Family - January 2007

well, i think there relationship is at risk. My father has been asking me about Divorce and my veiws on it, even worse, both of my parents have been fighting with eachother for many years Once they thought i was asleep and i was liek 6 ( im 12 now) and i herd my father say "If you dont stop fighting with me ill walk out of this house and never come back!". they go to "relationship" classes i know this just because my father told me. I went into my kitchen and my mom was on the phone (talking to my dads sister) and she was crying (her eyes were red, kinda puffy and watering). as i said before my father has been getting my views on divorce and how id feel, and i get these headaches and my mom thinks it was from horomones or stress, but i had a cyst when i was born and they wanted to kill me to operate on me to see what was wrong, but when we moved to halifax they said it was harmless. I happen to think it was eather a Harmful cyst that was lying dornment, or a tumor lying dornment.

2007-01-19 11:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 10:55:23 · 13 answers · asked by New Yorker Girl 516 2

I go to the same school with her and i find out that she's being picked on by most students because of her immaturity and immature way of swaring. My parents tried everything in their power to stop this from happening, but the staff members at school won't help her. If fact, she is taken the blame whenever somebody picks on her and gets away with it.

Today, i've tried to get her act straight by telling her to work hard, have a successful life and all I can think of, but my younger sister is stubborn as heck to listen, What can i do? Please, anybody?

2007-01-19 10:53:20 · 28 answers · asked by Livewire 3

One time I was over at my sisters house and in the kitchen getting something to eat and he cop a feel of my butt. He pressed up against me when my back was turned and I could feel his erection. I feel so violated and it's so nasty.What do I do? I don't know how to tell anyone about this. I told him to stop and slapped him after the incidents but it's not working!

2007-01-19 10:44:24 · 23 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1

She said she had a dream the father of my 5 month old niece was getting beaten by him, she had a big black eye and bruises on her cheeks almost the size of half her face. She choked my sister before and does meth god only knows how much or whatever else this kid is doing to himself. I think he might be doing ok for the moment but it always seems like he is then he does some stupid thing again. What can you say the dream can mean???? Fiction or future???

2007-01-19 10:42:37 · 9 answers · asked by TinyLOKSTER 2

we first tried it in about 1994, but didn't think it was worth the cost. It was about 1997 when we got a free trial of AOL and haven't been offline since!

2007-01-19 10:41:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet n Sour 7

Just wondering if it's a good idea to write down and post some rules, like in a classroom, rather than just have them be implied.

2007-01-19 10:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet n Sour 7

My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship. With a plane it takes about an hour. I saw him last for the New Year, which we spent at his home town at his parents house and celebrated the New Year with his friends. I left his place about 2 weekends ago. I want to oraganise a new meeting but I am not sure if this is the right time to ask him? It's because he has been going through some stresses from work, he did not get promoted and since his boss has told him this on Wednesday, he has not been very happy. He has been cold and distant and he has been giving me all indications that he wants to be left alone. He told me today that he is sorry but he hopes that I understand. He told me today he misses me but he has not mentioned yet about our next meeting. We usually see each other once every month but sometimes I feel impatient and I press for planning our meetings. However, I would be the happiest if he came up to me and told me he wants to meet me. I find it hard to wait?

2007-01-19 10:39:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 10:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by M e g a n * 2

2007-01-19 10:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, today is my brother's 18th birthday, and my dad wad teaching him how to drive, so they went out for a round in the parking lot. Then, while they were there, they got in a fight over his driving, so they came home mad at each other. Well, my dad's ok now, but my brother is mad, and asleep, and we are planning a surprise dinner for him with balloons and everything! BUT, my dad is DRUNK! My brother HATES it when my dad is drunk, so how do I get the drunkenness out of him??????? We will wake my brother up soon, like in 20 minutes! HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OR, how can I make him sleep????? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! My dad is scary when he's drunk!

2007-01-19 10:33:17 · 12 answers · asked by yoooooooooooo 3

my sister in law can over last night and told me i stole 600. dollars from her when i was being nice and helping her clean out her apartment she was moving out of i was so hurt by what she said she thought this because i knew my oldest son need some extra money and i could not afford it but he came up with it by himself now her and her boyfriend are having me check out to see if i sent him any money would you be as angry and hurt as i was

2007-01-19 10:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by mary m 2

And do you tend to take it out on other people? How do you prevent that?

2007-01-19 10:29:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

and his parents just told him today that they are moving that afternoon! im DEAD serious!!!! so he is moving tonight. what would you do if your parents hid selling your house behind your back?! i would die! i wouldnt move!

2007-01-19 10:14:39 · 15 answers · asked by imachickennuggetgonebad 1

I was adopted when I was 9 months. My adopted parents say that my mom was a young teenager when she had me so she wanted to give me a better home. My mom also told me that my biological mom wanted to take me back after she had a job and a place to live and was capable to taking care of me. But my adopted dad was against it so. I was just wondering how do i find her? I have my original birth certificate and it doesn't have her name on it. It has my adopted parent's name and i don't know why that is because my mom's name should be on it. I don't know if they did that for privacy reasons for my mom or what? But I just don't know how to find her with only knowing where I was born at and the hosptial.

2007-01-19 10:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 1

ITS TRUE! how else does it get to their stomach?SO GROSS!

2007-01-19 09:54:38 · 26 answers · asked by Haley 2

why does parents want their child to do what they havent achieved?and want their child to be like someone successful?

2007-01-19 09:51:19 · 22 answers · asked by aycicek 2

Hubby came home today and announced that as he has been working his b*****ks off for months on end he's finally been given a pay rise. And a very nice one too!
Whats your good news?

2007-01-19 09:43:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My grandparents passed away and left me their small home to sell, so my family wouldn't have to struggle financially. I love them for that. My problem is that my grandpa was married to someone else 50 years ago and had children. They are angry at me because he didn't leave them anything. I never met them until the funeral, and besides, it was my grandma's will too. How do I handle the anger they have.

2007-01-19 09:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.Blessed 7

2007-01-19 09:36:15 · 3 answers · asked by Marie 1

i have a baby so its a big deal, espesially with the war going on, but ever since i was a lil kid i wanted to be in the military

2007-01-19 09:26:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am friend of astro(and aires).um..i am scared.
my younger brother(19)i dont know whats happend.i dont know him anymore.i dont think i ever did.hes threatend to kill our sister(shes 20)if i dont sleep with him.i would like him as a brother.but i really hate him so much.i dont feel anything for him.but if i stop.i am afraid for my sisters life.he used to hit her when we were kids.i dont know why he hates her so much.
none of our friends know whats happening.i am afraid to tell them in cause they think its some kind of joke.our parents died on a car crash years ago.i dont know if that has something to do with my brothher,what hes doing to us.he never hurt our sister when our parents were alive.but now....it makes me feel sick just typing this and thinking about it.i should go now.

2007-01-19 09:13:18 · 12 answers · asked by astro_4_aires 1

my mother in law and i have always gotten along great. well, she had pawned off all her rings a few months ago and was about to lose them. she called and said that if i would pay to get them out, i could keep 2 of them, one of which she has promised me when she diesanyway. it was a steal, b/c they are worth 5 times more than i was going to pay for them. well, she called her sister and found out that they would give her more $ for the one that she promised to me and wanted to charge me twice as much for it! i have the right to be mad right? i really love that ring, but just the thought that if i don't give her twice as much as she originally wanted, i can't have it and she's going to give it to someone else!

2007-01-19 09:07:51 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

My brother and I were as close as twins growing up. That changed when he got married two years ago. I was delighted with his wife in the beginning, but soon after she began to alienate him a little. I understood since they have their own personal life. But they continued very close to my mom and little by little over the two years refused to even talk to me? I tried emailing my brother asking him what I did wrong? He won't even answer. Well they got pregnant right after getting married and a few months later she supposedly "lost" the pregnancy..I later found out she aborted but I stayed out of that since it was their business. Well since my baby son was born in September they totally ignore him, too. My brother won't even hold him once or acknowledge him at all..which is bizarre since he lavishes loads of attention on my 12 year old. Thanksgiving they came over and ate my food and drank my wine and said NOT ONE WORD to me the whole time. But they brought my mom and daughter gifts.

2007-01-19 08:49:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother (bi-polar and a nut case in general) pulled my 12 year old brother out of school for over 2 months (told the school she was going to home-school him, all he did was play video games all day). I just found out recently and told her she had a week to get him back into school. Well, she didn't put him back in school so I called Child Protective Services and the Truancy Officer. Now she has shipped him off to New Mexico without letting him say goodbye to any of us. She is hiding him there with someone. She is not a fit mother, I have proof after what she did to me and my sister. I am able to take care of him, I'm 24, make plenty and have room in my house. His dad wants him to come live with him too. His dad is not the biological father...my brother's real father wants nothing to do with him. Is there anything I can do to get my brother back here? We are in Minnesota and now my brother is in hiding in New Mexico (I know I could figure out where he is with a little work)

2007-01-19 08:40:54 · 8 answers · asked by partiesbyadren 1

2007-01-19 08:37:52 · 14 answers · asked by littleheadcat 6

How do you tell or show your children-they can be grown and still count-that you love them without actually saying the words "I LOVE YOU"?

I try to show an interest in my childrens interests (schoolwork, art that she made, pokemon cards even if I don't get it, lol), lots of praise, playing, hugs and kisses.
Taking my oldest (17) shopping and then going to dinner afterwards. We have not been getting along very well lately and I don't show it as much as I do with the younger ones. But when I do I try to make her laugh or feel appreciated. The last good mom and daughter time we had is I did her hair and we had a lot of fun.

Sometimes I cuddle and rock the baby (19 mo) and don't say anything and just look into her eyes and I feel that is a very loving moment between the two of us.
My 6 year old son and I have this look that I can't describe and it is sort of like a smile but different and we say "I LOVE YOU" with that expression. Moms may know what I mean, lol.

2007-01-19 08:12:13 · 7 answers · asked by LS 4

I am trying to improve a few areas of my life. Does anyone know any good books on stress and anxiety management? parenting?? improving your romantic relationship??
Thanks in advance!

2007-01-19 08:10:56 · 5 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1

2007-01-19 08:08:45 · 11 answers · asked by Little miss naughty 2

My wife and I have been married for two years, but we have been together for five. She has four children who I have been daddy too. Their biological father is in jail and has never been in there lives physically and financially. I would like to adopt them, but i don't know where to start or who to contact.

2007-01-19 08:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by Hawnhoney808 2