Family - December 2006

I sent you one!!

2006-12-24 16:09:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello norma just wanted to wish you a happy christmas and a happy new year. sorry to have made an *** out of you in front of my brother, but now that i'm drug free i can defend my mom.she deserves it all in all respects. anyways, i want to say sorry for being so rude to u over the phone.as a new year comes around i want to start over with our sister in law friendship because you are my brother's wife. have a nice day ! love, veronica

2006-12-24 16:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-24 16:01:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom had always told me that i look prettier than others.....
but i always ask her why i'd never had a boyfriend and she says that Buddha gives everyone different fates...

2006-12-24 16:01:04 · 7 answers · asked by kraziemissie91 2

My dad's father past away a long time ago and I've noticed alot that he's been really badly effected. I remember after the first few days his father died he kind of started not doing anything with me anymore. Now i'm in his teens, he never does anything with me and hardly even looks at me or my mother. He has grown terribly out of shape and constantly screams about how he hates his job and practically has no initiative to do anything. He always yells and seems like he's mad, it's been atleast eight years since my grandpa died and my dad seems's really affected. Does anybody have any suggestions on what I should do?

2006-12-24 15:47:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will you go home for the holidays this christmas? Or does your family live to far away?

2006-12-24 15:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6

i am almost 18 years and have put up w/ years of crap from my parents and sister.....i dont have a problem w/ them just im sick of listening to my parents arguing w/ each other..........and them arguing w/ my sister......im also sick of my sister stealing my stuff all the time, keeping me up all night....i have a part time and a full time job and in high school so am not home that much but when i am it is hell.......but about a month ago my parents told me they were going to build me a room so can stay here and save my money while im in nursing school....and they are really trying to put the guilt trip on me now.......what do i do....i want to leave home so bad....i dont want to hurt their feelings even though they all have put me through years of hurting and hell......is staying home smart or what advice please.......................its been alm ost eightteen years and they are just now trying to fix things???????

2006-12-24 15:42:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 24 and currently living at home with my parents and younger (21 yo) brother. I'm planning on buying a house when I move out 6-8 months from now. I do like living by myself, and have before back in college. I moved back to my parent's house after I graduated from college but lately i've really starting to get that itch to leave and start brand new. As in - New job, New house, new Everything! I just got the new job and a good raise (thank goodness) so i'm ready to move. The thing is my younger brother (21) and also one older brother (28) are in the same position as me, all of us want to get a house, but I'm not sure if living together for another 15yrs (15yr mortgage) is a good idea. We do get along, but in the last 2 years we've really changed alot; Different friends, Different interests, Don't hang out, etc. Our relationship is still strong but we're not "friends". So should we commit to living together in the same house or should all three of us live seperately??

2006-12-24 15:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by Sam A 1

So much is going on. Im so jealous. He wants me to get a bigger butt. He is transfering to another university, I just had an abortion and now im depressed. We are happy most of the time but we have problems. Should i leave him

2006-12-24 15:32:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband doesn't want to go to his Dad's house tomorrow, because they got in a fight tonight about his brother. His brother makes comments to our children about how much they cry and how much better he is. He made comments throught the whole night and he got mad at his Dad and his step mother for not supporting him. My husband hates his brother, his brother is a mean person, and his wife finally got pregnant and I hope they get ten times fold what they are doing to our children. My husband likes to drink on the holidays with soda, and his stepmother was drinking more than him and she said to him " Your Dad told you to not drink anymore at our house" When his Dad did not say that. I have to go by myself to their house and I just can't believe this on christmas, what should I do?

2006-12-24 15:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5

I kind of new that he used something because of his behavior but his girlfriend admitted it to me. What should I do? Should I confront him? When should I confront him? When he is using? Should I tell my parents? please help me

2006-12-24 14:53:42 · 9 answers · asked by laverodepancho 1

ok if you have a big family and every body has at least 5-10 presents and you only get 1 what would you do even the kids

2006-12-24 14:29:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since tonight most families are together or they aren't do people get along with their brothers and sisters or do you stay away with a 10 foot pole!?

2006-12-24 14:28:54 · 23 answers · asked by shar 2

My family is all pretty close I guess, and I was with my teenage niece, and telling her how her parents met and stuff cause its a sweet story. Anyways, I mentioned at one point, they kind of "fooled around a bit" before they were married but I didnt go into much details and the story went on. Later that night my sister stormed into the room and practically ripped my head off because I told her daughter that. I was really apologetic, I honestly wasnt trying to be a jerk, but now my sis isnt talking to me much. Whats the deal? How can I fix this?

2006-12-24 14:25:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i run for it? or face them like the woman i am?!

2006-12-24 14:04:52 · 9 answers · asked by Nigh+mare 3

My parents have this huge fight yesterday. I'm very pi$$ed of because I have to move with my father in Alabama and my mom is moving to Maryland. I live in Texas, I want to go with my mother but my father wouldn't let me. I loved my mother more than my father. I'm 14 and my parents are moving tommorow. My Christmas is ruined, what can I do to go with my mother without my father interferring?

2006-12-24 13:49:16 · 13 answers · asked by yllkk 1

How can we deal with a wife which go wild upon asking is diiner ready?

2006-12-24 13:49:05 · 24 answers · asked by Muhammadi 1

I've been really busy lately and i bought alot of present for my family & friend but..... i forgot about my parents. =|
i know i know how can you forget them.
But im too late to buy them x-mas presents so im think about after christmas ill buy them something when im at the mall.
But i have no clue what to buy them any suggestions?
plss.

2006-12-24 13:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by Thrills 5

we have her full time and her mother has her every other weekend.. her mom tells her to be mean to me because the child has told me this..wat can I do too help this situation? she does things to be mean somtimes and when I tell her to not do that she jus ignores me or says well ur not my mother,, my boyfriend is on my side as far as the disapline part but hes not home full time with her I am hes at work..we have grounded her took things away from her hoping this will help and it hasnt..shes a very stubborn kid..omg I need some help..shes 11 and I was jus wondering if its maybe puberty or somthing and not ME...making her so mean.. she acts like she loves me to death until she does wrong and then olord she hates me...when I try and show her manners or morals..her parents where in a bad relationship and she has has no guideance until now.. I was rasied with good morals and and values in my life so I want her too have respect..is she too far gone for me to help?

2006-12-24 13:24:58 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Constance♥ 3

My brother in law's wife told me that he recently started using crack. She made me swear not to tell a soul. She is considerably younger than he and from a different country. I am worried about her and him. The messenger always seems to get shot in my husbands family and this son is the favorite. I dont know what to do.

2006-12-24 13:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by happywife&mom 2

I hate sounding selfish when I ask this question.. but I think now is the time where I'm entitled to be fed up with my family. To start, I just had major surgery this Wednesday (which my family knew about), and will be recovering for the next week. This surgery had been planned for the past 3 months and was a pretty critical surgery. My father, takes off to Canada with his girlfriend and her daughter on Friday and gets mad at me for not being able to go with them. My mother, books a vacation (3 weeks ago) with her boyfriend to spend a week in the Bahamas (she left on Thursday). My sister is on the other side of the country doing her own thing and would never have any interest to come over and help her big sis. Now I've always put my family first. I have a job that requires a lot of overseas work and I always will come home at the drop of a pin if my family asks me. Am I wrong for feeling like they crossed the line on this one? I'm spending x-mas with my dogs, in pain, and barely mobile

2006-12-24 12:58:08 · 15 answers · asked by Just Me 2

My Mom has been raising my little sisters daughter for the past 3 years. My sister is 21 and takes no initiative to raise her own child... so my Mom has taken over and my sister can do whatever she wants. She still lives at home with my parents, goes to college (when she feels like it) and doesn't have a job. I am 28 and I have a son. I work only 1 day a week and my Mom watches my son (and my niece) just that one day. But I'm getting upset because she just doesn't seem interested in my son. She dotes on and is obsessed with my niece who she says is "more my (her) daughter than her (my sister) mothers!" I come back from work and she is ignoring my son who she leaves to roll around on the floor and is catering to my niece. It seems like she isn't into him and it breaks my heart. I'm starting to not even want a relationship with her anymore. I've tried to talk to her about this and she just says "I love them the same" but it's obvious that she doesn't. What should I do?

2006-12-24 12:51:17 · 13 answers · asked by Debbie 1

I'm tired of us always being late! Me? I try to be as punctual as possible, but my parents always ruin it. Whenever we have a party, my parents aren't dressed when the guests come. I love them, but they can be really late, which embarrasses me (and I'm SURE it embarrasses them, as well). Any advice on what I should do now? My friend and her family are coming over to celebrat X-Mas, but my parents and brother aren't ready yet! And here's the BIG problem: our guests are usually on time! They are polite, and I don't want them to think we're not if my parents aren't ready by then. Please help!

2006-12-24 11:56:04 · 13 answers · asked by GrammarFreak 1

i got my belly peirced a few weeks ago and i dont think it is infected but just in case it does get infected how would i know??

2006-12-24 11:52:01 · 4 answers · asked by blondie_XxX_blondie 1

I have a 20 mnths old so. Father couldn't care less about him & doesn't even pay child support on time. I'm an only child and not close to my family at all. I know a lot of people but they don't bother to call me or come to see me and my son. I haven't been able to make new friends cause people aren't drawn to me and I fear rejection.
I have no car and can't get anything more than a $12/hr job even though I have a degree (so basicallly I have no $). I'm severely depressed b/c of my situation and my sad past.
I don't want my child to grow up w/ no family and no daddy like I did cause it's a terrible feeling. I no longer think I'm strong enough to raise him all alone. I want to put him up for adoption so he can grow up happy. On the other hand, I really love him and I know I'll miss him terribly. Plus most couples seeking to adopt are white and my son is black. Foster care is out of the question.

2006-12-24 11:45:02 · 19 answers · asked by heofoaf 1

What Do u celebrate? Christmas, Kwanza ,Hannukah ,Yule? And why?

2006-12-24 11:32:17 · 10 answers · asked by mariah!:) 2

my dad has a huge drinking problem n' every weekend his alwayz drunk. my dad wont take me or my family out. me n' my mom trying going out but my dad doesnt want us 2 out go b/cuz he doesnt wanna take care of my little brother. sumtimes i just wanna kill myself or just runaway. i told him dat im depress but he takes it like a joke. im just suffering by my dad side. n' his dropout he used smoke weed in front of me. his not a good father. im depress, im anorexia. i dont no wat 2 do.

2006-12-24 11:08:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering when a father is somewhere public with their daughter, ( ex. age 3-5) and they have to take their daughter to the bathroom, do they take them to the men's restroom?

2006-12-24 11:03:07 · 25 answers · asked by jen77 1

He had a mild stroke with some (hopefully temporary) effects on his left side. My family is there with him (sisters, mother etc...) but I am living in Europe, should I go to see him immediately or do I have time to wait , maybe when he is a little better, in a few months.

2006-12-24 11:00:57 · 25 answers · asked by ngc2400 1

When my brother was drunk he mentioned that his wife said my son wasn't cute. I know every mother thinks their kids all the cutest but I was seriously offended. Now I feel like if I have to see her for Xmas I might either end up starting a huge fight or kicking her ***. What would you do?

2006-12-24 10:44:28 · 22 answers · asked by golden2 1