Family - December 2006

I am constantly fighting with my sister. She is 15 years younger than me. At first we would talk about everything and now she feels like she knows everything and is just plain rude and I hate to say this but I really feel like I am starting to hate her! But I love her, I just can't stand her ways.................. yes she is a teenager, but she is just rude! She is spoiled, she walks all over her Dad (mystepdad) and my mom doesn't say anything because she is torn between the both of us. Has anyone every had this problem?

2006-12-15 09:38:02 · 1 answers · asked by live, love, laugh often! 3

This guy has been living with my brother for months now. He won't go get a day job-or at least a part time job (from 1 to when my nephews dad gets home he takes care of him.) and he eats everything, he won't take a shower and when we go somewhere to eat he orders the most expensive thing off of the menu.






When we talk to my brother about him getting a job, he says we are being selfish. Yet I don't feel like its right having to pay bills that he has runned up $200-$300 every month. What can we do to fix this problem?

2006-12-15 08:58:49 · 14 answers · asked by anna A 1

my sister has to kids and 1 on the way and shes very close to my mom and my father and its really all based due to she has kids and im not very close to them cause i dont have kids.. like the call her all the time to see if they want to go do something but me nothing.. its like no matter what i do they are always gonna be more proud of her no matter what i do untill i have kids! and i dont want kids! how should i come to them with this?

2006-12-15 08:58:34 · 21 answers · asked by Jessica H 1

okay so when my mom and sister get in a fight she always buts her kids into like shes gonna leave and it pisses me off because that the only reason my mom gives in when it was my sisters fault in the 1st place.. what can i say to her without getting into a fight?

2006-12-15 08:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica H 1

my younger brother, my cousin and i live together. my cousin is also younger than me but he would not listen to what i say. the thing is he is beyond messy. he would never clean up after his own mess. he doesnt wash the dishes for weeks, he never put stuff back after use, he would never help cleaning the house or any of the chores and so on.. we tried to talk to him about it but he just doesnt care. its painful living with him. he was gonna move out two months ago so my brother and i thought we could take it since it was temporary. but now hes changed his mind and decided to stay. we cant tell him we want him to move or show anything like we dont wanna live with him becuz he is family.. IS THERE ANYTHING THAT WE CAN DO TO MAKE HIM WANT TO MOVE OUT WITHOUT LETING HIM KNOW THAT WE ACTUALLY WANT HIM TO?

2006-12-15 08:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by christine c 2

2006-12-15 08:31:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-15 08:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

After me and my dad came from the bank I had left my money on my dresser in a evenolope that had my name in it. I was looking fo rit this moring and my dad had said he had it. I got so mad. I think he's trying to tak emy money and he's the overseer of my savings account at Wachovia.

2006-12-15 08:22:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mum acting strange with my bf.she was fine when she meet him but now since me and him turnt 18 she been i dunno like she doesnt like him.i asked my mum if my bf can sleep over and she just whent slient,which my mum never has cause shes always said yes.she never lets my bf sleep in the same bed as me,he has to sleep on the coach.tommow im going out with my friends and my bf for a meal and my mum knows that,should i ask my mum again about him sleeping over.also when it was hes birthday last week and i told her she didnt even wish him a happy birthday.


now i just asked her she said yes he can but on the coach,so i go oh and she goes no just cause your both 18 hes not sleeping in your room.she will never let us sleep togther its out of order.

2006-12-15 08:15:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I politley tell members of my family I am not interested in their petty drama they always seem to have with one another?
That's why me & my husband moved 40miles away..for some peace & quiet. But they will be here for Christmas & I guarantee there will be some new feud between atleast a couple of them. It makes family gatherings very tense. What happend to good old-fashioned holiday get togethers??

2006-12-15 07:59:48 · 19 answers · asked by Darcy 1

2006-12-15 07:58:06 · 13 answers · asked by suelynng2004 1

I'm a 18 years old male teenager. My sister cries at the slightest thing and is unreasonable. My mother is worse, she nags and shouts at me in the middle of the night, thinks that she is right everytime, badmouths my gf and friends when she hasn't even seen them! She tells me that my priority now is my studies which i have handled very well, even with a gf but she is still not pleased, telling me to pack my pile of books. I wonder why i am so dumb to study so hard while most of my friends just play. I envy all of my friends. Is there any law that is able to let me get away from my mother? I jus hate this family of mine......

2006-12-15 07:57:41 · 7 answers · asked by IdioticFamily 1

I was supposed to be a father.... But the young lady that was pregnant with my child....... Left me a week before my child was born... We were living a good life together but she didn't think so....
She told me about a week after she had my child that she was a blooming baby girl and she said she named her Jaylyn rose Sones (her last name). She said I was not aloud to have contact with my child who is now 4 yrs old and i havnt seen her yet..... All the guys her mother brings home after she has had a few drinks, she thinks are her father.... She is to young for this crap and i think my daughter has a right to see her father don't you think?

2006-12-15 07:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Jordan 1

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2006-12-15 07:39:35 · 14 answers · asked by Sanjubhai 2

I have a 14yo son. He is unusually moody these days and very 'sensitive' in conversation. However, I find that when he is being a 'nicer' son than usual, that soon after or later that day/week, there is something he 'wants' or 'wants to do' as in go to the movies on Friday night, etc.

Is this normal teen behavior? Or, do I have an unusually cunning and manipulative teen here?

After he gets what he wants (if that's how it pans out), he is back to the usual moody and anger oriented teen. If he doesn't get what he wants, he has a 'temper tantrum'.

Please give input. Thank you!

2006-12-15 07:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by girly girl 1

Ok so my husband has a brother in Saudi Arabia who has 9 kids. Well one of his nephews is like 4 years old and he goes around and pushes his mom, my husband's mom, and all his siblings. Then he runs away and no one can catch him because he's too fast and strong. The entire family minus 1 of his sister's live in the same house(perfectly fine in Saudi). Well my brother in law hits his kid(again this is allowed in Saudi. It's not illegal there.) So the nephew KNOWS better than to hit his dad. However I'm just wondering of any other ways to teach my nephew to quit hitting his mom, siblings, aunts, cousions, and his grandmother. Please help. By the way telling me to let everyone in the house leave is no option as my husband's mom couldn't live without all her kids and grandkids in the same house. House is three stories by the way.

2006-12-15 07:21:58 · 19 answers · asked by baddrose268 5

My mom and I have been thorugh sooo VERY MUCH! My parents have been divorced now for 20 years he left my brother, mother and myself. I was 8 my brother was 4. I helped my mother take care of my brother. She took soo much care for us and did it all mother, father, friend...now I am getting married and leaving to a town about 5 hours away. She and I are not only mother and daughter we are the BEST OF FRIENDS. It hurts me sooo much to leave her behind. I tell her to go with me and she says she has to let me grow in my marriage. Maybe she will in the future. What is your opinion on this?

2006-12-15 06:55:38 · 20 answers · asked by JAG 2

The last few days my mom and I got in a big fight and I ran away for the night and my mom didn't find me. but now my mom and i have somewhat little fights and i have wanted to run away for everything. I love her but I want to be out on my own. yesterday my mom and I got in a fight and I ran awya again and my mom called the cops and they told me if I run away again they are going to take me to juvy and i kinda want to go there but I don't. I just want to get out of the house for a little while!!! Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-15 06:52:52 · 7 answers · asked by Kathryn 1

I'm 15, a year ago I got im trouble cause I joined bad crowds, did some immature stuff and had sevrel fights w/ my parents. I ended getting a harsh punishment that broke up my relationship w/ my parents. I agree I had to change and I did, but my parents were to harsh. That time I looked for sympathy but most people, including one of my teachers were agains me. She got happy that I got punished. Today I'm a kinda different girl and my parents say they are proud of me though I dont speak to them and they know I don't like them. It happens there was a problem at my school involving that teacher and she asked for my help. I can help her though It's not my duty, I have nothing to do w/ that problem. It's something serious and though I don't like her at all I think people are being unfair to her. Now she says she's always been my friend, just wanted my best. But I'm not stupid and I haven't forgotten what she did, so I don't know if I'll help her. I'm a sweet heart but Im not stupid

2006-12-15 06:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey... after 2 years im going on a 8 day trip to london with husband.
im very scared.. about leaving my kids..twin boys 15 m/o.
things b/w me and husband have been ok.. our bonding has minimised i think we need to go..but m soo unsure about leaving kids..they will be safe .. all ok..just im worried.

2006-12-15 06:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by barley 2

My dad married young...too young. She's 30 and so f'ing hot! I have a permanent hard on. I made this i.d. up to chat with her. She is sooooo dirty...i'm in my room right now on my laptop with my pants down. I know why he married her now. She sits on that computer and puts her sexy pix on myspace and teases the universe. I want to stop pm'ing her cuz i know it's wrong but i cant help it. I want her so bad. Am I sick...?

2006-12-15 06:27:58 · 18 answers · asked by longandthick_4milfs 1

Here is the deal, I fell for a girl that I work with about 8 months ago we hit it off and really love each other now here is the problem she has been with a guy for 8 years on and off and he is a real unkind guy. He has shattered her windshield a few times and has a really bad temper, and pretty controlling. He has his own place now but they do not live together. She wont live with him because they will fight to much. We have been doing this now for 7 months and have tried being friends and it didnt work. We see each other when we can, but I am getting worn out, she says she knows what she wants to do but doesnt know how to do it. I am a really sweet guy and she said she is not use to that and she loves me for that. Right now we see each other a few times a week. I just dont know what to do, will she ever leave him, what can I do to help that happen? By the way our ages are im 23 she is 21 and he is 21.

2006-12-15 06:22:18 · 6 answers · asked by napcr8sfx2002 1

2006-12-15 06:21:54 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa T 1

Please advise me. My mother has left my father, and gone to live in Spain with another man. My dad is in bits, but trying to deal with it. My mum has been a witch with me, all my life, but i have always forgiven her, cause she`s my mum. She is calling me from Spain now, every day, enthusing about her fantastic life, while my dad sits pining for her. She rang me tonight, said, there will be nothing for xmas for me, or her grandchildren, cause she and her bf, are getting a a smart appartment together, and they are a priority, their happiness is what counts. I said Okay, but i am so mad, and hurt at this statement, as my dad is the one supporting her, she never worked, but claims she is entitled to half of his money, and it does amount to a lot, and he has handed it over, for a peaceful life. She loves her bf, more than me, and my kids, and she is taking my father for a ride, but i am trying not to fall out with her, but it is so hard. Any advice please?

2006-12-15 06:21:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have loved him but after marriage he has completely changed...His mother controls everything and to a great extent she is the one who has ruined my marriage...my husband abused me physically, verbally and emotinally.. ..it`s been 18 months..he has been verbally abusive to my parents also..his mother supports him...moreover, they say to people that he is the victim..where as the truth is just the opposite...is it possible that he is mentally ill? because he always blame me whenever his anger breaks out...which is very often..even on slightest thing he doesnt like..although theres nothing wrong in it actually..he misunderstands everything and so does his mother...do they want to get rid of me so that they can bring a new wife as i didnt bring much dowry..he told me that he loves me but i doubt when he misbehaves....i m confused whats the reality---whether he wants me or not?? whether he is mentally ill or what?? please help me

2006-12-15 06:15:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to have chidren before im old or ill be lonely if my man leavs me.

2006-12-15 06:09:03 · 11 answers · asked by katrina t 1

I need to have chidren before im old or ill be lonely if my man leavs me.

2006-12-15 06:08:31 · 2 answers · asked by katrina t 1

My younger stepsister refuses to share any information and won't let me help make any decisions. I am the oldest stepson. My half brother and I have the same father. My stepsister and half brother have the same mother. My stepsister and half brother are in the will and on the checking account. My stepsister has been spending money like it is going out of style. She offered a year and a half ago to split everything four ways. My sister and I are the stepchildren. My stepsister has been out of state for 25 years. About a month ago my stepmother had me store her bed at my house. She told me to take good care of it and I told her I would and I am. My stepsister hasn't talked to me since Monday. She called today wanting the bed. I haven't asked about the will or the money or anything. I want to keep the bed because it is all I may have to remember my stepmother by. She told me to take care of it after all. Should I give the bed back and be screwed out of everything?

2006-12-15 06:01:51 · 11 answers · asked by TK 2

2006-12-15 05:51:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Mother in Law is horrible. She has done loads of stuff from not buying xmas and b'day pressies for her sons to not going to his wedding to snubbing me on my birthday and borrowing money and never paying it back and bascially bit*hing all the time about everyone. She is married and they are well off but are tight and selfish. They never visit and never offer to help with doing anything in their kids houses even though he is a DIY man he charges his sons £50 a day!!!For our wedding pressie she got a piccie of my dog which my dad took (not her!) and photocopied it on A4 paper and framed it in a plastic clip frame. That is what shes like and its not all about money she does it deliberately., She is so hateful and I've always been nice to her. Well enough is enough - this xmas for her pressie I have got a piccie from our wedding with everyone in it who went including my parents and framed it in a cheap frame from the local pound shop what do you all think? It makes me feel better.

2006-12-15 05:43:48 · 50 answers · asked by Katie G 3