My dad just had another kid that he doesnt want anything to do with and I feel that he feels the same way with me. None of his family knows where he lives. I asked my Nana his phone number and she literally gave me 7 disconnected numbers..I have two questions here they are: Im going to be an exhange student to brazil do I need my dad to sign my pass port? and Should I not like my dad because he doesnt care to phone me or even make the effort to when he knows where I live and what my number is?
2006-12-15 17:57:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
LET HIM GO, sweetie..
Make a really 'good' life for yourself.
Your dad has shown his true colors by abandoning you and never contacting you.
He's 'not' what I call a dad, sadly to say.
I'm sorry for you dear, not him..
I srongly suggest you live life to the fullest and 'go' and 'do' ALL
the things you dream of, and 'maybe' someday your dad 'may'
come to his senses, but 'maybe' NOT!!
2006-12-15 18:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why your father would sign anything if he is not your primary guardian, right? I think your dad sounds like one of those people who just should never have had children. Anybody can have a kid, but it does take patience and commitment to be a loving parent. You didn't ask to be brought into the world, right? Some people just aren't nurturing types, and the best thing to do is realize how he is and that there is nothing wrong with you. You haven't done anything wrong at all. If you do deal with him, just treat him like you would anyone else you don't have strong connections with. Don't worry that he doesn't want to be a Daddy, because it sounds like he just doesn't have it in him. Don't hate him for it, just understand that is who he is. That way, you can get on with your life, right? Good luck!
2006-12-16 02:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Genius Squirrel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you nor your new sibling did anything wrong. It may feel like you did, and that you drove him away. But your dad is a flawed person, and is making these choices on his own. They have nothing to do with you, though you are certainly feeling damaged as a result. Strive to be the best person you can be, and when you have children, remember how it felt and make good choices as a parent and in choosing your spouse so that they will also be committed to the children. Sometimes we can't change the past, but we can learn from it and become stronger as a result. For now, live your life, do your best, and forget about your dad and his problems.
No, your dad doesn't need to sign you PP.
Good Luck!
2006-12-16 02:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you don't require your dad to sign your pass port . Its really painful situation , but some how we have to allow our show goes on . Time will heal all the troubles in life , that's for sure .
2006-12-16 02:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are 18 you don't need anyoen to sign your passport. Any younger and you *might* need the consent of your guardian. (I'm assuming he's not your guardian, so that means no.)
As to your other question: He is your father, but that doesn't make him a good man. It is up to you to decide about how you want to view him. Time will reveal things about his true nature.
2006-12-16 02:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by polishsausage1204 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you get married , and have kids you dad will be the last thing on your mind ! Make sure you marry the right person!
2006-12-16 02:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to like your father or even have any contact with him. He is no more than your biological ancestor and it sounds like that's just he way he wants it. As for your passport, your legal guardian must sign it.
2006-12-16 02:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋