2006-12-15 18:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by Muttama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOUR QUESTION ITSELF IS WRONGLY WORDED. YOU CALL HER USELESS & BETTERHALF. IF SHE IS USELESS HOW SHE CAN BE YOUR BETTERHALF??? IF SHE IS USELESS CALL HER WORSEHALF... OK. SORRY I HAVE A VERY USEFULL BETTERHALF FEEL PITY FOR YOU!!!
2006-12-17 01:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no one who is useless or absolutely worthless. I do believe that all of us have talents, skills and aptitudes. You should feel sad for your spouse who has not yet had these qualities nurtured so that she gains validity as a useful human being.
Perhaps she is lazy about the house and neglects domestic chores. You would have overlooked that if she was in a high profile job and bringing home the cash and prestige.
If you are sincerely interested in her becoming a betterhalf then work on it.
Gently affirm or show happiness when she does something positive. All affirmations lead to a repeat performance.
Help her find a hidden skill or hobby to develop. It may require classes or practise sessions. Encourage her to make that skill into an asset. Support her efforts, exult in her successes.
Slowly you will find that the atmosphere changes at home. She will want to do more for you. You might be able to afford domestic help. Your own negative energies will discipate and acceptance will make your relationship, happier. BOL
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2006-12-16 23:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by itsmehuh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what is the meaning of betterhalf? If you are betterhalf, make the useless betterhalf , a best betterhalf to you.
If this was reverse and if your betterhalf ignores you coz of you being a uselessbetterhalf, How would you feel?Won't you think why not your partner explains you and let you know things. Do that instead of asking does anyone have like that of you do.
2006-12-19 12:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unfair to call anyone useless, after all, you were attracted to them in the first place. Everyone has qualities of ther own, not everyone can do things that other people can do, but what they lack in one area they make up for in another.
If you really find that you cant get on with this person without running them down in this way, let them go and find someone who does value them more
2006-12-15 22:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sir,
If u really hv such thoughts about her than i thnk u should say her ur BITTERHALF instead of BETTERHALF.Either case if she's already there then try 2 sort out among urself where lies the prob & help her improve 2 reach up2 ur desire.Afterall u both hv 2 spend a long time together.GOOD LUCK
2006-12-15 18:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Kashish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody in this world is useless !! It all comes from YOUR mind.Better make IT useful! before finding faults with others first look down for yourself !
2006-12-17 03:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by singhvandana8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One who is useless, in my opinion would not be a better half.
So I would say, I dont have what you claim to have.
2006-12-15 18:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, There are some unlucky persons in this world but u have to try to improve the qualities of ur betterhalf as u have to live with her/him coz there is no other option.
2006-12-15 19:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jatin K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At times, I think I do. I was the only one working (two jobs and one of them at Burger King, no less)... he wouldn't clean... wouldn't cook... wouldn't take care of the animals or my *ahem* needs... Now, he works but takes that as license to ignore me for video games because he had "such a hard day at work". AND he still leaves the cooking, cleaning, animals, and intimacy to me.
2006-12-15 18:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by DrkCrwlr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am proud to say that yes I do. I have someone that drives me freakin' crazy most of the time and I wouldn't know what to do if he weren't here
2006-12-15 18:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋