Family - December 2006

I've been to a lot of stress lately, some from work, or outside dealing with unbelievable crazy people! Sometimes I try to understand these anxiety and sometimes I get confused what to do. Or I just keep telling myself that this is God's test for me and my family.

Is this normal? or is there any other way around?

2006-12-15 19:54:05 · 15 answers · asked by markbriones 2

I'm 17, and I'm a senior in high school. My parents don't care about anybody but themselves. If I have a problem, and I try to talk to my mother about it, she starts whining about how she has to do this, and she has to do that, blah blah blah. My dad doesn't ever talk to me. All he does is flop down on the couch, and turn on the television when he gets home. If, and that's a big IF, he ever says anything to me, it's to b*tch about how I never do anything around the house, which isn't true. He wants me to do it all, plus go to school, since "all I do is sit around all day and not do anything". I'm so sick of them, but I can't move out for another year. I told them I was going to go to college, and my mother said "How are you going to pay for it? I'm not paying for it."

2006-12-15 19:33:37 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-12-15 18:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by bettyboop 2

Question Details: He came home the end of July 2006, from a Christian Academy where he lived for a year. My husband and I sent him for alot of reasons...being disrespectful, rude, blurting, just all around bad attitude. He has been home 5 months now and I feel that the academy did not help him at all, in the beginning I truly believe that it was just a front to come home.....now I am not sure what to do or where to turn, he has gotten worse, he is so angry and mad at everyone, bad attitude, mean to our dogs, just down right hateful, ungrateful, unsociable, lies all the time, can not trust him .....he has been to thearpists for several years now....He is on meds for ADHD....but does not help......it has gotten to the point where no one wants to be around him, his bad attitude brings us down.....I really do not know what else to do. I love my son very much, just not sure how to help him anymore.

2006-12-15 18:31:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bro is smoking. he admitted to tryin it (with his friends who do smoke) to my rents and i have seen him do it. i can also smell it on his clothes when he gets home from wrk. i want to tlk to him about it, but he always gets on the defensive when i even say hi. how can i tlk to him about this?? pls help. it wil be greatly appreciated. :)

2006-12-15 18:16:53 · 6 answers · asked by nikki 1

My mom and me haven't really been getting along so I'm really considering becoming emancipated. My friend moved out for the same reason and he hasn't been happier so what do you think?

2006-12-15 18:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by hot_kokoa 3

2006-12-15 18:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by Muttama 3

ne clues how to do tat... i hv tried talkin n they say wait at least 4 a year...m clueless wen they ask me y do i need it cuz i myself dont know y i want it (i dont NEED it duh...just want it!!)...may be cuz all my frens hv it...n wen i tell them this they'll say i hv mny things which my frens dont hv(lk staying online 4eva...my personal vehicle!!)..uhh i WANT a cell 4 wateva reasons...can u suggest sm reasons...n m talkin HARD-CORE logic out here....be at ur logical best coz ntn else wud help!!!

2006-12-15 18:06:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad just had another kid that he doesnt want anything to do with and I feel that he feels the same way with me. None of his family knows where he lives. I asked my Nana his phone number and she literally gave me 7 disconnected numbers..I have two questions here they are: Im going to be an exhange student to brazil do I need my dad to sign my pass port? and Should I not like my dad because he doesnt care to phone me or even make the effort to when he knows where I live and what my number is?

2006-12-15 17:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my family were supposed to go out so i got all excited and stuff but then we found out my bro. hads to study so now were not going and when i went near the front door to get something i found out my sister left and then i rememberd i have a school event and asked if i could go and she said the car wont be back in two hours and this isnt the first time my family let me down. its becoming os constant and whenever my mom sends me to someone who can helpme with my anger i chase them away with all my anger when its her who is really the problem cause since my dad died i started getting all these problems with peers and school and grades and i jst want to have fun now that im still a kid and i know i dont have my father to help me anymore convince my mom to take me places but i find ways but its her who always stops me.

2006-12-15 17:47:21 · 7 answers · asked by someone ? 1

It can be anyone... mom dad friend.. brother sister.. girlfriend boyfriend.. best friend..

I love my two Al's!

2006-12-15 17:38:55 · 25 answers · asked by GirlWithQuestions 4

I spend most of my time at my bf's where he lives with his sweet old fashion parents and older 27 year old, jobless, dope feen, disrespectful slob brother. The brother eats all the food and never pays for it, doesn't lift a finger and has his family in fear around him only cause they dont want him blowing up. They have called the cops and was in peace the few months he was there, but once he's out same thing. They've kicked him out, but he stalks and harassess his younger brother (my boyfriend) to point where he just cant take any more. He's even rang the doorbell all night until someone let him in. Even if the cops are called again, he vanishes a day or two, but returns to the house begging his mom to let him in and he'll change. They don't know what to do and his behavior brings the whole family down and makes things worse for them in various ways. Any idea how to get rid on this guy in any other way than they've already tried?

2006-12-15 17:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by Toni M 2

My dad cancelled my trip to cancun and merida. Why? because I had an serious argument with him. recently he had been using my little sister as a comparison of who I should be. He had been blaming every faults on me even if my sister starts the argument. I think this is very unfair? what do you think?

2006-12-15 17:29:13 · 9 answers · asked by Caitlynn L 1

2006-12-15 17:07:42 · 10 answers · asked by love-vida 1

My mother was diagnosed with cancer and within 2 weeks she was gone. I'm really having a hard time coping. I am mad at everyone. I wan't my mom back. Life doesn't feel worth living but it's still here. How do I live without my best friend?

2006-12-15 16:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by jacksonvillegarycollins 3

I have a small business and i just cannot give up. I am getting deeper and deeper in debt but everyone keeps saying don't give up, things will get better. I have dreams of things piling up on me and caving in but i just cannot say "I quit". Its the hardest thing in the world for me.

2006-12-15 16:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by rose 1

My aunt and uncle gave me $ 100 dollars for Hannukah ! I am very thankful and everything but then my older brother got $ 200 ! I think they love him more!
Why did they do that he is like 1 year older than me!

2006-12-15 16:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i tell him to stop treating him like a baby,am i doing wrong?

2006-12-15 16:38:57 · 8 answers · asked by LaDy In ReD 2

My mother has a mental illness and is letting a man take advantage of her. He treats her badly, verbally abuses and threatens her. I have no life of my own and spend my life cleaning for the two of them ect... I am worried for her saftey. She thinks she may break up with him and blames it on me even though i dont do anything .. i do everything for the family and never look or say anything offensive. All I want is for her to be happy. I feel my saftey is threatened and I feel wasted emotionally my dad thinks I should move in with him. My dad is normal and healthy. I cant take the blame for her life anymore.. I know it would crush her if I move in with my dad .. but she is not mentally stable.. could I please have some advice?

Thank-you

2006-12-15 16:19:02 · 11 answers · asked by goldenprincess1289 1

Okay my sister has a 3 month yearold baby boy and well he starts crying and when he does he turns all pink and purple and then he crys without breathing and he turns all red and he closes his fists tight and like goes into a daze what could that mean?

2006-12-15 16:17:52 · 10 answers · asked by Faithy 1

k i have this friend, lets call her "nacy" not real name, that i got in a fight w/ and i really dont want to forgive her but my mom is making but hey my life is going great without her.......ok the reason i got in a fight w/ her is just over somthing some people think is stuiped but its cuz she always copys me on everything i do (not in k-5 grade) but to me its like shes stealing my personality and she knows it AND she lies 2 me but now im sick of it..... BUT this is the shocker we just had a school dance and i didnt know if she was going or not but i didnt care so my other friend lets call her "drew" not real name (girl), that is also nacys friend, offerd to take me so i went and when i was in the car drew told me that nacy was coming so i was like ok then ill just adviode her and and drew and nacy could be together and drew was ok w/ that, i would just be w/ my other friends so blah then! when nacy gets to the dance she hears im there and she starts freaking out and cuz of me so help

2006-12-15 16:01:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-15 15:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by rfilony 1

I live in nc and am trying to find something for me and my cousin to do when she gets in town, got any ideas, maybe some good movies, i dunno..haha

2006-12-15 15:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by iheartlove92 1

What would you do if you found your out of control 14 year old step son holding your 2 yr old down to the ground saying "where are you going to go now huh?"

2006-12-15 15:23:08 · 6 answers · asked by MWieger_SU 1

I'll Start with the saying (Were you born in a barn) always said if we did'nt close a door behind us. lol

2006-12-15 15:16:11 · 37 answers · asked by debrett 1

I am a Daddy's girl and since my parents divorce about 6 years ago I don’t get to see him much. I want to make this CD for him to show that I love him and I miss him. If anyone knows some Country songs that are about Daddy's and their daughters please let me know.

2006-12-15 15:03:12 · 3 answers · asked by carpathian1248 2

husband(36) and sister(27) fight ALL THE TIME and so all the stress go's to me (21)and i want to kick her out but she has no place to go yet her fiance' has a house his fixing up but not done yet so plze help

2006-12-15 14:56:24 · 11 answers · asked by ivya.k.a. becca 2

This is weird because my mom has an older sister who shes always fighting with. Ever since they were little up until now they havent quit and tried to act like adults. Most times when they fight they don't talk for a really long time or call eachother on special days like Thanksgiving, she didnt call her or anything. I knew she was upset with her. Most times when they are in the same place they fight like little girls calling eachother names like, 'stupid' or 'dummy'
or she'd tell her to shut up.
And just keep bickering away. Its sooo annoying.
How do I get them to stop. Beleive me I've tried..

2006-12-15 14:47:59 · 13 answers · asked by ~**Milanou**~ Z 1

but people take me wrong and scold me.they thing that i am acting.but seriously my happiness is with other and i get upset very soon.please tell me what to do.

2006-12-15 14:37:50 · 2 answers · asked by Priyanka g 1

even though my parents are seperated my dad is still always calling my mom asking her where she is and who she's w/ even if she's at home he's done this his whoel life and even if my mom doesn't like this she's not the type tp stand up for herself. and my other question is wut do i do about it cuz he even does this to ME. i feel like when i'm on my own he's gonna bother me liek crzy and not let me do wut i want and be free. and my dad isn't an easy person to stand up to. any normal person is afraid of him. he has such a bad temper and when he gets mad he gets mad! he scares the **** out of ppl older than him. he's only like this w/ me my mom and bro and faking mr. nice guy to every1 else so every1 likes him even though they know how he is and no1 wud support me so wut do i do i don't wanna live under sum1's control 4ever i don't ever wanna see him again either he's treated me lyk**** my hole life i wanna b free of him 1 day but then again HE SCARES THE **** OUT OF ME plz help! i'm tra

2006-12-15 14:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by mamama 2