My sister took her own life on the 8th of August. She overdosed on pills and alcohol. Me, my mom and her 2 children are the ones who walked in and found her already gone. My mom moved out of the house right after it occured. Now she is having a hard time selling the house and is seriously condsidering moving back there. I am really against it. I do not want the girls in the house either. I need some advise.
2007-01-09 11:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by lisaloulou6969 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It was tragic what happened to your sister and it might be hard at first to think of going back nut ultimatly if it wont sell and its cheaper to live there you have to do whats best for your family financially. Your sister isnt there anymore you cant let her mistakes stop you from living somewhere. Life has to go on.
2007-01-09 11:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry for the lose of your sister. That is a time in your whole family that they will never forget. But maybe your mother doesn't have a choice if she can't sale it maybe she doesn't have anywhere else to take you all. Don't be hard on her for this, Your mother is now fully responsible for taking care of those two girls and you. Just remember your mother lost a child and that is the hardest thing a mother can go through this may be her last option. Maybe you can close the room off I'm sure that is the last place your mother wants to be to. Talk to your mother and hear what she has to say. Again I'm sorry for your loss I hate drugs and alcohol it just destroys peoples lives. I'll pray for your family Best Wishes
2007-01-09 19:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your sister, maybe your mum wants to move back in the house cause she cant let go, she might feel close to your sister if she is in the house..
dont forget all the good memorys..xxxxxxxx
2007-01-09 19:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by emma w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just becouse one bad thing happened dosnt make all the good things go away . ur only scared of the scene of where she died .
take a deep breath and think of all the good things that happened
2007-01-13 18:26:07 · answer #4 · answered by Corrine B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it will be alright maybe she wants to feel like she is being close to your sister
2007-01-09 19:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your mom's house? If so she can do whatever she wishes. If it is not your house then you can go elsewhere with your two kids.
2007-01-09 19:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mom feels it time and she is really then yes...but if she feels incomfortable then wait a little longer
2007-01-09 19:42:58 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋