i'm so tired of hearing about dead beat father, what is done about the dead beat mother that use and abuse the system to get a free ride. from welfare to sec 8 . child support is important but if the father has to pay when do the mothers pay? where is the 50/50 when no all but alot sit back and use the system and cry dead beat dads.
2007-01-31 08:25:58 · 7 answers · asked by that guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I agree with you to an extent. We had the same issue, we were paying several hundered dollars a month in child support to a mother who had no intention on ever getting a job, not only that, the kids would call us and say there was no milk in the home, or they didn't have laundry soap to wash their socks and underwear, or they didn't have any socks and underwear.
This became tiresome, so we sued for custody and got it (as they are teenagers and can choose for themselves). She is still the dead beat mother lost custody of all 4 of her kids (two to us, and two to her other ex husband), is pregnant with her 5th child, lives on section 8, welfare, food stamps, and WIC. Still refuses to get a job, and refuses to pay the child support she is ordered to pay for all 4 of her children.
People are people, we have dead beat fathers, dead beat mothers. I wish the state would do more and take care of these people, but they themselves are understaffed. It takes all kinds to make this world go round. Just be grateful for what you have and pray for those who don't and pity the dead beat dads and moms for those are the ones that are loosing out in the end.
2007-01-31 08:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Heather S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about it. Why is it that dad's always have to pay the support? They both had the damn kid, so who can say who should pay who? I will never be a dead beat mom and try to take from others cause I can't be responsible.
2007-01-31 08:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by Candi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree it should work both ways but 99% of the time mothers r the ones to care for the kids the fathers just want out.
2007-01-31 13:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is done about mothers like that, and it is disgusting. Women complain constantly about life not being in their favor, nothhhing is fair, blah, blah, blah. Mother's should pay child support when the husband takes care of the kids... it's only fair. (Now only if we could find that case...)
2007-01-31 08:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by JenefaJean 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i understand. So i'm training my children manners, top and incorrect, selflessness, a thanks to protect themselves and others, loyalty, and appreciate for the various men's and women human beings's roles interior the kin. I not in any respect allow them imagine that existence is honest, or that their instant happiness has something to do with the options they make. because authentic existence is unlike that. So manage it, children. even as they advance up, i wish they are going to stay variety, thoughtful of their spouses, unswerving to their spouses, responsible for his or her children, and chorus from attempting to inform all people else what to do.
2016-10-17 04:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when men start getting stuck with the bill more than 80% of the time. Women get paid 25% less for the same job and same experience as men. How's that for fair? Women gave birth, that means we've done more than all your money can ever do. Don't like my answer? Oh well.
2007-01-31 08:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
You have no idea of what you are talking about, go back to watching television and listening to your ipod.
2007-01-31 08:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 6⤋