My parents have this huge fight yesterday. I'm very pi$$ed of because I have to move with my father in Alabama and my mom is moving to Maryland. I live in Texas, I want to go with my mother but my father wouldn't let me. I loved my mother more than my father. I'm 14 and my parents are moving tommorow. My Christmas is ruined, what can I do to go with my mother without my father interferring?
2006-12-24 13:49:16 · 13 answers · asked by yllkk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If ur father has a lawyer talk 2 him. Also if ur mother has a lawyer do the same. If ur parents r going through the courts system for visitation rights, joint custody, or parental rights then u will have a law gardian since u r under 18 tell him. Ur parents @ some point have 2 go 2 court 4 the divorce papers & 2 b granted. U might have to be there till ur 16 BUT they might b able 2 work something out. Also which 1 has a safe place & income the court looks 2 this info as well when placing a child! If u have 2 move will u b able 2 c ur mother @ all!? I hope so ur father can't keep u away from her. Before u leave tell ur mom u want 2 b with her NOT ur dad! Why r u moving on Christmas? Does ur dad even care abt letting u have 1 more Christmas w/ ur mom? Ur father is not right sorry!! Hope this helps!! Try 2 have a Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-24 15:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ought to bypass both way, relies upon on the reason behind the divorce and how badly the toddler replaced into affected: a million - a divorce will be extra in all probability because the toddler has not witnessed completely the sanctity of marriage and hence ought to make certain to offer up at the same time as issues get difficult 2 - a divorce will be a lot less in all probability because the toddler knows first-hand the difficult time his mother and father (and he) had as an instantaneous outcome of the divorce, and does not favor to experience that (or for his little ones to experience that) hence he will be extra vulnerable to do even if it took to make the marriage artwork. Have i in my opinion responded your question right here or basically reported the glaring glaring? Apologies in case you experience I have!
2016-12-01 03:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh,i feel very sorry to hear this.divorce is bad 4 both parties involved.u as a son u can ask with the help of ur relatives n friends to calm down ur parents,think it carefully n slowly.if it's still can't be settled eventually,u've no choice but follow ur dadly according to law as u r more than 12 yr old.u still can come back to visit ur mom after that.
best wishes.
2006-12-24 14:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this just did not happen yesterday. I question a mother who would leave her child. Sounds like the arrangement have been made. Better just go with the plan or your life will be more miserable that it is now.
2006-12-24 13:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
By LAW you have the choice on who you want to live with!! The only way your father can take that away from you is if he can prove your mother to be unfit and unable to raise you.....I say if you want to go with your mom tell your dad that is who you chose to live with!!
2006-12-24 14:02:45 · answer #5 · answered by Floridapurrfection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age most courts consider your wishes regarding custody especially if there is out of state moving involved. In divorce cases children can get their own lawyer provided by the court to represent the children's wishes and welfare. Good Luck!
2006-12-24 13:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may be hard for you, but if it is a big deal to you, tell your mom you want to be with her and that she needs to fight for custody. Worst comes to worst, file a restraining order if it is that serious.
2006-12-24 17:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by amshamah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u should ask your parents why u cant go with your mom.
maybe they have a reason.......also, maybe it was your mom's idea to have u go with your dad.......remember, u don't have to cut off all conections with your mom.......if it doesn't work out perfectly, at least ask your dad if u can visit your mom once in a while......i don't see why not
2006-12-24 13:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kairi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a horrible time for a break up
i feel bad for you
i do not understand why you can't go with your mom if you want to..if it were me i would just take you anyway...
best of luck to you
2006-12-24 13:55:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO GO WITH YOUR FATHER
IN A FEW YEARS YOU CAN GO WITH YOUR MOTHER
2006-12-24 13:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋