What can I do to stop getting angry at my mother?How can I talk with a mild voice when I am angry?

Answer 1

Don't get angry. You need to discipline yourself, meaning get a grip.

Answer 2

A carefull read of the following articles will give you a lot of ideas of how to improve your relationship with your mother ...

What Is Provoking the Age of Rage?
- Why the Rise in Rage?
- Bad Manners and Movies
- Should Rage Be Controlled?
- Manage Anger---Avoid Rage
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2002/2/8a/article_01.htm

Should I Apologize? :
- Why Is It So Hard to Apologize?
- Apologizing--A Key to Making Peace
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/11/1/article_01.htm

EMPATHY--Key to Kindness and Compassion
- What IS Empathy
- Scriptural Examples of Empathy
- How to Cultivate Empathy
- Empathy Helps in Christian Activities
- Cultivate Fellow Feeling
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/2002/4/15/article_01.htm

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Answer 3

You've now entered a time to change the dynamics of your relationship with her. She is still the boss of you and it makes you feel like being confrontational.

You have to show her you are responsible by not tuning her out and cleaning up and doing your part without her having to ask you to do it, now.

She pays for you so now it's time to recognize that unless you live under your own roof, she will still do things and say things that will make you want to scream... but calm down...

Tell her you want to work on talking to her calmly and she will start to see you with different eyes. Her child is growing up.

But, there will still be restrictions or rules, it will just be easier to communicate without yelling and you will live with less stress.

Answer 4

I used to argue a lot with my mom .
I mean : there was really a lot of yelling involved. I remember always being angry and annoyed by her.

She died unexpectably a year ago and now I'm just extra mad at myself for ever getting angry at her.
I didn't understand that she loved me like nobody else and always wanted the best for me. She just didn't know how to get thru to me .
I really wish I could turn back the hands of time and re-live us again. I would be more understanding ...

Maybe realizing how fragile she is can help you to tame your anger.

You know , it don't always seem to go but you don't know what you got till its gone......

Answer 5

Be nice to her. My mom and I were so close, but even so, I used to argue quite often with my mom, then she got sick and died. You wouldn't believe the guilty feelings I carried. Sure we had the chance to talk about it and apologize after each argument and never stayed upset with one another, but even so, I felt so bad, thinking about those stupid, senseless arguments after she died. I cried endlessly thinking about the things I said to her when I was angry.

Answer 6

Just remember ur momma wiped ur booty as a baby and keep that in to respect her

Answer 7

moms have a way of making us nuts try to remember moms are just people like us entitled to their feelings. respect her opinion and you won't get as mad

Answer 8

its better to talk calmly... even if you are mad... i do it all the time.. it gets my point across much better and my parents tend to respect me more because of it.

Answer 9

been there, its impossible to calm down just dont talk just nodd and say ok. thats what i do.

Answer 10

better be nice to your mom she won't be around forever.