I'm 15, a year ago I got im trouble cause I joined bad crowds, did some immature stuff and had sevrel fights w/ my parents. I ended getting a harsh punishment that broke up my relationship w/ my parents. I agree I had to change and I did, but my parents were to harsh. That time I looked for sympathy but most people, including one of my teachers were agains me. She got happy that I got punished. Today I'm a kinda different girl and my parents say they are proud of me though I dont speak to them and they know I don't like them. It happens there was a problem at my school involving that teacher and she asked for my help. I can help her though It's not my duty, I have nothing to do w/ that problem. It's something serious and though I don't like her at all I think people are being unfair to her. Now she says she's always been my friend, just wanted my best. But I'm not stupid and I haven't forgotten what she did, so I don't know if I'll help her. I'm a sweet heart but Im not stupid
2006-12-15 06:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
no...keep hating
2006-12-15 06:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when adults help kids, the kid always thinks that their against them and are trying to get them in trouble. NOT TRUE!! It sounds to me like your starting to grow up but your trying to fight it. Go ahead and help your teacher. Whats so bad about being nice. Also, you shouldnt hold grudges against your parents, after all you did admit that you was with a bad crowd and got into trouble. Your parents were just doing their job. It is hard to give you total advice because we dont know what the exact problem is. I'm glad that you are showing signs of maturing though.
2006-12-15 14:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by pebbles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are not against you and neither is your teacher. They were hard on you because they saw you going in the wrong direction and did what they needed to do to correct your path. I'm sure they see your potential and want what is best for you. And trust me, at 15 years of age you can't possibly know what is best for you. Although, you may think you do.
If you can help your teacher, do it. You may discover that you will have a very close friend in the end.
2006-12-15 15:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helping people is never a bad thing, and being skeptic of people that have done you wrong is also never a bad thing, the only thing to do is try to see that maybe she was trying to be harsh like your parents because she cared. No one can help you forgive, but if her job is in trouble or something like that, you might want to help her, she could learn something from you, a young girl who has grown because of her mistakes, and she in turn can grow from hers!
2006-12-15 15:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the expression, "What would Jesus do?" This is a matter on which we know exactly what he would do. In the Gospel According to Matthew, chapter 5, verses 43-48, Jesus explains that we must love our enemies. After all, even really bad people love their families and friends, but it takes a special person to love one's enemies.
It would be an amazingly mature and honorable thing for you to look past the hurt you suffered and do the right thing now. You say you are "a kinda different girl" now. Here's your chance to really prove it!
2006-12-15 15:04:17 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas Pee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the situation. If you can help without being thrust in the middle, help by all means. Even if you don't like the person it will make you feel good to help when you didn't have to. Just remember-don't burn your bridges, you never know when you may need to cross them again.
2006-12-15 15:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lovelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your teacher was right in the first place. She was doing this to help you out. Now it's your turn to help her. You may not realize that she was helping you out until you grow up a bit. You say you are different now, so show it.
2006-12-15 15:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go ahead and help her. Forget all about the past and concentrate more on your future. What you sow you will reap. You do not have to be all friendly with her. You can just think that you are being good to a stranger and do whatever you need to help her out. Good luck
2006-12-15 15:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by SP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should help, but be careful not to get sucked into an inappropriate (i.e., getting yourself into trouble along the way) situation. People will invest time in you if you invest some time in them.
2006-12-15 14:55:48 · answer #9 · answered by sillyfp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you are acting stupid...you are a child still and maybe your teacher did just want the best for you and your parents did too grow up
2006-12-15 14:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
help her... even if you dont like her....it makes you look like the better person. If you dont there is always karma.
2006-12-15 14:56:12 · answer #11 · answered by Panictwilight18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋