To the one who asked abt my age and dat of my step dad. Am 24 and he is around 60,70, we're once staying under the same roof, bt i packed off when i realised his nasty things, he sacked my mum all becus he taught my mum was behind my leaving the house, so my mum knws abt everything. and he said he will go heaven and earth to marry me whether i lke it or not. i also dnt accept the gifts, he gives it out to people to be giving to me but i refuse it each time. thanks for all the advices. a really appreciate all ur encouragement and i promise all my advisers to abide by each of them. thanks so much. I LUV U ALL. worried gal. am out
2007-01-18 22:41:07 · 8 answers · asked by nanevaluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I feel that throughout this ordeal, the one who suffered most is your mum, as knowing that her husband is leaving her for her daughter.
Do hope that you care and comfort your mum.
God bless you and your family
2007-01-18 23:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,u need to talk to both ur mum and dad(so do u call him i guess).make or take steps to understand what his problem is?this conversation should go on with all the three of u present yourself,your mum and that person.well was he good to u and ur mom before?u dint specify that or may be i was not able to understand properly.so if he is after your physical appearance to satisfy his own physical impulses,u need to get him to some psychiatrist,but if he is coming after u because he loves u so much and cares about u may be u should talk with him to get this point clear that for caring you ,he neednt leave your mom.he has ,might be misunderstood the care he has for you.anyway you have done a good thing by leaving ur house,but what about your mom,did u check whether she is fine out there with that person.and one more thing if u find what i have told is right,thanks for that,but if u feel its wrong sorry for that.believe that everything happening in our life is just like a passing cloud,every cloud will pass. remember,it is not the problems that makes us sad but the way we react to it.so plan ur reactions.always hope for the best.bye, take care.
2007-01-18 23:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that old he may be suffering from mental problems. I think you are doing the right thing by not accepting gifts or encouraging him.
2007-01-18 22:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FOR YOU ON MOVING OUT, NOW TRY TO GET YOUR MOM AWAY FROM HIM , AND IF HE KEEPS HARASSING YOU, CALL THE COPS. AND PRESS CHARGES, IF HE WON'T LEAVE YOU ALONE, AND TELL HIM STRAIGHT OUT THAT YOU WILL NEVER MARRY HIM OR GO WITH HIM BECAUSE HE IS NASTY. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-18 22:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thing if it is so difficult please inform police if u feel unsafe at time because of him . or even i feel consult a psycatrist for him.Don't feel bad but i feel u should take care.
2007-01-18 22:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by dilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops
2007-01-19 00:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell out of there
2007-01-19 00:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhhh what?
2007-01-18 22:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋