He told me a couple of months ago and then I found out that when he took his son out for a drink for his birthday his ex wife showed up and they drank for 2 hours. Do I trust him?
2007-01-19 00:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Damian S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ordinarily I might say trust him , he is with you & thats what counts. BUT, he didn't tell you right away about this. He KNEW you wouldnt like it so he decieved you about that night. I would be very angry with him. Ask how he would feel if the situation was reversed. I would tell him that you have lost some of your trust in him because of this, I would also tell him his ex better steer clear of him & YOU!
2007-01-19 00:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question is do you trust your husband in general? The way I see it, he was honest enough to tell you about what had happened. If your husband has never given you reason not to trust what he says or his integrity, I dont feel it should change now. However, if there has been a long running line of questionable instances, then something could be going on. I lean more towards the former as he was willing to come and tell you. Have you asked him yet if anything is going on? Hope things work out.
2007-01-19 00:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Colias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could just be friends- why does he only go to the bar and you don't? My husband doesn't drink, so out of respect I only go to the bar with friends every once in a while (like once every few months). Ex's and booze don't go together well- I wouldn't trust it. Would he liike to see you hanging around with an ex?
2007-01-19 02:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by live75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm on your factor right here. To me, the bar and membership scene is in the previous...that's what you do for exciting at the same time with your acquaintances whilst you're unmarried..OR in case you 2 bypass at the same time and the two decide to be there then it incredibly is different. yet you're over it..he could desire to strengthen up and act like a married guy..exceptionally at 37. My husband and that i are 23 and 24 and characteristic been over that for a while now and are waiting on our son to reach!
2016-12-14 05:37:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stay away from bars and stop allowing his ex to think that's their meeting place. That's what married men that have respect for their wives and family do.
2007-01-19 01:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told you about it and he was just socializing with the child and his mother I see no problem with that. He wasnt cheating and He just made good for his son.
2007-01-19 01:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband has a child with someone else that woman will always be in your life. if all they did was drink thats fine. don't worry so much.
2007-01-19 00:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel as if you Can follow your heart tell you also what your gut tell you too has he every cheat on you before and if he hasn't remember who bed he comes home to ever night
2007-01-19 11:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-01-19 00:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by booge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋