my mum acting strange with my bf.she was fine when she meet him but now since me and him turnt 18 she been i dunno like she doesnt like him.i asked my mum if my bf can sleep over and she just whent slient,which my mum never has cause shes always said yes.she never lets my bf sleep in the same bed as me,he has to sleep on the coach.tommow im going out with my friends and my bf for a meal and my mum knows that,should i ask my mum again about him sleeping over.also when it was hes birthday last week and i told her she didnt even wish him a happy birthday.
now i just asked her she said yes he can but on the coach,so i go oh and she goes no just cause your both 18 hes not sleeping in your room.she will never let us sleep togther its out of order.
2006-12-15 08:15:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mum knows im on birth contol,but i said cause of my period im on it but she can probly guess were having sex
2006-12-15 08:32:07 · update #1
Yea, she is just looking you for you. You honestly think your MOTHER is going to allow your boyfriend to have sex with you? If she is going to do that, why dont you just ask her to put the condom on him for you? Even if you don't plan on doing that with him, he plans on doing it with you. So, listen to your mother. She does know what is best for you and is just looking out for you.
2006-12-15 08:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey...while you are under her roof abide by her rules....you are old enough to get a flat...your 18...and that's the legal age to leave home in UK...so why not find a place of your own then your boyfriend can stay over with you....oh...not all birth control is 100% safe either, she has your best interests at heart and does not want you having babies at such a young age....that's the reason why she is not allowing him to sleep in your room, it's her home so just stick to the rules....
2006-12-15 15:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all i have to say that if you were my daughter i would not let your bf sleep in your room either the living room would probably be OK.
second of all talk to her have you told her how you feel? this time in your life is hard for her too. you are still her little girl but you are also becoming an adult. talk to her you may be surprised to find her just as confused.
2006-12-15 08:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kelli N 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are so independent, why don't you have a house of your own? And the boyfriend, how mature is he, if he can't even spring for a place of his own?...TACKY.
A definition of maturity is: When all the bills arrive at the house you are paying for, and they are ALL addressed to you.
Neither one of you are mature enough to sleep together. You still have to ask for your Mom's permission for everything.
2006-12-15 08:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sorry, 18 or not, you should both respect your Mum's wishes, it is after all her house, I'm sure you can do without sex for 1 night !!!!!!
2006-12-16 23:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt think its because she doesent like ur bf.
she cares bout you!! just ask her once if she does or not, maybe she wil tell you bt even though she doesent u cant do anything bout it its ur life
gud luck
2006-12-15 08:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doenst mean that Ur mum dont like ur bf she is just thinkn that Ur both adult now and she's thinking of what if something is going to happen?you know what I mean,she is just thinking of your future ok?she likes him
2006-12-15 08:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by jean h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He could of made a pass at her so she knows he's no good for you.
2006-12-15 08:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it is her house.
2006-12-15 08:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I thinks she wants him!
2006-12-16 02:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋