Family - December 2006

2006-12-25 08:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by lo 2

My mother in law has to be one of the meanest know it alls that ever lived. She always has this mean voice, and snotty way of telling you how wrong your opinion is. Than she wonders why only one of her kids ever asks her to their house for dinner on holidays. I just hate the woman. She is always demeaning when she speaks to anyone who doesn't agree with her completely. She will even fight with you when she is completely wrong about something and I've seen her do it with my husband. I just hate the woman. Does anyone else have a mean mother in law that talks to you like you are the stupidest person alive. Than to top it off she always defends her youngest daughter that has raised 3 boys that are drug users and lazy asses that are living at home smooching off them and they are well into their 20's. What is up with that? By the way this youngest daughter doesn't come over and help her mother in any way or invite her over. So there!! This daughter just takes Tell me your story.

2006-12-25 08:04:52 · 13 answers · asked by goldensparkler61 4

Okay, so the other day I was looking for something in my dad's closet and I came upon this shoe box. I opened it and what I found really disgusted and angered me. I found pictures of my mom in suggestive positions and even a few photos of my parents having sex!!! I was so repulsed by all this. Before this, I knew that my dad had some problems with pornography, but I never knew about that shoe box. I am so disgusted by my dad, I hate him. I need some advice about what I can do to lessen my anger towards him.

2006-12-25 07:43:05 · 29 answers · asked by sbeazell 2

My mom, my sister and I were all in the kitchen talking. I was in mid-sentence when my mom took my sister by the hand and led her into the dining room. I was left my myself and awkwardly talking to no one. So I just stopped talking in the middle of my sentence.

I was annoyed, so I left the kitchen, exiting through the opposite door, so my mom and sister did not see me leave. When my mom returned to the kitchen SHE was mad at ME for ditching them without a word.

Turns out, she want in the other room to get me a present that for some reason she thought I could use right then. (Though I still don't know what it is.)

Of course, I think I'm right, but I'd like some other opinions.

2006-12-25 07:36:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

See, I am now going to a school that we'll just call G-Town. I just started at this school because my parents seperated. I had been going to a school all my life that we'll call F-Town. I have friends at both schools now too. My mom wanst to move back in with my step-dad, so I would have to go to F-town again. The worst part about this is that I have to decide whether we move or not. What should I do!!??

2006-12-25 07:22:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's hateful and obnoxious. She'll make really mean comments and rude remarks. I guess it's because of all the stress but it's just awful. It's all the time, but it's really bad on holidays or on vacations, times when our family is supposed to be having fun. I think I'm just gonna have to avoid her, but it's hard when we're living in the same house. So what should I do about it? thanks!

2006-12-25 07:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by 77684 3

how can i get my parents to be cool with it. i want a diamond stud on both my ears. how can i get my parents to allow and be cool with me wearing big shirts sagging down my pants with long baggy pants. i am allowed to listen to rap, it is just my dad isn't that cool with it. how can i get him to be cool with it. same with my sister, except 25 percent the music my sister listens to is hip hop but not the kind i listen to, she likes 25 percent music pop( i don't have a problem with) 50 percent heavy metal emo rock music( big extreme problem. how can i get my family, friends, and other people cool with these things. my dad thinks only girls get earrings. i am 12 years old and i look a lot older. everyone thinks that. the reason could be because i am not responsible. i don't clean up my room once in my life. i don't do chores, help out in my dad's jewelry shop. got bad grades like 20 30s 40 60s 70s all my life and each year i promise to get good grades. i misbehave at home and school, tro

2006-12-25 07:02:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-25 07:00:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every year we celebrate Christmas eve with my husband's Dad, Stepmother, his step brother and half sister and their families. My husband did not live with his Dad growing up (nor was his Dad actively involved in his upbringing) but his step brother (his step mom's son) and half sister (Dad and Step Mom's daughter) did. They also live closer to his dad and step mom. Every year they give the other grandchildren a little more than my son and it's obvious. For example, this Christmas they gave the other teenage grandchildren a gift card and an additional gift. They gave my son just a gift card...and it was for a lesser amount than the other grandchildren. Of course, my son was upset. I understand that they are closer to the other children because they see them more often but I can not believe how insensitive they are. This has been going on for several years but because he is getting older it has become more obvious. How can I help my son not to feel slighted?

2006-12-25 06:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by cantstopwontstop 2

2006-12-25 06:48:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6

If so, how do you handle it?


Example:

1) Getting involved in situations that have nothing to do with her.

2) Calling people she NO relationship with whatsoever except through me.

3) Not respecting or acknowledging that these things are inappropriate and acting entitled to do whatever she pleases or happens to feel like doing at the moment.

4) Trying to throw me on a guilt trip when I point these things out.

2006-12-25 06:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my mom were really close, she was my best friend and my shoulder to lean on when anything went wrong.

2006-12-25 06:27:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

he thinks his house is haunted?

2006-12-25 06:17:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

the other sister is wonderful. Is it ok that I would rather stay home alone on Christmas than spend time with my Mother and one sister?

2006-12-25 06:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by bananapeel317 1

In 2002, when I was one month pregnant, my husband died in a car accident. Since then his parents have been very supportive and very nice to me (both emotionally and financially). But I have remarried and I am pregnant with my second child.

My child is four years old now and she understands death. I have never mentioned her biological father before, but she is going to visit his parents this week and I remember they have a type of remembrance wall for him in their home. I know they will talk to her about him but how do I reconcile her two fathers afterwards? How do I explain about her dead father and the only father she has ever known?

2006-12-25 05:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by tiger_lilly33186 3

It was an inside job, Those who say otherwise are naive and dont believe us govt is corrupt

2006-12-25 04:34:54 · 10 answers · asked by Lightbulb 1

with family?
friends?
husband/wife?
with ur kids?

2006-12-25 04:26:18 · 7 answers · asked by adari94 2

i already have an ipod so what else should i ask for. my parents let me shop for it so that they dont pick out something wack

2006-12-25 04:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by ariraze703 1

Everytime I go to vist my inlaws, I always feel like I am invisible to everyone especially my sister in law. She seems to never want to talk to me or spend any quality time with me and whenever she has her other sisters in laws from her husbands side over the house and we are there at the same time visiting my husbands family she completely ignores me and acts like I am not even there. Its like she could care less about me. I have done a couple of things in the past to not like me anymore and whenever I try and make up for the things i have done in the past to her she still ignores me and pretends that I'm not there. No matter how much I try and be friendly with her she tries to ignore me and pretend she didn't hear what I said to her and goes about her business. So how do I deal with her actions and get her to like me more? She says she does like me and all but she doesn't show it that often like I wish she would and see that I am really not a bad person at all.

2006-12-25 04:14:16 · 14 answers · asked by Snowwhite30 1

i can`t stand my parents, they are alawys buging me, they don`t like my job and they ***** and complain about everything i do.

they even go in my room and soop.

they are always in my business.

i`m moving out in the new year i just have to find a place 1st.

so how do i get along with them til i move out.

i need to take 4 horses, dog , cat and rabbit with me.

2006-12-25 03:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by horses 2

2006-12-25 03:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by sabrina 3

Yesterday, I was reading a week old newspaper that arrived in the mail from my old hometown. My ex lives there along with my only child a daughter who was to graduate this coming June 2007.

As I do everytime i get this paper I read every page saving the obit's or the last. It's a small town and thus paper isn't more than 20 pages including classified ads.

I get to the last page which contains the obit's and first thing i see is a picture of my daughter and her obituary, she was killed in a traffic accident, the funeral was held and lists various family members including me and date and time the funeral was held.

I was in total shock I was and still am numb, but getting more furious by the minute that i wasn't notified of my daughter's death.

I feel like driving the 120 miles to this small town jerking my ex and her husband out of their house and beating their butts into the ground for not giving me the courtesy of so much as a phone call.
Am I wrong to feel this way?

2006-12-25 03:49:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has anyone noticed how its always white women who complain that their husbands are too close to their moms, but you never hear a black, hispanic, or asian woman complain.

How come white women hate it when their husband or boyfriends is close to his mom?

2006-12-25 03:47:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-25 03:40:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever i pay them a visit they are just so grumpy, they never go out, they have no hobbies or interests except watching TV, they were bad enough when I was young but they're unbearable now.

Its getting to the point where I just don't want to even go & see them anymore as its quite depressing.

what can I do?

2006-12-25 03:33:33 · 24 answers · asked by andylefty 3

So I became really close friend's with my Cousin's girldfriend. His Mother hates her. These past Holidays have been very uncomfortable and they never were in the past. It's obvious that my cousin's side of the fmily does not like the fact that she and I became friend's. What should I do?

2006-12-25 03:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my father and brother started a new business me and my husband were very happy for them, we were canvassing for them like mad.giving a lot of emotional support to them. i am the only daughter.but two years since then and we hav been actively telling people from our circle to go to their store.yesterday there was a big event at their store and half the town got invites except us.they only called up at the last minute when the event had started making it impossible for us to drive across town to be there . i am very upset.and feel ignored and seething from inside. how should i react though they gave vague explanations like forgetting etc etc.

2006-12-25 03:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by krazi sasha 2

Ok i got these gifts today for X-mas: a t-shirt, a hat, body wash, a book, and a box of truffles. I gave to my parents: my dad-a cool corckscrew, mom-a bath kit, grandma-sudoku things and a puzzle, and my sister-a two pack dvd. Yeah, its like every kid's nightmare christmas. How to respond?

2006-12-25 03:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because of xyz reason's , i don't love my wife, i have a kid, i don't want tomake his life misarable, so i can't fight and argue with my wife, but i am feeling that i start hating my wife. Still i need to live with her, as i and she both love the kid,Please suggest me the way, still living togather, i don't want to mess up with her, and want to show that i am living happily, also need suggestion to make focus on kid and job. Please do let me know , if what i am feeling is , any body has the same feeling. I want to run smooth, and also not want to feel bad, having more and more fight day and night.

2006-12-25 03:05:27 · 23 answers · asked by yjph 2

I'm living away from home and I didn't get anything from family or friends. Haven't even got a phone call yet. I did buy a few people some things but they must not have expected it or something. What can I do to brighten up the day a bit?

2006-12-25 03:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by dave v 1