k i have this friend, lets call her "nacy" not real name, that i got in a fight w/ and i really dont want to forgive her but my mom is making but hey my life is going great without her.......ok the reason i got in a fight w/ her is just over somthing some people think is stuiped but its cuz she always copys me on everything i do (not in k-5 grade) but to me its like shes stealing my personality and she knows it AND she lies 2 me but now im sick of it..... BUT this is the shocker we just had a school dance and i didnt know if she was going or not but i didnt care so my other friend lets call her "drew" not real name (girl), that is also nacys friend, offerd to take me so i went and when i was in the car drew told me that nacy was coming so i was like ok then ill just adviode her and and drew and nacy could be together and drew was ok w/ that, i would just be w/ my other friends so blah then! when nacy gets to the dance she hears im there and she starts freaking out and cuz of me so help
2006-12-15 16:01:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
talk to her.....maybe she has her reason why she's copying you.....don't close your door for forgiveness coz you will not have a true peace of mind if you would....maybe this is just a misunderstanding between the two of you and this serves as a test on how strong your friendship is.
2006-12-15 16:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by diana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive her and still choose to step away from her. Tell her that you don't feel that there are any positive things coming out of this friendship and let her know that you decided to start hanging out with other friends. She might be hurt at first, but it will work out in the long run. Why should you both be frustrated and stressed. Your school days should be enjoyable, because the rest of your life will contain enough drama in itself. Good luck.
2006-12-16 00:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive her. I had a "friend" like that and she ended up in bed with my at the time boyfriend. She did a complete 180 on her personality, clothes, make up hair, etc from when I first met her. By the time she slept with my boyfriend, she dressed like me, talked like me, did her hair like me, etc.
Copying is a form of flattery but come on now.
2006-12-16 00:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't wanna then don't. simple. talk to ur mom about ur feelings about her. jst don't let this things ruin ur everyday life. c")
copying like that is a sign of adoration, or maybe she envy u but if it bothers u a lot then think before everything get worse..
2006-12-16 00:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by Amani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your mom making you make up with her? Sometimes people just grow apart, and if you don't want to hang out with her then don't hang out with her. But if she's freaking out you might want to talk with her nicely and explain why you don't want to be friends anymore.
2006-12-16 00:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by rainmonster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋