Is this incest?

Question

I'm 19 and my cousin is 15. We are best friends, we go to concerts togethers, play video games, sleep over, we even play instruments together(Bass and Guitar), we knew each other since we were little...where like the perfect friends.

But a few days ago our Grandmother hosted a little family re-union, around bed time we started pillow fighting and wrestling. She brushed her breast against me ALOT. It seemed innocent because we were playing and all but I don't think it was. It happened way too many times.

Also we shared the floor when sleeping, she while yawning and "stretching" made a her hand land/touch my privates. I was pretty sure she did that on purpose. So I just slept on my stomach.

I have not told my mom yet. I'm not sure if she was just playing or not, is it even worth telling my mother? Is this incest?

Answer 1

This situation is not incest. The girl is just experimenting like all teenagers do. Her behavior is harmless. Do Not discuss it with Yo Mama.

Answer 2

No it isnt actually incest. Incest is when you are having sex by a blood relative and/or having a child by a blood relative.
Honestly, you should talk to her about it and see what she says. If you don't like her reaction and you feel uncomfortable and you feel like it'll get out of control yes you should tell an adult. But if you both resolve the situation there's no need to tell anyone just keep it to between you to.

Answer 3

It isn't incest unless you also act on it. Your cousin is obviously going through "something" that she needs to work out. She probably views you as a safe person to experiment on. Since she is having problems with boundaries, you must must establish them. You can do this in a non-verbal way if you don't want to come right out and say it. When things look like they are going to be playfully physical, do not let it go that far. If that doesn't work you will have to say something. I hate to say this, but if someone sees her doing things like you described, it's going to be YOU who takes the brunt of the blame.

Answer 4

The world isn't too keen on the whole "cousin lovin'" thing so I suggest kind of drawing a line with her. Don't get too close to her, physically, anymore and maybe letting your mother know. The big thing is the fact that you are 19 which is a legal adult, she isn't so you could get in a lot of trouble no matter what happens. Deal with it now, and NOT later.

Answer 5

Fifteen is a very confusing age, and I think your cousin was just experimenting a little. It is inappropriate, and if you respond like one poster pointed out you could be arrested and be on a sex offender list for life. You need to be very careful that you are not in a situation for this behavior to continue. You will be doing her and yourself a favor. If for some reason she keeps making these advances then you need to avoid her like the plague, because she could ruin your life very quickly.

Answer 6

Just replace your cousin with a girl friend and what would you think? Heck yes she was trying to start something. No, its not incest unless there is a sex act. You should have a talk with her if it bothers you, and then maybe tell your parents if she doesn't stop. She might just be curious.

Answer 7

at 15 girls make some pretty serious judgment errors - so do guys.
it clearly is incest if it evolves into sex. don't tell your mom, talk to her and explain that not only is the behavior disturbing, it is dangerous.
if you are 19 and act on this behavior then you are not only incestuous, you are a criminal.
but if she gropes you she is probably groping others - she needs some education and she seems to trust you. step up and explain to her that this is dangerous behavior

Answer 8

Do YOU feel like it is incest? If you do then it probably is. If it makes you uncomfortable then just ask her not to do that. Or tell your mom. Or you could just put some space between you all next time you are "wrestling."

Answer 9

sweetheart you need to make sure to keep distance from her when you are at family functions. she is 15 and at a very confusing time in her life. i am sure that if you just keep your distance and make it clear with your body language and verbally if need be, that this is unacceptable and you will not have any part of it. she is probably mortified and will never approach you again but if she does stand your ground.
and heck yes it would be incest!!!

Answer 10

She is sending every "horny cousin" signal she can think of, and you are missin gthem? Incest huh... wall, just because ther's a word for it doesn't make it unthinkable! Just be sure you don't make a baby, but otherwise and I can speak from experience, cousin sex can be HOT ~ dont' be chicken, you may end up regretting a one-time missed op for years to come.