Talk to your father about how your feeling. See what he has to say about this situation: does he see it the same way, if so, why is he favoring your brother.
Also, you say biological - does this mean that you have a step-father or adoptive father who maybe treats you better. If so, focus on building your bonds with that man instead.
Parents are just people - flawed like the rest of us. I'm sure your biological father makes mistakes. The key is getting to know him, if he will let you, so that you can gain greater understanding as to who he is and how he relates to and treats you. He may never be one of those "Father Knows Best" Dads, but if he's not terribly abusive in some serious way, you should always try to maintain some level of a relationship with him. (Unless he abandoned you, your brother and your Mom years ago and has entered the picture much later hoping for stress-free reconciliation.)
Good luck to you. I hope you get to a better place with this man.
2007-01-31 07:20:56
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answered by Marvelissa 4
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Each child get treated different because u r different. He probably gets on better with his personality. It doesnt mean he loves u less.
2007-01-31 11:03:42
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answered by wildpalomino 7
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my dad dose that same things. my little brother is treated much better then me but i think it might be because i'm a girl too.
2007-01-31 07:01:53
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answered by cristie 2
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Are you sure or are you just misreading the situation. Either way you could tell your father how you feel and hear his response.
2007-01-31 07:03:18
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answered by Murray H 6
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Talk to him about it.
2007-01-31 06:59:28
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answered by Anonymous
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