So much is going on. Im so jealous. He wants me to get a bigger butt. He is transfering to another university, I just had an abortion and now im depressed. We are happy most of the time but we have problems. Should i leave him
2006-12-24 15:32:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If he is headed for med school no. He seems crazy but crazy people tend to be smart. dont let others jugde you and be happy that you are not dead
2006-12-25 14:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the boyfriend are you okay.My god you just got rid of a baby that will always hurt.You will blame him so i can;t see it working.I think for your sake you should see some one a professional that can help you with your depression.This will only get worst.I can;t believe all he thinks about is a bigger butt.If he really loved you he would have talked you into keeping this child what if you can never have a child ever ever.What then!! No wonder your depressed i would move away from him as far as you can girl you are wasting your time.
2006-12-24 23:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't love you just the way you are (he wants you to have a bigger butt), then I say dump him. He can't be so great if he wants you to change for him. What would happen if you do get this bigger butt and then he decides he liked you better with the smaller one after all?
2006-12-25 00:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he love you for you or does he want to change you. No matter who you go with he should always respect you and love you for you and not try to change you to fit what he desires. You deserve the best and nothing less. BE HAPPY WITH WHO YOU ARE!!!
peace,1 love
2006-12-24 23:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by poeticsoul127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stop and take a breather, I am exhausted just reading your question...Why do you think he is such a great bf...sounds like if you do not act, look and do everything he wants you are out anyway...better take stock in this and see why you are staying anyway......
2006-12-24 23:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a control freak, move on.
2006-12-24 23:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by niddlie diddle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u don't think that ur relationship is going how u want it to go then mayeb u should leave him.....but if u know that u can work things out and u love him to dead then don't!!! it will pay off soon
2006-12-24 23:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont change who you are for anyone period. You are beautiful the exact way you are. If your bf loves you he will accept that
2006-12-24 23:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by the_man11215 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound so great to me.
2006-12-24 23:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shold love you for who you are inside and out, so move on w/o him
2006-12-25 00:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋