ok well my dad rapes me and i don't know what to do it reals good.but he's my step dad that's not right.
2007-01-09 08:30:28 · 16 answers · asked by Mebre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
girl you need to tell someone and get it stopped now you wouldnt want him doing this to anyone else. i was raped when i was 5 yrs old by a step grandfather and it hurt like hell but at that time he was telling me i was to blame and if i told anyone i would go to jail with him. i beleived him so i never told till i was 15. i am now 35 and it still haunts me. if you ever need to talk please contact me at brandy8muns@yahoo.com or IM me at tootsjrfan. please get help.
2007-01-09 08:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for the exam results to come in before doing anything. There is a chance that the child lied, and you don't want to accuse anyone of anything that may not be true. When the doctor can tell you whether or not the child was raped, then you can go from there. If she was, then you need to call the authorities as soon as possible. If I'm not mistaken, doctor's are supposed to contact the authorities if they suspect rape or child molestation right from the beginning, so you may not even have a choice in this. If the wasn't raped, then you need to inform her father that she claimed that regardless of whether or not it was true, and look into the reasons for the lie in the first place, even if that means putting the child in therapy. It's not normal or healthy for a child to claim that he or she has been raped for any reason when it's not true.
2016-05-22 23:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Vernieke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rape is a crime-it is WRONG no matter if it is your dad or you step dad. Tell your mom now. If she is not willing to listen to you then you need to tell your teacher--NOW. your step dad is a low-life no good son of a b-i-t-c-h and needs to go to Jail. It doesn't matter how old or young you are this should not be happening to you or anyone else. RAPE IS WRONG--------you need to put a STOP to it right now. GO GET HELP .
2007-01-09 08:42:42 · answer #3 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course it's not right,
dad or step dad - you need to get help to get out of his reach - and get him put away. talk to your mother and/or school counselor and call the police.
why? If you are under the age of consent - then he is a child rapist -
every form of rape is wrong. it's the wrong way for children to learn about sex.
2007-01-09 09:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by birdwatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how old are you? b/c if you are under the age of 18 then that is having sex w/ a minor and he can go to jail.second: you are correct it's not right and shouldn't be happening under any circumstance, isn't that the man that is with your mother.
hellllllllllllllooooo!!!! did they not go through the sacred bonds of marriage and it's not rape if you think it feels good and don't put up any kind of struggle. my advice to u is stop having sex with this perverted individual he is dogging you and your mother who probably has no idea of the actions that are going on.
2007-01-09 09:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell somebody! Tell anybody! He shouldn't be doing this, and you need to get away from him and to someplace safe. I've read a few stories where a father keeps raping his daughter, and he didn't want her to tell, and he killed her. Just tell someone.
2007-01-09 08:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Hankers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,How old are you? You no right from wrong, And that's a big wrong get out, get help, get him put away. There is all kinds of help but first you have to take the first step and help your self..
2007-01-09 08:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by helen l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most dad's don't. Mine didn't. Either you are a sick pervert or he has you brain washed. No that is NOT right. Tell the police!
2007-01-09 08:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it feels physcially good but along with that you feel shame and guilt. you cannot shut off how your body feels, but I must tell you to get some help what your step dad is doing is wrong, illegal and very evil/ please promise me that you will tell someone who will get you the help you need. this must stop
2007-01-09 08:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police he is sick and needs help and do you really want him doing that to someone else
2007-01-09 08:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by kmdanie1279 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋