Every living person need food and food of personal choice. If we want to catch fish, lion, rat, bird we provide food of choice of eater. If we give ice cream to lion, we can NOT take him into cage. Ladies offer special / different food to each Devi / Devta. Ladies offer special / personal to self, to children, to guest, to friend, to mother, to neighbourer,to visitor, to Damad etc. but refuse to give same right to husband / father. She: You are Rakshash. You give me trouble. I eat ALL. Why you do not eat all. I like tea. You like lassi. Why you not take lassi? I dreamed of husband who can share tea with me. You eat a lot in parties. I will either kill you or will kill myself, if you speak."
If I am silent, all is OK.But if I tell my need / hobby / desire, I am fired. I am NOT allowed to buy, cook and eat of my choice. I am forced to eat silently. I can pay Rs. 10000/- to ladies who can cook of my choice. This is NOT a complaint. She want everything of her choice but ...
2007-01-18 19:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
were u disturbed or angry while posting this question.???????
2007-01-18 23:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is with you and that dang backslash?! i am not 100% sure (or 50% for that matter) of what you are saying, but it sounds like your wife makes you do what she wants you to do, but treats everyone else with respect and dignity, well if i am right you need to stand up to her, and not take that, because you are not her little puppy, if not, she'll just keep doing you that way. That's all i can help you with because that is all that i understood, and i am not even sure if i understood that much!
2007-01-19 04:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you find someone to cook you something of your choice for your office lunch that you can eat secretly and dump homemade food.
2007-01-20 11:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but it sounds like you have a selfish wife.
Try to love her and treat her as an equal. Show love to your children as she does.
Do some things to make her work easier.
Giver more hugs.
2007-01-19 04:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am confused.Treat your wife with more respect and love.She does all the hard work of cooking and does not get a word of appreciation.
2007-01-19 05:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a harridan. Give her a piece of your mind.
2007-01-19 12:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused
2007-01-19 03:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by geminimale82 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋