hey... after 2 years im going on a 8 day trip to london with husband.
im very scared.. about leaving my kids..twin boys 15 m/o.
things b/w me and husband have been ok.. our bonding has minimised i think we need to go..but m soo unsure about leaving kids..they will be safe .. all ok..just im worried.
2006-12-15 06:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by barley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
they will be with my husbands parents and his younger brother and his wife .
also one maid..but im just scared you know..dumb ..but i feel what if i get cold feet in the airplane im an indian in india..just scared ... but i think .. my kids wont miss me..you are correct guys..we parents are more affected!!!!
2006-12-15 06:52:49 · update #1
thanks a lot everyone!!!
2006-12-15 06:58:56 · update #2
They will be fine. I went to Hawaii and was so exited to get home to see my boy, thinking he missed me sooo much because I am the center of his world, Right? When I got home he hugged me but then took off to go play with his new best friend...My neice. So go and have a great time because they will.
2006-12-15 06:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the grandparents are young enough to handle two 15 mo. boys. GO They raised kids already so they do have experience and sometimes kids do learn thing from their grandparents. Better then some stranger. You will worry anyway, but go with your husband and get some quality time together. They will be fine.
2006-12-15 06:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel scared and worried when you have to leave your kids. My kids are currently with their grandparents and I was worried about the 2 year old because it was the 1st time I'd be away from him. He is coping quite well aparently and we enjoyed our time together without the kids. Kids do cope better than us parents and we are actually the ones that cant cope. A kid will find his or her way very soon. Just pray and believe that they will be fine, which they should be. And then enjoy that much-needed and deserved break. We all need that from time to time.
2006-12-15 06:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sofia 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I cancelled a trip with my husband because I did not want to leave my 4 year old and 11 month old with my sister-in-law. And I totally regret it! She raised 7 children and they are all very well behaved . She is family - very stupid on my part. My husband then got very ill with a rare kidney disease and we could not go anyway. Hopefully, next year we can. You only live once!! Your children will not even remember! Have Fun!
2006-12-15 06:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by debster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afriad because you'll have the quality you need and it gives the grandparents time to spend with the kids and maybe a bond with them theirselves and dont beafraid because they have taken good care of you when you were littleso lighten up a little .
2006-12-15 06:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by miss.elmo1990 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to stop worrying and the grandparents have had kids of there own there more responsible than most daycares now days
2006-12-15 06:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by tatiana01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is me....i could never leave my kids that long of a time .why didn't you make plans for a shorter voyage ,even an overnight somewhere. but don't go by me .i'm a grandmother and tell my kids if they are going on a long trip the same thing
2006-12-15 07:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by ALICE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kids will be fine ... just go have fun .
If you are that worried cut the trip back to 5 days.
2006-12-15 06:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by TR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I had to leave my son with my mom for a few days when he was only a year old. It is scary, but sometimes you have to do what is best for your relationship. They will be fine, just try to have fun.
2006-12-15 07:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by femalehorsewhisperer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok simply pass together with your instincts in this, mom is aware of excellent ! Personally I might write them a letter, of all of what you mentioned above to us, she obviously has a predicament with YOU ! As to me it seems like she has a predicament with you and it's effecting the youngster, I might say to her/him; I am the mum on your grandchild, I believe as even though you're very irresponsible for one of the crucial matters you might have mentioned beforehand, related to the meals you attempted making me provide your grandchild while she is allergic to it, additionally it kind of feels you don't have the time of day to your grandchild however but you are looking to rationale disorders appearing just like the liable grandparent for reporting me to the RSPCA and so forth. I might additionally say ' If you might have a predicament with me, inform me, do in no way contain my youngster or check out final result my youngster's lifestyles out of it' that might be very infantile and egocentric of you, if you don't wish to be worried within the youngster's lifestyles don't, however do not you dare attempt to make my possess youngster flip in opposition to me in besides feasible, If me and my associate make selections on matters you haven't any say and also you must relatively aid your son and no longer prefer out a favourite, however even supposing you do this, my youngster won't hurt with what she does not understand, she is not going to omit you as see does not understand you, I have held again from calling the police given that you're my companions father and mother and my daughters grand father and mother, however anymore of this threatening habits then subsequent time i will be able to no longer hesitate, you both be an grownup and be liable or you do not get worried in any respect given that somethings you might have performed and mentioned is wasting my believe for you 2 to ever be in my daughters lifestyles, that is not me retaining my youngster as a weapon, it's me protective my youngster !
2016-09-03 15:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋