okay so when my mom and sister get in a fight she always buts her kids into like shes gonna leave and it pisses me off because that the only reason my mom gives in when it was my sisters fault in the 1st place.. what can i say to her without getting into a fight?
2006-12-15 08:53:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
After the emotions have all settled down just ask your sister to go for a walk with you. Be honest with her and try not to be to confrontational. If you are she will only become defensive and nothing can or will be accomplished.
You may also try talking to your Mom. Let her know you support her and are there if she needs to talk.
2006-12-15 08:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I understand this, but there is nothing you can do to change someone else. Suggest family counseling to your mom. If she (and hopefully your sister) will go to a counselor, this can get worked out right away. Otherwise, you will just have to live with it until you can move out. Sorry. That's the best advice I can give with the information that you gave us. I wish you the best. I know it must be hard. Been there.
2006-12-15 16:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends if you are the older sister trust me i know who you feel.i always got blamed for stuff too. if i wre you i would ask my mother opolite to have a talk and tell her how i feel about how she blames me for something.and if that doesn`t work ask her why the older sbling gets blames for everytjing ( and make sure when you say that you say it nice so you don`t piss her off)if that doen`t help sorry
2006-12-15 17:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up sis. Mom is doing you a favour so appreciate what you have and get over the dam threats.
2006-12-15 16:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom.... Tell her she needs to stick up to your sister. I'll bet if your mom told your sister for once to GO AHEAD AND LEAVE, she wouldnt know what to do!
2006-12-15 17:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister knows your mom and plays her game on the family..i say call her bluff!
2006-12-15 16:56:32 · answer #6 · answered by connie sue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to your mom, she needs to let your sis grow up.....Nice Pic
2006-12-15 16:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stay out of it. Go grab a brewskie, and relax.
2006-12-15 17:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by spookguy99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say we need to talk this over
2006-12-15 16:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by memyselfmyshadowandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋