Family - January 2007

My father is turning 53. He is difficult to buy for because he doesn't really NEED anything and won't tell you even if he did. I'm 26 and I have a 15 month old girl that he loves. Any ideas on a gift I could make that has something to do with pictures of my little girl? I don't want to do just a plain photo album, something a little more detailed maybe.. And yes, my father is a wicked sap when it comes to her, so I'm not worried about the gift not being manly enough!! Thanks in advance for any ideas!

2007-01-19 00:55:44 · 5 answers · asked by tmac 5

My problem is that i have been having sex with his new girl it kinoff just happened , anyway he has no idea and it's not the first girl of his i have screwed . I'm i wrong ? should i tell him?

2007-01-19 00:48:11 · 3 answers · asked by TROLL 1

He told me a couple of months ago and then I found out that when he took his son out for a drink for his birthday his ex wife showed up and they drank for 2 hours. Do I trust him?

2007-01-19 00:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Damian S 2

2007-01-19 00:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by ROBERT G 1

I'm in charge of all her finances but from time to time about 5-6 times a week I use the money for my own personal things. Sometimes I put a little back in. She's not to bright, but has asked where all her money is going. I just tell her bills. What does it hurt? She's lucky she has any money at all.

2007-01-19 00:38:36 · 31 answers · asked by Kevin 1

My sister got mad and slammed my gameboy advance sp down on the floor now it is broken and can't be fixed I demanded my mom that I got a new game because all I told her is to tell her friend to not bring beer in my room again Should my mom buy me another one?

2007-01-19 00:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 00:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by Amy R 1

Ok what this is about, I've been working at a good job for a few years now. And the problem is not the job it is my dad he live's with me he does not pay any bills to help out, except the home phone, , Now i figure it was kindness to let him live with me but it has gotten to a point that he take's control of everything I tell him not to smoke in the house and in the car that's just to name a few and he does it anyway now for all you people yes he's my dad and I realize he raised me and everything he was there when i needed him And i'm her now when he need's me but the point is how do you tell him that enough is enough either do something or get out

2007-01-19 00:24:15 · 17 answers · asked by the man 1

My sister has a mood problem and sometimes she used to lock me in our laundry room throw peanut butter jars at my back punch me in my back and till this day I can't stand my back that straight so most of the time of kind of hump backed and my mom dosen't say anything but u should've left her alone and most of the time I didn't even do anything the other day she got mad and broke my gameboy sp just because I told her could she tell her friend not to leave beer in my room anymore all she does is sit on her butt eat and mess up and is lazy and my mom dosen't care What she do to me Would this be considered as child abuse?I am tired of this!

2007-01-19 00:23:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is 33, and is visiting my husband and me. We are trying to get him a job in our town, my mother (63, grade 1 school teacher), phoned last night and said he must come home. She's alone and misses him. My father passed away 8years ago. I told her he must think of his future, and there are no jobs in their small town. She said, she doesn't care, she's alone and wants him home. What can I tell her so she can realise how neccesary it is for him to work. I stay in South Africa. He says he wants to take the bus home? Please help?

2007-01-19 00:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by yvetterx 1

well my mum and my 4 yr old brother have come from interstate and are staying for a week and this is one of the first times ive spoken to them for a few years now due to a fight,now the problem im having is that she is divorced but is seeing this guy for the past 3 yrs and he just decides to turn up at my house uninvited and stay for a few days with her witch i regregtably accepted(what can i do if ppl invite themselves) anywayz they just decided to start making plans to go out, to dinner,concerts etc and just expect me to mind my brother without even asking me first and tonight they have gone out for dinner but just dumped him on me,with a shitty nappy(he is only half toilet trained) and on the way out they attempted to change him but then the taxi came so they dropped everything and ran for it,and said oh well he is ur brother after all u fix it,then ran off,without telling me what time they'd be back,now i have a 2 yr old myself who needs looking after do u think this is fair on me

2007-01-19 00:13:19 · 23 answers · asked by Sexy_mum24 5

Feelings of resentment?

2007-01-18 23:56:26 · 16 answers · asked by sara y 1

2007-01-18 23:48:33 · 8 answers · asked by Ritch 3

My will leaves everything to my son, I have got 2 insurance policies an ISA and my house is worth £95,000 my husband has not got any insurance policies no house he came to me with just his clothes can he contest the will & get half of everything if something happens to me

2007-01-18 23:46:04 · 18 answers · asked by Janet C 2

With school teacher arrests fairly common today,are they fit to be teaching your children,? should they be given random drug and lie detector tests to prove their behavior is sound.and should they be given maximum sentences.

2007-01-18 23:40:58 · 10 answers · asked by superjoezzz@sbcglobal.net 3

To the one who asked abt my age and dat of my step dad. Am 24 and he is around 60,70, we're once staying under the same roof, bt i packed off when i realised his nasty things, he sacked my mum all becus he taught my mum was behind my leaving the house, so my mum knws abt everything. and he said he will go heaven and earth to marry me whether i lke it or not. i also dnt accept the gifts, he gives it out to people to be giving to me but i refuse it each time. thanks for all the advices. a really appreciate all ur encouragement and i promise all my advisers to abide by each of them. thanks so much. I LUV U ALL. worried gal. am out

2007-01-18 22:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by nanevaluv 1

My step dad left ma mum for the sake of me nd now wants to marry me, infact i dnt know what is wrong with him. he keeps pressurising me always and he is being buying me all sorts of things, what is happening, pls help ooooooooooooooooh. eh. meni sani ne(Ga)

2007-01-18 22:12:48 · 13 answers · asked by nanevaluv 1

My folks got divorced before i had hit primary school I had lived with my dad & somtimes went to my mom. My dad had gotten married & in came my step mom & her 3kids.Not that i minded.

Everytime my dad & i used to have 'our time' 1ce a day for an hour or so or whenever we had free time together she would get insanely jealous but wont show it.We both picked this up.

On weekeds my dad & i play tennis together on sat mornings,so do my younger step brother & sisters,she refuses to play. She hates it when i go on trips with my dad when he has work & does not like the idea of my dad giving me a sports ca for my 21st birthday,with a major party & a world tour of just the 2of us.

We have spoken to her about it,she is in denail. What do we do? What do i do? or is this just all to much for her to handel??

They have only been married for three years & this has been happening for about a year or 2

2007-01-18 22:11:31 · 5 answers · asked by MEHNAZ B 2

I can't. But then I don't remember alot of my childhood... maybe becuase I was unhappy? Or is it common to not remember those years... i am in my 30's and don't remember much until I was 20.. is this common?

2007-01-18 22:04:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife travels in her job. Her daughter is 25 and is currently living with us. She works a fulltime job etc. Everynight when we all go to bed, she closes her door to her bedroom.

The last 2 trips my wife has been out of town, the daughter leaves her bedroom door wide open.

My bedroom is directly across the hall, and i don't know but it's just wierd that she only does this when her mother is out of town.

am i just being reading to much into this.

2007-01-18 21:58:53 · 10 answers · asked by michael_trussell 4

2007-01-18 21:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, here is the whole situation...
My parents got divorced when I was 15 years old, due to my dads infadelity and my moms resulting alcoholism. I chose to live with my dad. My mom filed for divorce the day we moved away. My mom got behind on her child support payments. By oklahoma(which is where they were divorced) law, Child support ends when the child turns 18. I am now 19, married with my own child, and my mom is still having to pay my dad, because he thinks she owes him. Last June my dad had me sign a document, after he told me that it would end my moms payment. Immediately after, my mom told me she got a letter stating that she still owed $2000. My mom and I have both done the math, and she should have been done when i signed that document. My mom filed an appeal, and now she got a letter saying that her appeal was suspended and the case was reopened in Nebraska. I feel my mom is being taken advantage of and i need to know how to stand up to him since my mom is afraid to.

2007-01-18 20:32:05 · 6 answers · asked by Tiggy's Momma 3

2007-01-18 20:28:25 · 7 answers · asked by jatinder l 1

Every living person need food and food of personal choice. If we want to catch fish, lion, rat, bird we provide food of choice of eater. If we give ice cream to lion, we can NOT take him into cage. Ladies offer special / different food to each Devi / Devta. Ladies offer special / personal to self, to children, to guest, to friend, to mother, to neighbourer,to visitor, to Damad etc. but refuse to give same right to husband / father. She: You are Rakshash. You give me trouble. I eat ALL. Why you do not eat all. I like tea. You like lassi. Why you not take lassi? I dreamed of husband who can share tea with me. You eat a lot in parties. I will either kill you or will kill myself, if you speak."
If I am silent, all is OK.But if I tell my need / hobby / desire, I am fired. I am NOT allowed to buy, cook and eat of my choice. I am forced to eat silently. I can pay Rs. 10000/- to ladies who can cook of my choice. This is NOT a complaint. She want everything of her choice but ...

2007-01-18 19:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister has been off and on with a guy for about 5 years. When she's off with him she is with all kinds of other men. But the problem is, when she is off with him, he comes to me. I am a married woman and he has on more then one occasion tried to sleep with me and tells me he's in love with me. MY SISTER KNOWS ALL THIS! Well, they have now been ON for about 6 months and for the second time they are engaged. They are getting married!!! I feel hurt by this. Why should she marry him knowing that he doesn't respect me or truly love her. It hurts me. I am not one to judge other people or not support my family but this is really bothering me. How should I feel??

2007-01-18 19:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by LuVmYfAmiLY 2

I have a real problem with some of my friends. I have been friends with them for a very long time, but the past few years I have been the only one being the friend. I always have to call them if I want to talk to them. I understand we have our own lives and live a few hours away but they always want to act like we are still the best of friends. They always want to talk about themselves and their problems, and I can't ever get a word in edge wise. It makes me really sad that the people that I thought were my best friends are too involved with their own lives to pick up the phone and call someone they claim to care so much about. Even though I love them and miss them I want to say to hell with them at the same time. I don't know, what should I do?

2007-01-18 19:26:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

for no reason.I am a mother of two and i look good.I am nice and respectfull to people.Just because i am confident,some family members have said that i am stock up,nose in the air person.Why?Part of me doesn't care,but the other part is angry.So when i see them now,i am more distant and don't know how to be around them.I like them,i want to proove them wrong.But they have pushed me away and i can't get close.Tell me what you think?

2007-01-18 19:25:31 · 9 answers · asked by avavu 5

2007-01-18 19:21:51 · 12 answers · asked by Mardy 4

I'll be 26 years in 4 months, I work and they still tell me what do do, where & when to come home, etc. I know I stay under their roof and I ought to respect them, especially as I'm not done with school yet and they pay for my fees. But when I do anything contrary to their thoughts or decisions I'm disobedient & stuborn. They complain when I come home late which is not even everyday, and is usually 9pm at most! Yesterday I was home by 8pm and my mom knows I was from my BF's place, and she says he wont respect me cause we see everyday, I'm ruining myself and all that, is that true? They treat me like I'm still a child! I can't even sit comfortably in the house with my BF so I'd rather stay at his place to rest. Already they've made some decisions for me and they didnt work... and other times I unconsciously went in the opposite direction & did the wrong things . How can I let them know that I love them but I'd like to do some things on my own and make my own decision sometimes?

2007-01-18 18:55:54 · 12 answers · asked by blueheartz 2

What the hell can I do about my 2 brothers. They have this thing with stealing and going through my things EVERYDAY when im at work. One of them is 15 and the other is 10. I have bought several doorknobs for my door because they are busting them while breaking into my room. I have replaced the piece of trim for the door many many times because they are prying it off to get in there. I have yelled, Screamed, Left notes, Trashed their room, Everything!! And yet both of them deny it and blame one another. My dad is lazy he sits on the computer all day when he gets home from work. I have asked him to deal with it several times and he blows it off. What can I do?

2007-01-18 18:11:16 · 12 answers · asked by thugshady06 2