I currently live (temporarily) with my sister and her husband and their 16-year old daughter, who I'll call N (for niece). Here's the problem:
I'm not 100% sure about this, but I think N may have a crush on me. I may be wrong, and I hope I am, but here's the evidence. First, even though I've been a part of her life ever since she was very young, she's never before been as close to me as she is now. She wants to spend as much time with me as possible. She'll sit right next to me on the couch, close enough to touch me. Occasionally, I'll see her staring at me, but when I look her way, she'll smile and look away shyly. Sometimes she'll come up behind me and hug me, or pay me a compliment such as, "You look really handsome today". She never used to do these things before. She's fun to be around, but it makes me feel uncomfortable when these things happen. I don't want to confront her directly about this, because if I'm wrong I'll be left looking like an idiot. What can I do?
2007-01-09
10:04:47
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