My sister-in-law can find the down side of everything and will be the first to let you know what it is. She is very suspicious if you ask her the simplest question such as what happened today. My Dad asked her if she was going to get her daugher's picture taken since she will be turning 1 year old soon (and hasn't had a photo taken since 3 months) and has grown and changed a lot. This made my SIL fly off the handle at him and tell him that she had no plans to get her daughter's picture made any time soon and why did he need to know!? Any harmless little comment or question sets her off. I am the main babysitter for my neice, so dealing with my sister-in-law is a have-to rather than a want-to thing. Anyone have any ideas? I'm all out.
2007-01-09 14:17:42 · 3 answers · asked by americandream1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She thinks she is better than everybody else and thinks that if you are making conversation with her that there must be some underlying agenda for doing so.
2007-01-09 14:19:38 · update #1
I know that for the first two years after my son was born my hormone levels where all over the place. Maybe this is her problem. I don't know what she was like before her little one was born. As far as her flying off the handle at people for asking simple questions someone needs to put her in her place. Gently of course because she'll feel like she's being attacked. Maybe she's use to people talking behind her back all the time because of her behavior. She'll learn one day when she has no friends or family left to talk to.
2007-01-09 14:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by bird_e80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might try one time to have a heart to heart with her about her behavior and if she is unwilling to do that then I would have to stay totally away from her. Life is too short to put up with a negative force on a regular basis. Hope this helps a little.
2007-01-09 14:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your going true because my daughter is like that its not funny at all because what we say its wrong and what she say its all way wright that gets on people nerve some time.went she is in my house and we are having company we never no what she going to say to them she doesn't live with us now she has her 2 children's and her husband and even her husband is like that.so what i do is let her talk and say like her or him,then there is no more problem i no some time she is not wright but let her talk and she is happy, for her mother and father don't no any thing.so before starting to argue with her we let her say what she wants she happy and no more fighting.whats the use any way she and him are all ways wright so now hou cares.and we get along better like that why start a war,there is so plenty in this world.thank GOD i have only one like that.MAY GOD BLESS YOU XXOO.
2007-01-09 14:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by cilia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋