Me and my boyfriend of almost five years have two beautiful little girls ages 2 and 2 months. He has 3 other children from previous relationships before me ages 11, 9, and 3. His family has never really liked me for whatever insane reason of their own, but they have taken the dislike to new levels. They do not deal with our kids but they deal with the rest of his kids on a everyday basis. His other kids knows their aunts, uncles, and their grandparents, but on the other hand my kids only know me, him, and the little bit of family that I have. I don't think its fair that my kids are being denied from knowing and dealing with his side of the family. I want them to have everything that I didn't and as i was growing up I didn't know my mothers family so it is important to me for them to know family. My kids don;t get Christmas, Birthdays, or nothing but my boyfriend seems to act like he doesn't see how his family act towards me and my kids. How can I cope?
2007-01-09 14:20:08 · 4 answers · asked by TASHAWNA B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would feel as you do, left out like my kids were not as good as the others, not part of the family. Personally I would go sit down with my in laws and try to reason with them, and try to shed some light to this situtation It may be that they just don`t see it as you do. Then again you may be opening a can of worms that you will not like. How do you feel, Do you love him? Is confronting his family worth the little attention the kids might get.something else to thank about.
in the meantime love your kids show love for their dad make a home for the four of you all. after all he comes to home to you everynight .
2007-01-09 15:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by eddie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you go to family function or do you get together during Christmas at his family? If you do, then what's keeping your children from relating to this family?
You also need to talk to your boyfriend about your feeling regarding relationship between the family and the children. He's the one who can help resolve this issue.
2007-01-09 14:55:51 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about them. Why do you want to have contact with people who don't care about you or you kids. You are your girls family. Do you want them to pretend they like you? Let them be. You concentrate on you and your girls. Stop dwelling on what you don't have.
2007-01-09 14:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell u rboyfriend
2007-01-09 14:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋