Ya the WIFE. then your kids , then mom. Now if there was only one piece of bread left who would you give it to. If your kids were little. Would you feed yourself, your wife, your mom or your kids. I think your kids. That would be the right thing to do. But when it comes to your life in making decision its not up to mom know more. It's up to you in your wife. You and your wife are a team. That's how you have to look at it, in treat it that way like if you two are on a team, working together. Because if your working apart, because mom needs you but your wife needs you over here, your going to have to be with your wife for that time. Now if mom was sick in she needed help of course your going look after your mom. And a good wife will understand that. Just don't over do it.Then of course you have to have time for yourself. Married life is a full one. But at the end its all worth it.
2007-01-31 07:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion? Your wife comes first, kids second, Mom third. If your wife is unhappy, your kids will be too. So wife is pretty important..lol
Mom will always be there. She's very important to all of you, and always will be. But most of your focus should be on your immediate family.
2007-01-31 07:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by NanaCat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife
Your kids
Your mother
2007-01-31 08:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife
Kids
Mom
Your wife comes first so that you and she can present a united front to be there for your kids. Your Mom should be able to take care of herself.
2007-01-31 10:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God should always be first.
Your wife always comes before any other person, then your children.
Why would you even be confused about your wife and mothers place in your life? Confusion like that has to be causing you trouble if not ruining your relationship with your wife.
2007-01-31 06:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by hiscinders 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your mother comes first when you are not an adult. Your wife comes first when you are married and do not have kids. When you have kids its no longer about your wife or your mom, its about your kids.
2007-01-31 06:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your wife, then kids, and then your mother.
I disagree with the poster that said a mother the kids come first.
I believe it should be the father, kids and then the rest falls in behind.
If the mother an father are not a tight unit, then it hurts the kids more then helping them.
2007-01-31 07:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by shop4tots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First comes your kids because they need you the most; then comes your wife because she does everything for you; then comes your mother who needs to cut the cord cuz your a grown man with his own family!
2007-01-31 07:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by JeffHardy4Eva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is such a touchy subject.
As a Christian, I tend to go with the bible on this one. First God, Then your spouse, then your parents, then the rest of the world.
Here is why I say that..... First of all, your spouse is your life long partner. "and the two shall be made as one".
Your children are going to grow up and leave home and find their own spouse one day. Your mother? honor her, but never never ever put her before your wife and children. You left her family to have your own.
Their are some instances where my kids come first, depends on the situation. I always feed them first, then I fix my husband's plate and then I will fix mine.
It all depends on the situation. I have been married for 14 years and its always worked for me. Now, if there was a fire, I would save my children first. My husband can take care of himself.
I would want my husband to save my children first, then come help me.
But.......when my children are grown, my husband.... my spouse, my soul mate, comes before anyone who walks this earth. my mother can kiss my butt if she gave me a choice.
did this make any sense to you?
good luck.
2007-02-01 03:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by concerned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋