I have been with my bf for almost 2 yrs and we can't seem to find the love we once had for one another, I'm pregnant and I have 3 other kids, he works 3rd shift and sleeps at his moms during the day ...I feel fustrated, it's begining to be very hard for me @ home with my other kids... with no one around to help, he's always angry with me what can I do?
2007-01-31 08:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by babegyrl202002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have a feeling that he's more angry at the situation than he is at you. You are both under alot of stress right now. He probably isn't thrilled with his job, he works nights, sleeps during the day and then gets up and goes back to work. It sounds like you guys are in a rut. Not to worry, this can be fixed by taking time out to spend with each other and to just sit and talk about things. You are both going to have to work at making it new again, but with love and hard work you can make it.
2007-01-31 10:19:02 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U 2 need to get out and have some fun do some of the things u did when u first went out together, go out to dinner together make it fun dont say things that will make him angry. Get his mum to look after the kids and do that once a week.
2007-01-31 12:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, but that's how it works..."in love" does not last
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
you need some PURE love.
Pure: unfiltered, unconditional, comes with acceptance, caring, and non-judgmental. It comes to you from the giver without strings. Never wanting or needing anything in return. It is not a love that is craved, or lusted for. It is gentle, soft, always there. When this love exist between two people, they can be apart for days, months, or even years and be as connected as they had never been apart.
It’s warm, calm, happy, joyful, with feelings of inner peace.
2007-01-31 09:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him out of your life. File for support. Find a new man. Find something to occupy your day and make him pay for daycare.
2007-01-31 08:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by answers999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him girl. Take it form someone that have had similar happened to her. Guys like that is not worth saving. Not knowing the guy like you do, i would say that it's better to get away from him before that anger turns to violence.
2007-01-31 09:17:01 · answer #5 · answered by Evalita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you both could use some family counseling.good luck
2007-01-31 08:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by lynda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, your poor children, what you have put them through. Get away from him, stop making babies and get some mental help.
2007-01-31 08:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋