Family - January 2007

I currently put daughters father on child support at his request. His whole thing was that I wasnt going to get but about 50 dollars a month. Well he has to pay me 272.00 a month which is not a whole lot money but he is already like 3000.00 in back child support. Well he is on disability and now they are talking about taking the 272 out of his payments. We are trying to work it out for my daughter's sake but I am thinking to wait to see how he does for the fear if I dropped it now I want be ablt to file again or can I. This guy had his mother to call and ask me to drop the support because her son only gets 498 a month and the 272 will be coming from that. I kind of feel sorry but then I have my daughter to think about. What should I do.

2007-01-10 06:14:10 · 12 answers · asked by broke 1

she gets up in the morning, goes to bed at night and through out the day has her finger up her nose, i've told her its not nice, told her she'll make her nose sore, given her tissues, fancie hankies...but no still the finger is there, its not that she's always picking it just her finger is there why ???

2007-01-10 06:05:36 · 17 answers · asked by mommyfairy 1

i just got my child from the state from her mother and they gave me full custody of her but she don't have my last name i want her to have my last name since i am the dad.

2007-01-10 05:50:58 · 7 answers · asked by crystal s 1

I am 33 years old, and just had a bit of a run in with my Mum. She is single, living on her own, and very young for her 60 years. We had a discussion about the fact that neither my brother (37) or myself listen to her when she is low. Is this normal, it is true, both my brother and myself find it so hard to hear her when she is low. And she says how she listens to us both all the time (which is true to an extent, altho my brother would deny this, he feels he has noone to talk to, so he is seeing a councillor)
I do find it really hard when she calls and her voice is low, and I really don't know what to say to her. We both also feel that she just doesn't help herself, we both feel she is quite a weak character, but this she would deny vehemently.
This is really hard to put into writing, but would just love to hear about the relationship between other people and their mums, and whether you can listen to her when she is depressed.........thanks for reading.....

2007-01-10 05:40:29 · 16 answers · asked by happyballerinagirl 2

I asked my girlfriend to trim my mustache with scissors and she pinched my lip. It hurt like hell! I yelled at her because it hurt. She apologized and said that she didn't do it on purpose. I walked away. When I walked into the other room, she yelled out to me, " don't ask me to do anything like that for you again if you can't understand that it was an accident." My friend was in the house when this happened. I feel that she was challenging me, so I told my friend to wait outside. I went back into the room where she was and got in her face. It took everything that I had not to knock her *** out. I don't believe in being challenged. I told her that I was moving out. She didn't even ask me to stay. Now I am about to move into my Karate studio because the next time she challenges me I don't know if I will be able to refrain from knocking her out. She doesn't even seem to be affected by me moving out. Do you think that she has someone else ready to take my place already?

2007-01-10 05:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by david t 1

ever since i was little i can remember my parents always depending on me for things. wen i was 14 we lost out house and i had to get job so i could help pay the bills. now i m 19 and i m the only one working and giving money. they are on disabality and i understand they have problems but i m tired of always being depended on for things and when i dont have it they get upset and they make me feel bad about myself and nt being able to help them more . i love my parents and they make me feel bad when i go out because they cant and i always get the i miss you text messges and cant wait for you to come home. i m tired of them always making me feel bad but i dont wanna hurt there feelings espically my mom but i m fed up and dont kno wat to do any more

2007-01-10 05:35:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My youngest is turning thirteen years old and I thought about throwing him a party and include girls. Girls he hangs out with in school. Is it not right? Because I want it to be a great party by inviting both boys and girls.

2007-01-10 05:35:14 · 9 answers · asked by christina 2

2007-01-10 05:30:57 · 7 answers · asked by lupo_dm 1

Is it true that Edmonton has open boundaries for schools? If so, how does the transportation work for the kids, if transportation is provided at all.
Also, I have read conflicting information on the good neighbourhoods in Edmonton. I heard South was good, and then heard North was good and South was bad. Which is the truth?

2007-01-10 05:16:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok guys can anyone help me here?

I received a message from my driving instructor and it asked if I wanted a lesson for tomorrow at 6.30 pm. When I responded by saying yes please that would be great, she sent me a message back saying that she sent that text on Monday for a lesson yesterday. However the date at the top of the msg asking if i wanted a lesson said ''10 Jan 07 @ 4:40'. Is this date the date she sent the message or the date I received it. I'm asking because she's lied to me before and if she's lied this time I'm cancelling lessons with her.

2007-01-10 05:14:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friends 17y.o. stepson was discovered to have been for some time sexually molesting his 8y.o. half-sister his stepson is now in juvenile custody and going thru the judicial process but my friend hasn't yet been able to bring himself to visit his step-son, whom he has been raising for the past 9 years

he says he is very upset and doesnt want to visit with the anger he feels which would leave him with nothing to say except for ask questions when no answer or excuse could ever suffice

should he go to visit at least just to show that he still loves his son and is thinking about him?

that is the answer for him, i have. someones's opinion of this may help

2007-01-10 05:13:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiances last name is Bluntschly, but both of his parents have past. Does anyone know where it originated from?

2007-01-10 05:02:02 · 5 answers · asked by DamondlovesMegan 1

I'm 17. I've been with my boyfriend 5 months, but my parents are making my life hell.
About 4/7 days, I'll be abused. Mentally or physically. I go to my boyfriends whenever I can, which is usually twice a week.
I'll do something MINOR wrong, at times I've been told to do it, at times it's making a mountain out of a molehill - Not just in my view, other times it's going around random things to shout at me for & at times, yes, I admit, it is my fault.
I have college, exams, I TRY to do work, but I can't, I'm so stressed/being shouted at/barred from the computer. I get stopped from doing simple little things.

My boyfriend dislikes my parents for how they are, and vice versa.
His parents know the situation I'm in, & he's often asking me to move in with him & his parents
I'm worried his parents mightn't like me, I'd get in the way, I'd be completely reliant on them, I have no income, he'd grow tired of me or argue with me would be worse, I know I wouldn't be allowed back home.
Any advice?

2007-01-10 04:36:46 · 5 answers · asked by cigolon 1

i dont get on with my dad, stephen law but he was married to a woman called sally mayes he had two daughters called charity and rebecca law. he has a brother called david law and a sister called bonnie, he has 2 other siblings too and his mothers name was joan law, my father isnt worth wasting my time talking too, but i would like to talk to my step sisters, does anyone know of any people by these names? as i have a side of my family i dont know and would like to, can any one help me? they all were associated with the city of bath.

2007-01-10 04:32:49 · 7 answers · asked by flicky 1

I gave my son his fathers last name, becasue he was there at the hospital when he was born (I know dumb reason) I am no longer with the babys father...and he doesnt help me out! I want to change my sons last name so that he will only carry mine. How do I go about this? Is it a long process? I have also heard that if I was to leave the state, I would need to get the father okay first? Is this true?

2007-01-10 04:32:35 · 15 answers · asked by Licha 1

My step kids mother got remaried and from the beginning have called their stepdad by his first name. Now that their mom is having a baby with stepdad, mom has told the kids that they have to call him dad so they don't confuse the baby when it comes. My stepdaughter age 5 says she knows he's not her real dad and wants to call him dad so she doesn't confuse the baby. But my stepson age 6 still wants to call him by his first name. Is it right for their mom to do that to them when they see thier natural father 50% of the time?

2007-01-10 04:29:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-10 04:20:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

With tears hitting the keyboard, and my brain hurting from anger and self-pity, I am at the point of total loss. My 15 yr. old moved 2 states back from her dads 35 hours ago. agreed to follow simple house rules, and just be nice to her family, and in return respect would be returned. Where peace once lived it has moved on. Rules, respect, and common sense have all been broken by her since returning. No she was not abused, nor deprived, but yes I admit I have given too much to her growing up, but did so seeing all the hard work and pride she had in herself. She has been given the attention, and nurtering. Why can she not see that I love her. I would give her my last breath of air that come from my lungs if it would mean her being happy, and living right. Why can she not talk in a low voice as she does to her friends. Our rules her are nothing out of ordinary. Why does she hate her life and feel we are all out to get her. Give me a word, something to heal us both. My heart is crushed.

2007-01-10 04:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by FANNY 2

There home smells like urine terrible, and i feel uncomfortable even sittng down on any of the chairs. they will not admit they have a problem ( especially grandma), but if she knew how bad it really smelled she would be very embarased. any advice?

2007-01-10 04:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by phil b 1

To the public eye..everyone thinks my family is perfect..we get along like normal families...of course..but in a way its a big show...I don't want anyone to know what my family is really like..but the truth is..My mom..cant express herself..she hides in the basement and smokes away..my dad is an asshole when hes mad! He throws things..punches walls..its bad sometimes...then he just shuts us all out and goes into the other room and closes the door..My older sister...follows close to my dad..only she actually hits me..or whoever...she says the meanest things which actually hurt me...i express myself by writing..or running..thats the best way i can...my brother does NOTHING..he doesnt talk..write..he expresses nothing..besides one day he exploded and started stabbing the couch with a knife...what should i do? we've had so many family meetings and they do NOTHING..im so lost!

2007-01-10 04:08:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my children are 6 and 9, both boys, and t they are driving me crazy.....they fight with each other all the time they are starting to back mouth me and my husband and I have had it with them even my 2 yr old "boy" has picked up on this does any1 have any suggestions on what to do....and yes they do get plenty of love and disapline.

2007-01-10 03:59:30 · 6 answers · asked by LITTLE_RAT 2

I am very close to my one sister and I think she thinks I'm going to ask her. Naturally, because I know it would kill her if I didn't, I am leaning towards asking her. However, she has a 4 year old and he hasn't been baptised yet so I don't feel she would take it seriously.
My husband and I don't attend chruch on a regular basis, but I still want my daughter to understand and beleive in god and heaven.

Anyway, I also think my sister in law wants us to ask her.

How do I chose between families without hurting anyones feelings?

2007-01-10 03:41:17 · 20 answers · asked by Newmomofone 3

Hey..im pretty new here....i will try and be quick with my question.

Im in real mess where my relationship is concerend...iI want to check out if my boiyfriend is cheating on me.I have come across couople of services claiming to get me email password.

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But is there anyone who have tried them for real and was helped.

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2007-01-10 03:27:26 · 5 answers · asked by Mariah J 1

What can I do about my Dad? He is the biggest control freak going. He never lets my Mum come from Sheffield to visit me in Leeds, even though they visit my sister all the time. They hardley ever visit me - if ever. I'm due to have an operation soon. My boyfriend may not be able to get time off work to care for me, so I need my parents. My mum wants to look after me, but he won't let her come near my house and I says now I've moved out I'm not allowed to stay there even for a visit. Me amd mom get on great and I really need her, but she hasn't got the guts to stop my dad holding her prisoner. She isn't even allowed to go out without him - with her mates and stuff. What can I do? I tried to tell him he was being manipulative and selfish, but he didn't care. My relatives have tried too, and got nowhere.

2007-01-10 03:19:24 · 8 answers · asked by TEE S 4

2007-01-10 03:15:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you deal with it when your dad has to go away for a while. like if he went on the road for a year?

2007-01-10 03:01:25 · 5 answers · asked by i_love_rain 2

Im going back to work tomorrow after 2.5 years staying home with my sweet little boy...HOW DO I STOP FEELING SO GUILTY AND MISSING HIM SO MUCH ?? I know school is going to be good for him but I feel so sad....

2007-01-10 02:42:28 · 4 answers · asked by DRD 3

OK guys I'm really stuck with this...
My mum has 10 brothers and sisters. She lost contact with all of them. In July 2005, my Mum SAYS she had a phone call claiming the oldest sister was dead. The one she was most close too. It was the icing on the cake for her and she had a breakdown. I went looking for the family recently and my found my Aunt who is well and truly alive in the USA!!!!
Do I tell my mum or let sleeping dogs lie??
I have had contact with this Aunt through someone else and she's horrified that my mum has told her family that she's dead. My mum's not a *****, she loved her sister dearly I can't see areason why she would say this unless she throughly believed it. What should I do?

2007-01-10 02:30:51 · 17 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-01-10 02:24:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I do now.My sister got a dell computer then didnt want it so I took over payments.I give her the money every month but she dont pay for it .and i know this bc they call me asking for her and i tell them she dont live here and she dont .she gets the bill every month way behind after i have been paying.So i think i will just stop giving the money to her. Will they come get the computer after i have payed so much for nothing?

2007-01-10 01:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by bette69 5