Family - January 2007

I'm 19 and my cousin is 15. We are best friends, we go to concerts togethers, play video games, sleep over, we even play instruments together(Bass and Guitar), we knew each other since we were little...where like the perfect friends.

But a few days ago our Grandmother hosted a little family re-union, around bed time we started pillow fighting and wrestling. She brushed her breast against me ALOT. It seemed innocent because we were playing and all but I don't think it was. It happened way too many times.

Also we shared the floor when sleeping, she while yawning and "stretching" made a her hand land/touch my privates. I was pretty sure she did that on purpose. So I just slept on my stomach.

I have not told my mom yet. I'm not sure if she was just playing or not, is it even worth telling my mother? Is this incest?

2007-01-09 14:44:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a light smoker, who will quit, but have failed to do so yet though I have tried. I have a 3 year old and do not allow smoking around her. I smoke on my back porch, sit in nonsmoking sections, etc. Though, for a short time, I lived in a 2nd story apartment and did when she was asleep, but leaned to the window with a fan and very seldom. My parents smoke 3-4 packs each a day. They live 2 states away and the nearest motel to my house is 15 miles. They came to visit. It was cold and raining. They refused to go outside, smoked in the basement, in the spare bedroom, or sat next to the door opened, but not blowing smoke out. I argued with them and told them not to, but they said then they would leave and not come back. I ignored it (it was Christmas) and told them how I felt. Now, they say that I have banned them because I won't allow them to smoke in my house. What do you think? Please identify if you are a smoker or not.

2007-01-09 14:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

The concern is to get suggestions or sites to share elder care questions and experiences. Have you got any tips , experiences to share? Mom's a real hoot some days. But she is so fragile I feel like I'm in charge of a collection of rare fine china. If she breaks, I think I'll fall apart myself.

2007-01-09 14:38:05 · 1 answers · asked by character 5

I go to college about 12 hours driving-time from home, and have several breaks over the course of the school year. While I'm away at school, my parents use my room as a guest room, and my 3 younger siblings use it as a form of entertainment. Every time I come home, several of my things have been gone through and/or taken and/or ruined, such as clothing, CDs, DVDs, etc. I have discussed this matter with my parents several times, and they have discussed it with my siblings many times as well. How can I find a way to either keep my siblings out of my room, or teach them to respect my things and my privacy? Thanks!

2007-01-09 14:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend of almost five years have two beautiful little girls ages 2 and 2 months. He has 3 other children from previous relationships before me ages 11, 9, and 3. His family has never really liked me for whatever insane reason of their own, but they have taken the dislike to new levels. They do not deal with our kids but they deal with the rest of his kids on a everyday basis. His other kids knows their aunts, uncles, and their grandparents, but on the other hand my kids only know me, him, and the little bit of family that I have. I don't think its fair that my kids are being denied from knowing and dealing with his side of the family. I want them to have everything that I didn't and as i was growing up I didn't know my mothers family so it is important to me for them to know family. My kids don;t get Christmas, Birthdays, or nothing but my boyfriend seems to act like he doesn't see how his family act towards me and my kids. How can I cope?

2007-01-09 14:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by TASHAWNA B 1

My sister-in-law can find the down side of everything and will be the first to let you know what it is. She is very suspicious if you ask her the simplest question such as what happened today. My Dad asked her if she was going to get her daugher's picture taken since she will be turning 1 year old soon (and hasn't had a photo taken since 3 months) and has grown and changed a lot. This made my SIL fly off the handle at him and tell him that she had no plans to get her daughter's picture made any time soon and why did he need to know!? Any harmless little comment or question sets her off. I am the main babysitter for my neice, so dealing with my sister-in-law is a have-to rather than a want-to thing. Anyone have any ideas? I'm all out.

2007-01-09 14:17:42 · 3 answers · asked by americandream1 2

Ok im 16 and in 1 1/2 years ill be getting married....My BF and I Said that we wanted kids and said If i wanted to i could be a stay at home mom.....Is that wrong?

2007-01-09 14:16:31 · 22 answers · asked by allisay2008 2

Will you put plans to further studies, career on hold and move to a foreign country with your husband?
He has been posted there to work... what will you do?

2007-01-09 14:15:22 · 7 answers · asked by alibaba 2

2007-01-09 13:53:34 · 11 answers · asked by emma 4

Ok, I totally hate my brother, like he is my half brother and I totally have no love for him at all. He is such a jerk and he smart mouths me and my parents all the time and they dont really do much about it. He is spoiled by his grandma too...would I be wrong to just beat the **** out of him if he keeps being a little ***?

2007-01-09 13:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by AiR 2 Breathe™ 1

I may need a therapist. I don't know. My mom is extremly overprotective, and I'm extremely independent. She calls me between 1 and 3 times per day. If I go out shopping with my friends, she calls my husband and wants to know when I'll be back, where I am, who drove, and if he minds for me going out with my friends? She is driving me bananas, and I end up snapping at her on a weekly basis. I love her, and I want so badly to have a good relationship with her, but I can't stand the constant behavior police. I started a home show sales business, and now she is griping about how she worries about me being on the road at night, and how dangerous it is, and how my son needs me. Every day is a guilt trip of some form or fashion. I don't know what to do, I'm at my wits end. I'm 29, this has got to stop or it is going to ruin my relationship with her. Everything I do, is up to her to conduct her 20 questions, and then the guilt trip if I don't comply. pray for me, i'm going insane, and I'm sad.

2007-01-09 13:32:42 · 14 answers · asked by kinsey c 1

So my charger broke on my iBook laptop.I ordered a new one but It took 4 weeks for me to recieve the charger because they no longer make the charger for the iBook anymore they make different ones for the new laptops that are magnetic. Well I was lying on the couch computer in my lap reading questions on yahoo answers. I came upon this really funny question about a girl who found pleasure in her dog licking herself. Well I busted out laughing my brother comes and says let me read what you are laughing at I kept saying no cause I knew it was dirty and didn't want him to see it. Well he took the computer and read it. After reading it he gave me the computer back and I put it back on my lap. Next thing I know he is coming after me with a pillow pretending to throw it at me telling me that question is sick. He knows I flinch everytime he does this and next thing you know the laptop fell on the ground breaking the charger. Who should pay for a new one

2007-01-09 13:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I get extremely annoyed when my parents want to get into my "personal" afairs...as a result I tell them very little (i.e i'm very vague with my answers). My brother on the other hand tells them everything, it gets so annoying because my parents tend to be controlling and tell him what he should and shouldn't do when it comes to his friends and'or girlfriend. We are adult children (both in our late 20's) and i feel like a little child when they act this way. Does anyone elses parents act in this controlling, overbearing way, and who's also in their late 20's?

2007-01-09 13:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by califonialove 1

My mom and I just had a huge fight!?
The night before last I asked her to call a christian pricate school and ask them could I enroll. I have been in home schooling on the computer for almost 2 years now and sadly i have no friends =[. Well, at the begginging of the school year, I had to finish my 7th grade work. Well, now I'm behind and they are going to kick me out on the 12th because I am 36 assignments behind. 3 weeks ago the teacher told me not to worry about it, but 2 weeks ago they told me I had to have 45 assignments done. My mom has been screaming at me, because I told her, whats the point in going to turtoring tommorrow when I am going to be kicked out anyways. She was like " im taking your Jamie Foxx tickets back" I just snapped and screamed back at her " fine, take them back!" She just keeps on making me feel like im never going to be anything =[ She said " maybe your better off in a detention home" and I screamed back " Maybe I am" and she was like

2007-01-09 12:58:06 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4

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2007-01-09 12:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by Weasel Girl 3

2007-01-09 12:16:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

the ?s I've posted.

2007-01-09 12:15:37 · 6 answers · asked by JUST ME 1

my room was a little bit messy..not much tho! and he said hes going to take my door! i need my privacy and hate that hes gna take it away from me

2007-01-09 12:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by nicci b 1

2007-01-09 12:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by akser 1

My husbands ex wife decided today she is claiming my step daughter age 18 and my step daughters toddler son on taxes for 2006. This is the situation: my step daughter lived with her mother for three months she then lived with her grandparents for two months and with her dad and i for the remaining 7 months of the year. when she lived with her mom for the three months she worked and paid for her own lunches, dinners and necessities. When her mother threw her out she kept her 1 1/2 year old grandson, who she is trying to claim as well. The son of my step-daughter (ex's grandson) lived with the ex for 7 total months and with my step daughter for 8 total months (three of the months the grandson was under the roof with both of them) so anyways now the ex wants money and is planning on claiming both of them. we wanted my step daughter to be able to claim herself and her son so she could get money back to get a car to go to college. who is legally able to claim my step daughter and grandson?

2007-01-09 12:03:46 · 15 answers · asked by chemky1 3

Sometimes my dad treat me like young girl like he make sure what I am eat, send a mgs to him where I am and very inolve and he seem can't give me a space. What should I do?

I love him so much but he drive me crazy. I am almost 22 years old.

2007-01-09 12:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, a little while ago i opened this package that was for my brother. and mow he is looking for it. I had one to but mine was already opend by me. My mom is going to get super mad at me if she finds out!


What's a good lie?

2007-01-09 11:56:27 · 3 answers · asked by JUST ME 1

I know it's eather 11 or 12. I have a friend that babysits and shes 12.
I also want to know the legal age for staying home alone in Ohio.
I think it's 12, or mabey 11...

I'm not sure.
Do you know?

2007-01-09 11:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by A V 3

Dose anyone know how to get my mom to quit smoking i mean she says she quits but she dosen't it makes me so mad you know so please help i don't like it at all. Please reply.

2007-01-09 11:53:53 · 18 answers · asked by ♥LuV my preppyness♥ 5

is it really bad that i have one??

2007-01-09 11:51:29 · 25 answers · asked by Mater_rocks!! 2

My brother and mother were ganging up on me and making fun of me. they know how much it bothers me and even though i ask them nicely, they still throw out hurtfull things at me and make fun of the way i talk. I kept asking them to stop but they continued so i went to go to my room but my mom got in my way. when she did this i got so angry that i pushed her out of my way. but then my brother came chasing after me and pushed me as hard as he could into the wall. now i have a nose bleed. i cant stop crying. their both in the kitchen still making fun of me, what do i do, i feel guilty for pushing my mom, but im tired of this.

2007-01-09 11:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-09 11:43:09 · 14 answers · asked by tdg2007 1

Ever since I have got home from vacation I have been sitting in my house all day and all night. I have literally not move from my house. It is really starting to bother me. I have no friends and no car. Does anyone have any good advice?

2007-01-09 11:38:10 · 5 answers · asked by zalaxus 1

My sister took her own life on the 8th of August. She overdosed on pills and alcohol. Me, my mom and her 2 children are the ones who walked in and found her already gone. My mom moved out of the house right after it occured. Now she is having a hard time selling the house and is seriously condsidering moving back there. I am really against it. I do not want the girls in the house either. I need some advise.

2007-01-09 11:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by lisaloulou6969 2