well, i think there relationship is at risk. My father has been asking me about Divorce and my veiws on it, even worse, both of my parents have been fighting with eachother for many years Once they thought i was asleep and i was liek 6 ( im 12 now) and i herd my father say "If you dont stop fighting with me ill walk out of this house and never come back!". they go to "relationship" classes i know this just because my father told me. I went into my kitchen and my mom was on the phone (talking to my dads sister) and she was crying (her eyes were red, kinda puffy and watering). as i said before my father has been getting my views on divorce and how id feel, and i get these headaches and my mom thinks it was from horomones or stress, but i had a cyst when i was born and they wanted to kill me to operate on me to see what was wrong, but when we moved to halifax they said it was harmless. I happen to think it was eather a Harmful cyst that was lying dornment, or a tumor lying dornment.
2007-01-19 11:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are my parents goign to get a divorce? My family has 4 kids in it....What about my headaches? i have another Question on them you can look at that....
2007-01-19 11:06:43 · update #1
I'm sure they have issues, every marrige can have issues that they need to work out. They may be just putting up with each other for the sake of you kids. It is kinda wierd that your father is getting your opinion, i'm sure he is worried about hurting you guys, but if they do divorce it is diffenelty not because they dont' love you guys.
2007-01-19 11:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they are and no they aren't. Yes they are alright because all relationships has ups and down and the fact that they are in "relationship classes" says they recognize there is a problem and is trying to address it. No they aren't because they shouldn't go to you for your views on "divorce". What does that mean, they will stay together and be miserable for the sake of the children? That's not healthy. If you have unfavorable views towards divorce they will work harder to make it work? At 12, how much do they expect you to know about divorce?
2007-01-19 19:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by The Last Good Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess every marriage has its ups & downs. I was quite young when my parents got divorced (i was 6,now 21 & still living with my dad) I still chat to my mom. Till this day my mom & dad both sat me down & chat about the differences that they had. They now still chat & have a good time but they not married. My dad has gotten remarried & my mom is in a relationship & everyones just happy. At first they were all worried about how i would take it. each person deals differently. Im just happy for my parents & step parents. Alteast they can all sit at the dinner table without killing each other
2007-01-20 12:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by MEHNAZ B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a lot of heartache for you, isn't it? Please just know that whatever happens - none of it is your fault. Your job in life right now is to get a good education and to enjoy being with your friends. And next time you're at the doctor's, ask him/her about the cyst again. Your old enough now to ask questions if you'd like! Take care, ok? Your life will unfold as it should...
2007-01-19 19:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might get a divorce if it is serious fighting. Maybe you could ask them to work out their problems and try to make up.
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2007-01-19 19:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by daisymoomoocow7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents relationship doesnt sound healthy maybe your dad is just preparing u for the worse.
2007-01-19 19:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋