My brother and mother were ganging up on me and making fun of me. they know how much it bothers me and even though i ask them nicely, they still throw out hurtfull things at me and make fun of the way i talk. I kept asking them to stop but they continued so i went to go to my room but my mom got in my way. when she did this i got so angry that i pushed her out of my way. but then my brother came chasing after me and pushed me as hard as he could into the wall. now i have a nose bleed. i cant stop crying. their both in the kitchen still making fun of me, what do i do, i feel guilty for pushing my mom, but im tired of this.
2007-01-09 11:50:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wow...... i can understand where ur cumin from and i understand tha dey dontl isten wen u tell dem to stop so mayb u shud ask a relative to tlk to dem for you or you can jus confront them urslef agen. if this doesnt work then you should go to ur school couselor and ask them for advice because dis is the best i can do. im relly soory for you but jsut try and show them that it doesn't bother you and mayb they'll baq off. and yea u shudn't hav pushed ur mom but she shudn't hav kept on botherin u i think i wud of pushed her too.
2007-01-09 12:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing don't feel bad about hurtfull parents or brother and sister that treat each other wrongly. Looks like you have some family problems. So like many others you have to talk to someone that is willing to help you someone at school, close friend, and or someone at company that deals with parent and child problems. I don't know why they treat you that way, but it seems that there is more to your story than you willing to tell anyone. From my experience with my own family hatred and making fun of one another goes both ways, meaning I sometimes do something wrong and so does my family we always fought, but I never let it get to me and in the end made be a stronger person inside. Don't let your anger towards your family lead into something even worse then just a nose bleed. I don't want to here you or your family on the news.
2007-01-09 12:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I can't really judge the situation because I don't know the whole ordeal or what it is that they are picking on you about other than the way you talk.
However, if you have asked them repeatedly to stop and they still continued to do so, then that is very direspectful on their end. But you also need to make sure that they both know how you feel and that the only time you tell them this is when they start.
Maybe, if you haven't already, need to sit with your mom and explain to her how you feel when they do this, if it doesn't stop, then maybe you should talk to someone else about this and see where you can go from there.
I would recommend talking to a counsilor of some sort, someone that you know you can trust and is a mature adult that knows how to handle things like this.
Other than that, when they do start in, ignore them and act like it doesn't bother you.
2007-01-09 11:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by !?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you're focusing an excessive amount of on what he's doing alternatively of your self. Negativity breeds extra negativity. Start concentrating on reworking your self into the individual you could be with out him. Lose weight, become a member of a womens organization, get yet another activity, something it's that makes you comfortable. Start focuing your power on hat you might do for the connection. Read Dr. Laura's booklet, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands". Just begin being extra constructive. More excited approximately existence. Don't wait and rely on him for happiness...create happiness. You have youngsters, do not waste some time with them annoying approximately what your husband is not doing. Do the whole thing YOU can do to make matters higher. Be dependable to your loss of enthusiasm (despite the fact that he could have introduced it on). Good success to you!
2016-09-03 19:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by cheuvront 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something called a dysfunctional family. That's a family that for whatever reason, just doesn't really work. You may be a part of such a family.
There might not be a lot that you can do for yourself just now, but in the morning, please talk to a teacher that you trust. Or to any other adult whom you trust. They can help you to get the help that you and your family needs. In fact, in most places, a teacher MUST help you to get that help, or they would be breaking the law.
I know it's tough to do, but hang in there for just a few more hours. Also, as soon as you feel that it's physically safe for you to do so, apologize to your mother for pushing her. It was wrong, which is why you're feeling guilty, but it was just as wrong for her to tease you as she was. Don't mention that part, though, just apologize for the push.
2007-01-09 11:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look darl you really need to toughfen up hav you got a boyfriend get him involved
if it was my lass id kick the **** out of them she means the world to me
i have always had family problems i left home wen i was 14 so just rise above it do wat you want and dont take **** from no one and if you live in notheast uk let me know and ill kick tere asses
gd luck darl be yourself dont take no ****
i know im a boy but women are just as hard
2007-01-09 12:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by dean p654 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can always phone a help hotline and get some answers from there if they keep on doing things when you ask them to stop.
2007-01-09 17:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to a guidance counselor at school.Or you could even talk to a trusted teacher.
2007-01-09 15:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang, that really sucks,all i can say is if you have anymore realitives ask to stay with them,you shouldn't have to put up with that
2007-01-09 12:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋