Sometimes my dad treat me like young girl like he make sure what I am eat, send a mgs to him where I am and very inolve and he seem can't give me a space. What should I do?
I love him so much but he drive me crazy. I am almost 22 years old.
2007-01-09 12:02:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It was nice that you express your love for your dad. 23 years old ago your dad experience a world that was changing. He witness the countless of how easy to lose your family, especially to crime. He doesn't want that fatal phone call from the police or hospital.
It's time for you to get the desirable space that you deserve in life, and to earn the trust that dad is challenging you. When he call(s) you don't give him the answer to his question quickly, instead question him way is he calling you. Let him explain the reason for his continue calls.
Most likely he will say that he worries about you and he wants to make sure that your okay. You must say to him that God have already chosen your destiny, you can call your every second, but what bound by God it can not be change nor alter
Finally tell him if he really worries about your well being? calling you all time is not answer, but to pray for you is the answer.
Believe it or not, you may want to call him periodically, and ask of his well being. Your dad don't want to bury you, he wants you to bury him when the time comes.
2007-01-09 12:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This worked for me, I started ignoring my parents absurd punishments. In the example you stated, that is a completely ridiculous punishment for the context. If it were me, I would raise the tallest finger (metaphorically, don't ever actually do that) and call him on that. Don't get mad, don't get defensive, just be blunt and straight-up. Something along the lines of "This is ridiculous, why are you so mad/what did I do to deserve this/why are you being so mean to me" etc etc. Depending on the type of person your father is he may either freeze for a moment and talk rationally with you (So long as YOU stay rational!), or get more mad at the defiance. If he's the latter like my parents are.. Well there's not a whole lot you can do. If he's an intelligent and rational man, then maybe you can get some answers and work something out. Although I don't want to say anything that might get you into more trouble, this is just what I did. It works on my rational father, and not at all on my irrational mother.
2016-05-23 01:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chi h's answer makes as much sense as the question. And by the way, just be thankful that your dad loves you.
2007-01-09 12:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my kids and me lost their father last year from cancer, enjoy him while you can. He won't be with you forever
2007-01-09 13:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by snowwhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you i not half your present age right ow.
2007-01-09 12:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋